I Have Herpes. Whats Next? Posted: 02-09-07 07:06am
I have just contracted herpes, I need to
go back 1month later for swab tests to see
if gonerra and clamadyia has clear away.
3months later to do a blood test for
hiv.
I want to know how do people who has
herpes has sex? How does herpes affect
their sex lives? As herpes can be
transmitted just by skin contact, its
really hard to protect just by using
condoms because I have sores on bums and
thighs too. How do I protect my future
partner?
Can I still received oral sex?
Does it mean that everytime before sex I
had to check whether I had any possible
outbreaks, shedding or in "danger" times?
Does it mean there's no more adhoc
passtionate sex anymore?
Please advice.
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bkeme
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Jan 2007 Posts: 29
Posted: 02-12-07 05:25am
I really wish someone who had the same
experience can have a chat about it.
Thanks
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bongo1
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 May 2007 Posts: 1 Location: dungalo
Bumps Posted: 05-21-07 23:14pm
Yup. im a male. And I got it too. Type 2
down there, and type 1 up here. Maybe vice
versa as well. So I got 4 occurences. But
hey, what can you do. NADA.
Well, my grillfriend puts me in some
superthick boxers, pops my thing through
the boxer hole, and puts a condoodie on,
and wrapr rubber bands around ma dingaling
to keep the space between the condom and
my boxers shut. But its a hassle. So we
just stopped doin it. She gives great
handjobs, and Im now a finger acrobat. Its
sad being a man with a broken pee pee. But
sad to say thaT there is more to life than
bonin your chick, although it seems normal
givcen that you have a dong, and she has a
tootsi, and you get hormones, and most of
what keeps you together is she has some
gozongas, bootay, and chee chees, though
she dont know that, and if your a girl,
then its his niceness, his caring kisses,
and maybe his good looks, although yu just
cant admit to him that you really just
want a lover to nurture your kids, just
like he cant tell you that its your
breasts that really push his cranks.
We are all repressed, and we will
vehemently disagree, but we all know at
some level what pushes the cranks.
especially with guys. Yes girls can like
companionship, as well as guys can too
(surprisingly just think about your
grandpa, unless he watches porno still).
But at some other level, the who notion of
relationships are rooted at the level of
the thunder from down under, though some
result in friendships, when the libido is
no longer neato, but people go "ah, never
mind. I love you babe, cuz you were there
for me in this case over here, and that
case, and that time I sharted my pants at
AMPM." And that's love my friend, and with
it, you can have a relationship without
sex, while you are young, though your girl
might have to understand if you yoink
yourself, since you will get repressed
from not getting that tootsie (im assuming
you are a guy).
I hope you find something else to do than
bonk your girlfriend. You might give it to
her, and thats not cool. She will know she
got it from you. And you will feel bad,
and she will be in your predicamant, and
unable to meet other guys, so just dont do
it. Get some lube and let her jerk your
jerky, and say "me so horny me love you
long time." Its fun. I dont really care
about boning anymore, though I am the
horniest type guy a girl can meet. I
always wish i met a girl that had what i
have, but the girl I have right now, I
trust her alot. I know she aint gonna go
out and get me something else, like aids.
Herpes is a blessing when you realize what
it could have been, and it helps you to
stop. (if you are a guy)
If you area girl, then either you are
either a slooter, or some dongface could
not man up and tell you about his herpes,
or you didnt care to get tested. I chose
all three. Many times. Im lucky, and glad
herpes is all I got. And Im cool with a
handjob, my girl likes to be sexy for me,
and she puts on all sorts of cute clothes.
putting my dick in her is really no
different thatn in her hand when she rubs
my G-spot and squeesez my balls. (sorry to
be so vulgar). And she cuddles me after.
its great. Only thing is the SOCIAL STIGMA
that I was talking about earlier about
where your dong is supposed to go. Come on
how many minda vega pornos do you need to
see to realize where she wants you to
stick it.
If her hand was the answer, then putting
it in her vagina would be like getting a
hand job.
But If we could deny social stigma, then
we would mow our front yards in a bright
green neon string bikini. And i know you
aint gonna do that. So, Im very sorry.
But if you must, get medicine. it reduces
outbreaks by 98 percent, butyou can still
pass the virus. you should still wear
boxers, condom, and rubber band, or else
you will. I repeat, you will pass it to
your girl.
I am not an antiviral company telling you
everythign will be okay so you buy my
product. I am telling you the truth. I
know. Viruses are even spread through the
air, sheets, and clothing. though herpes
is not like the flu, you can give it to
your girl through your boxers in a snap.
Fortunately if she gets it, problem
solved. If she breaks up w/ u, then she is
messed up like you. So dont give it to
her. Be a big man, and go make some
burgers out back in your bar-b-Q. If your
girl likes you enough to not leave you
even with your herpes, then she is a
special girl. Make her a special
hamburger, and buy her some cute lingerie,
and tell her she is your "time capsule"
you are saving her for a special day.
bkeme
wrote:
I really wish someone who
had the same experience can have a chat
about it.
Thanks
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jcp644
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 May 2007 Posts: 10 Location: Arizona
Re: Bumps Posted: 06-04-07 12:56pm
This last person made it out to be like
you can't have sex with a woman. I'm
waiting to here from people and reading up
on this as much as I can cause I was just
diagnosed with herpes and this last guy
scared me. Because I'm going to have to
have sex again and any woman that I'm with
is going to want to have sex. Keep your
head up though and remember that just
cause you have an STD doesn't mean that
you are a different person or that someone
won't love you. I hope someone other then
this last person has knowledge for us
both...
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