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Volaremos

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Af Posted: 02-09-07 23:04pm


Hi hun well I think af is on her way as I am getting this bad cramps today. I am so depressed & sad . I have no one else to talk about ttc, as dh would be too sad if I talk about me not getting preg. Though he trys everything he can to comfort me. I am at work now & I would really like to go home because of this bad cramps. Good luck to you all. Thanks for you support always. Hugs

LuvBeingAMommy23

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Posted: 02-09-07 23:21pm


Hey vol! Hang in there sweetie... Alot of people told me that when they were pregnant that got af type craps. So you never know.. Until af shows for sure try to keep positive... Af arrived for me 12 days late now thats playing tricks...Lol hey and anytime you need to talk I am here.. I dont have anybody but dh and you ladies to talk to either.. I havent told my family that were trying for #2 yet...I hope af doesnt show for you.. Keep your head up and good luck... Lots of sticky baby dust

Volaremos

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Posted: 02-10-07 00:04am

luvbeingamommy23 wrote:

hey vol! Hang in there sweetie... Alot of people told me that when they were pregnant that got af type craps. So you never know.. Until af shows for sure try to keep positive... Af arrived for me 12 days late now thats playing tricks...Lol Sad

hey and anytime you need to talk I am here.. I dont have anybody but dh and you ladies to talk to either.. I havent told my family that were trying for #2 yet...I hope af doesnt show for you.. Keep your head up and good luck... Lots of sticky baby dust Smile

thanks hun

i too havent told anyone about our ttcing not even friends or family. I am so glad that I have girls like you here.
Just feel free to talk to me at any time.

Good luck for next cycle

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Posted: 02-10-07 02:27am

volaremos wrote:

luvbeingamommy23 wrote:

thanks hun

i too havent told anyone about our ttcing not even friends or family. I am so glad that I have girls like you here.

Just feel free to talk to me at any time.

Good luck for next cycle

i have only told a few people besides you ladies... And each month that goes bye and af shows it is so depressing.. Exspecially this past month when af was 12 days late.. I tried not to get my hopes up but it was kinda hard not to since af was a no show.. So it helps when you can talk about it so it doesnt get you down as much as holding it all in.. Cause I know I only want to talk to dh about it so much cause I dont wanna get him down about it too.. You can always private message me to if you want.. I get on this site many times a day...Lol so how long have you been ttc? How old are you? How long have you been married? Sorry about the questions..Lol I was just wondering Smile

to let you know I am 23 will be 24 in july.. I live in florida.. Dh and I just celebrated our 2 year ann. On the 4th.. We have been ttc baby #2 since oct-nov. I think dh and I are going to wait till april-may to start trying again we want to space the months out between b-days...Lol we already have my sons b-day on dec. 12th then christmas..Lol I really want to keep trying but I dont want them that close in months.. But I wanna be pregnant again soo bad.. I loved it.. It seems like everyone around me is pregnant Sad

I am happy for them all but I want it to... But anyhow I could just on typing so I need to stop somewhere..Lol keep in touch and good luck sweetie..

Extra extra baby dust to you Wink

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Re: Af
Posted: 02-10-07 04:23am

volaremos wrote:

hi hun

well I think af is on her way as I am getting this bad cramps today. I am so depressed & sad .

I have no one else to talk about ttc, as dh would be too sad if I talk about me not getting preg. Though he trys everything he can to comfort me.

I am at work now & I would really like to go home because of this bad cramps.

Good luck to you all.
I
thanks for you support always. Hugs

i am ttc too!!! Talk to me about it? Rolling Eyes

im three month new to this forum and havent talk to much people... Crying
or Very sad

shortgeek

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Posted: 02-10-07 08:06am


I hope that witch stays away, vol!

Volaremos

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Re: Af
Posted: 02-10-07 23:15pm

reneblack wrote:

volaremos wrote:

i am ttc too!!! Talk to me about it? Rolling Eyes

im three month new to this forum and havent talk to much people... Crying
or Very sad

hi rene

well you can always talk to any of us here. I know all the girls here are very nice & supportive & you can always pm me if you like to talk.

Volaremos

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Posted: 02-10-07 23:17pm

shortgeek wrote:

i hope that witch stays away, vol!

she is here. Guess she cant live without me Crying
or Very sad

. I have been crying my eyes out.

No anniversay bfp for me.

Good luck to all others waiting.

