Joined: 10 Feb 2007 Posts: 128 Location: Edinburg, Texas, United States
Difficult Thoughts Posted: 02-10-07 04:04am
A while back, I dated "adam". After about
a year, we began falling in love with each
other, but our relationship ended with us
fighting way too often. He was my first
love and i'll admit I still feel some
great attachment to him and he still has a
place in my heart. Since the breakup,
i've moved on to date other people and
have grown attached to my recent boyfriend
"steve". I really feel like he could be
the one.
Here's my problem: I recently began
talking to adam online. It's not serious
conversation, just random talking and just
words between friends. A few weeks ago,
adam told me that he still has feelings
for me, despite the fact that he has a
girlfriend and that he still thinks about
me. He also mentions that he dreams about
us being romantic with each other. I've
also had these types of dreams once or
twice. I've even found myself thinking
about him again and what it would be like
if we were to ever act out these dreams.
I have no intention of ever cheating on
steve or doing something that low to him.
I'm just wondering if it's wrong of me to
be thinking this way or if it could be
considered normal.
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Color of Paper
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Jan 2007 Posts: 171 Location: Long Beach, Ca
Posted: 02-12-07 11:15am
Hi there. Id say its normal, people have
these type of feelings/thoughts all the
time...Espeically with your first love.
I wouldnt worry about it to much but you
gota remeber why you guys broke up...This
is something that just might alwasy be
between the 2 types of people you guys
are.
Also I would keep "steve" in the
known...As long as this is harmless
conversation and what not theres no reason
for him not to konw.
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atx1975
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Feb 2007 Posts: 8 Location: Austin,Tx to San Diego, Ca
Posted: 02-23-07 19:02pm
I am going to say stop talking Adam, but
seeing as how thats prolly not something
your willing to do, remember the things
that cause you to break in the first
place. Also remember we tend to remember
alot of the good times and forget the bad
times when reflecting on relationships,
thats human nature. Chances are if you got
back with him, it would be a matter of
time before yall both realized why you
broke up in the first place.
