Vaginal Irritation. Herpes Or Yeast Infection?

I year ago I went to my family doctor about red spots on my vagina that itched and burned. She took a look and said it was a yeast infection. She took a pap test and gave me cream. I then went back because the symptons returned this time with cuts that had a clear leaky fluid (which I remmber started on the space between my vaginal hole and butt hole when my boyfriend was to rough one night when we were having sex and pulled my butt checks apart. God knows why). She said the pap test was clear and gave me an ointment saying it must be from the soap I was using. It helped but agian it came back. I went back every month with the same symptoms and she kept taking pap tests and just gave me cream for yeast infections. Which I thought could be since i'm on the pill.


Then 17 days ago I went back with it being the worst it had ever been. I had red spots every where and was no way I could have sex because it was way to painful. Small cuts fom the top of my vagina all the way down to that space between my hole and butt hole. She took another look and said it was herpes. I was shocked and confused considering she look at the same thing for months and never told me that before. I had the same sexual partner for 4 years and am pretty sure he hasn't cheated on me. I asked her if it could be anything else and she said no the only thing you can get cuts from is herpes. And decided not to do any testing.


I then went to a different doctor to get blood work done. It came back unknown. One part said it was reactive another said non reactive and another part said unknown. He told me to get more blood work done because it was still unknown if I had it or not.


Now I still have red spots and cuts but my vagina is swolling and I have a rash on my legs that has gotten better since last night and white flaky skin on my vaginal lips and a little bit on my butt checks. I had genital warts before and it started almost like this and thought maybe they came back but the doctor said it wasn't. I also have white cottage cheese discharge that sometimes smells sour and yeasty. I got every other std test done and they all came back negative.
Does this sound more like herpes or a yeast infection or could I possiably have both at the same time. Also where it itchs (which is pretty much every where including the space between my vaginal lips and legs) my skin looks very dry and shiny looking with wrinkles. And when my skin pulls to much when it's like this more cuts form. When I itch it non stop small red bumps form and leak the clear fluid. The bumps between my lips and legs have stopped leaking and are now covered with the white flaky skin. But start to leak when I scratch agian and they seem like they cannot heal. I've never had a blister or a scab.


I need help bad. I have to wait through the weekend til monday to get another blood test done then wait another 2 weeks for the results and I need some advice to calm my nerves until then. Doctors don't seem to be helping me here. Can anyone give me some addvice to what it is please!


Ps- what does it mean when a blood test comes back undeterminded? Does that sound like it probuly will come back positive the next time?