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Posted: 02-10-07 23:55pm


Oh vol.. I am so sorry to hear af showed... Keep your head up and remember everything will happen when its ment to.. Yeah I know easier said then done... I am hear if you need to talk.. I just went through the same this this mo. Af showed on our ann. The 4th af is such a b**** just hang in there and dont give up...Good luck

Volaremos

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Posted: 02-10-07 23:59pm

luvbeingamommy23 wrote:

oh vol.. I am so sorry to hear af showed... Keep your head up and remember everything will happen when its ment to.. Yeah I know easier said then done... I am hear if you need to talk.. I just went through the same this this mo. Af showed on our ann. The 4th Sad

af is such a b**** Sad

just hang in there and dont give up...Good luck

thanks hun, sometimes I feel like I am so weak & want to be strong like most of the girls here.

Well I dont know what I would do without you girls.

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Posted: 02-11-07 00:01am


Vol, my sweetie. I am so sorry to hear about that nasty af showing her ugly face again to you this month i know it's heartbreaking, but you must keep trying and keep that chin of your up ok?! I am thinking about you. Pm me if you need to talk!

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Posted: 02-11-07 00:35am

shortgeek wrote:

i hope that witch stays away, vol!

who is a witch...???? Confused

Volaremos

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Posted: 02-11-07 00:41am

jaemierin wrote:

vol, my sweetie. I am so sorry to hear about that nasty af showing her ugly face again to you this month Evil or
Very Mad

i know it's heartbreaking, but you must keep trying and keep that chin of your up ok?! I am thinking about you. Pm me if you need to talk! Wink

thanks hun

i have already send you a pm. I just need a big big hug from all of my friends here.

Rene "witch" is af ( aunt flow) or periods.

shortgeek

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Posted: 02-11-07 09:51am


Vol - just remember that its okay to be sad when you get af. It is a sign of how much you want a baby. However, because you want a baby, you also have to pull yourself out of it so you can try again the next month. We're here for you for support. It' a darn good thing ovulation doesn't come on cd 3, because a lot of us wouldn't be emotionally ready by then. Here's a big hug...

Volaremos

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Posted: 02-11-07 22:47pm

shortgeek wrote:

vol - just remember that its okay to be sad when you get af. It is a sign of how much you want a baby. However, because you want a baby, you also have to pull yourself out of it so you can try again the next month. We're here for you for support. It' a darn good thing ovulation doesn't come on cd 3, because a lot of us wouldn't be emotionally ready by then.

Here's a big hug...

thanks hun, I needed the big hug thing.

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Posted: 02-12-07 09:18am


Vol - sorry it didn't happen for you this month. I know exactly how you feel each month that passes and no baby. I go into an instant state of depression as soon as she starts to show her face. I stay in that mode for about the same time that she is around, then I snap out of it and start trying again. I am just getting over it this time and about to start trying again this month. Good luck and tons of baby dust for the attemps this month. Don't worry the feelings will go away and you will be back to your old self again...

Volaremos

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Posted: 02-12-07 23:04pm

*star* wrote:

vol - sorry it didn't happen for you this month. I know exactly how you feel each month that passes and no baby. I go into an instant state of depression as soon as she starts to show her face. I stay in that mode for about the same time that she is around, then I snap out of it and start trying again. I am just getting over it this time and about to start trying again this month.

Good luck and tons of baby dust for the attemps this month.

Don't worry the feelings will go away and you will be back to your old self again...

thanks star

yeah thats what happens to me too .

Well good luck to you.Hope you get a bbfp this time. Sending tons of baby dust.

negar

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Getting Pregnant Posted: 02-12-07 23:32pm


Hi ladies, i am new to this site and I think I really need to be a part of trying to get pregnant group... I have been married for 2 1/2 years and have had two miscarriages. I didn't have too much trouble getting pregnant, but couldn't maintain them. Anyhoo, they said I have a thyroid situation and there is nothing they can do and I should just keep trying. I started clomid last month and am hoping for the best. I am 35, soon to be 36 and this is really hard, so I totaly understand how you are feeling. The good news is that you are getting your af and that is a good thing as far as ovulation. Good luck-

Volaremos

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Re: Getting Pregnant
Posted: 02-13-07 00:00am

negar wrote:

hi ladies,
i am new to this site and I think I really need to be a part of trying to get pregnant group... Confused

I have been married for 2 1/2 years and have had two miscarriages. I didn't have too much trouble getting pregnant, but couldn't maintain them. Anyhoo, they said I have a thyroid situation and there is nothing they can do and I should just keep trying. I started clomid last month and am hoping for the best. I am 35, soon to be 36 and this is really hard, so I totaly understand how you are feeling. The good news is that you are getting your af and that is a good thing as far as ovulation. Good luck-

hi negar

welcome to the forum. Well we have a lovely group here, I hope you like it here.

I am sorry about your losses. Hope you get a full term happy & healthy pregnancy soon.
Good luck . Sending tons of baby dust.

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Getting Pregnant Posted: 02-13-07 00:25am


Thank you so much for the welcome.