Im 15 years old and cant believe I just
cried. I have a girlfriend who I love
with all of my heart and want the best for
her. She loves me to but I dont know why.
I dont have high self-asteam, I dont hang
out with people outside of school and I am
depressed/depressing. But my girlfriend
is very sociable and loves life, I dont
see whats to fall inlove with and im
afraid I wont ever be able to give her
what she deserves. I started crying and I
havnt cried in a long long long time, not
even when my aunt died over the summer. I
dont really know wat im saying here but I
just need soomeone to comfort me b/c I
cant stop crying.
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iyonah
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Feb 2007 Posts: 4
Re: Need to Talk to Someone Posted: 02-09-07 19:37pm
djs2105
wrote:
im 15 years old and cant
believe I just cried. I have a
girlfriend who I love with all of my heart
and want the best for her. She loves me
to but I dont know why. I dont have high
self-asteam, I dont hang out with people
outside of school and I am
depressed/depressing. But my girlfriend
is very sociable and loves life, I dont
see whats to fall inlove with and im
afraid I wont ever be able to give her
what she deserves. I started crying and
I havnt cried in a long long long time,
not even when my aunt died over the
summer. I dont really know wat im saying
here but I just need soomeone to comfort
me b/c I cant stop
crying.
its ok to cry -- just let it out and then
reflect on what's happening. I found out
I am pregnant today and I told my mom and
she began to ramble on about how single
parenting is and going on welfare, I
really needed someone to talk to and my
own damn mom couldn't be ther for me -- I
wanted to cry but didn't -- wish I could
just get it out though --- you take it
easy and take care smile and know that
life is short u must value every min of it
-- talk to ya girlfriend and see what you
guys can work on together so maybe u won;t
feel this way anymore
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louieann34
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Mar 2007 Posts: 95 Location: Philippines
Posted: 04-30-07 10:43am
Hi there,
Actually everybody cries, that is not a
problem...My boyfriend cries everytime he
is sad or felt pain..It is only
normal...And if you are worried about you
and your girl, and that you are not like
her that she enjoys her life...Why not ask
your girl for a help, I'm pretty sure that
she will be very welling to help you with
that...Try to share this problem with her,
and tell her how you feel...And enjoy eah
others company.
crying is the best thing that you can do,
it sort of cleans you up inside
and about your self-esteem, try to think
about the positive things about you and
start believing your gf when she tells you
that she likes you, she must, otherwise
she wouldnt be with you; im convinced
there are hundred good things about
you,just dont let anybody change you and
at some point stop questioning another's
person love coz that is actually their
territory and you will never understand
their true reasons. Maybe she just needs
you and you need her, so dont let fear
mess that up.
Im actually crying now and its really hard
to help another person when oneself is
also feeling quite depressive.
