nightangel73
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Question About Vaginal Births
Posted: 02-08-07 22:43pm
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Ok I never being prego but I do have a
questions to those who have being through
vaginal delivery. I mean does the vagina
really returns to the size it was before
after a vaginal delivery or do you guys
feel that you are more loose now? In
terms of sex does it feel the same
thightness as before the births?
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Re: Question About Vaginal Births
Posted: 02-08-07 22:48pm
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| nightangel73
wrote: | | ok I never being prego but I
do have a questions to those who have
being through vaginal delivery. I mean
does the vagina really returns to the size
it was before after a vaginal delivery or
do you guys feel that you are more loose
now? In terms of sex does it feel the
same thightness as before the
births? |
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Genipher
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Posted: 02-09-07 08:51am
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I haven't the slightest clue.....But I
wouldn't think that it would turn out the
same....But at the same time it doesn't
stay huge like the baby's head....
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Posted: 02-09-07 08:57am
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| genipher
wrote: | | i haven't the slightest
clue.....But I wouldn't think that it
would turn out the same....But at the same
time it doesn't stay huge like the baby's
head.... |
i have a horrible picture in my head
now.... Thanks .Gen :p
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 02-09-07 09:15am
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My husband says mine is tighter. I
believe him because sometimes it hurts....
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Nataliachick7
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Posted: 02-09-07 09:21am
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| tigresacanela24
wrote: | | my husband says mine is
tighter. I believe him because
sometimes it hurts.... |
how is that possible though..I mean we
just pushed a human being out of there
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Kia
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Posted: 02-09-07 09:26am
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Actually a lot of women find it tighter.
The vagina is a muscle and very very
flexible.
Just the same as it is possible to lose
all of your pregnancy weight and to be in
better shape after than you were before -
the same is true of the vagina - it can be
in better tone and condition after than
before.
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Posted: 02-09-07 09:27am
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| kia
wrote: | actually a lot of women find
it tighter.
The vagina is a muscle and very very
flexible.
Just the same as it is possible to lose
all of your pregnancy weight and to be in
better shape after than you were before -
the same is true of the vagina - it can be
in better tone and condition after than
before. |
i lost all of my weight and actually weigh
less than I did before the baby-im 110 now
and used to be 115-but, I lost all
firmness, I mean all-and have no tone
left.
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Kia
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Posted: 02-09-07 09:30am
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Tone and firmness can only come from
controlled exercise - yoga - pilates -
tums&bums work outs etc
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 02-09-07 09:40am
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I don't know. I guess since it went
aaaaaaallllllllll that time without seeing
any action..... 
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Magical Logic
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Posted: 02-09-07 10:06am
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I had 2 vaginal births and my husband at
that time said it felt tighter too
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 02-09-07 10:11am
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It's soooo weird. It feels different now
too. Like I can feel him in different
places than I did before. Feels a good
bit better now that we've got a few things
worked out.
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Posted: 02-09-07 10:16am
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Me too. Neil said it was tighter and
sometimes it was hard to get it in
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 02-09-07 10:26am
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Yeah so I think that story about it
getting stretched out is just that - a
story...
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Posted: 02-09-07 11:07am
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Mine's tighter than it's been in years -
maybe as tight as when I was a virgin.
The last two times I tried to have sex, I
tore. But I have painful scar tissue (had
a 2nd degree tear when I gave birth) and
zero sex drive, so that's my fault really,
because .I've been refusing sex for those
two reasons and only made the problem
worse.
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 02-09-07 11:09am
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Those sound like valids reasons to me.
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Posted: 02-09-07 11:11am
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| ayamiyaki
wrote: | | mine's tighter than it's
been in years - maybe as tight as when I
was a virgin. The last two times I tried
to have sex, I tore. But I have painful
scar tissue (had a 2nd degree tear when I
gave birth) and zero sex drive, so that's
my fault really, because .I've been
refusing sex for those two reasons and
only made the problem
worse. |
but doesnt that mean that its not
necesarily tighter...Like wouldnt it be
painful just for the reason that you have
scar tissue and that you arent into
it-therefore prob arent getting lubed
properly, so I think it would for those
reasons?
I just dont see how its possible to be
tighter....
Even my gyno told me that they never go
back to how they once were lol....
When I started having sex after the baby
it hurt for a while, but I didnt attribute
that to being tighter, I just figured that
things were different down there now.
When I look at mine in the mirror after
giving birth, it looks more "open" and my
gyno said that is expected.
Guess im the only one?
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Nataliachick7
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Posted: 02-09-07 11:13am
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| kia
wrote: | | tone and firmness can only
come from controlled exercise - yoga -
pilates - tums&bums work outs
etc |
and doesnt this contradict your orginal
post? How can the vag just be suddenly
tighter? You would have to do a ton of
kegals and exercise like you said.
Im lost.
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 02-09-07 11:15am
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I honestly don't know natalia. Mine's
tighter. My husband says so and I can
feel increased pressure on the walls down
there when we get it on. The entrance
looks about the same width to me. It
did look gapey for a couple months after I
gave birth but it honestly looks the same
to me now. Like I said I think the
geography's a little of course because he
hits spots I never felt him in before, but
the general consensus is tighter...
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Posted: 02-09-07 11:15am
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We use lube from a bottle, so that's not
the reason. Lots and lots of lube. And
we've gone very slow. But .I've still
torn (last night was our second attempt
and owwwwie).
I think it's the fact that my tear healed.
It might have overcompensated and healed
too much, if that makes any sense. When I
went for my postpartum checkup, my gyno
told me that my skin had grown over my
scar tissue, and that it might give me
issues.
All I know is that my bunny isn't
stretching like it's supposed to.
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