Yeah, I know that my friend would babysit,
she kinda owes me big time since hubbys
been watching hers too the past 3 days we
went to the gym and iw atched em 8 hrs a
couple weeks ago. Maybe this weekend it
can be like a valentine, talk it over
dinner, make him take me to the japanese
place in regensburg and then we can talk
over dinner and stuff. We dont ever do
anything alone with out kids and even
trying to talk with a screaming baby and
the other one throwing toys at ya cuz its
funny its hard to get jason to listen or
even hear what I say. I think though
during the week I am gonna like write down
the things I have problems with etc most
of it I dunno it bothers me but I can
handle it but then being depressed and him
acting like I brought it upon myself that
just doesnt help at all, I didnt ask to be
depressed, although he thinks I did
somehow. Its just grr I gotta like get
him to understands what it means etc ,
evidently hes soooooooo perfect and has
never had mental health issues ever so he
doesnt know what im going through exactly
and I can be a real b***h when I havent
taken meds , I was on antidepressants
before joseph was born and got back on em
afterwards and people can notice a
difference in my attitude when I take them
verses when idont so iknow for a fact meds
would help alittle bit cuz I know I drive
him crazy at times but its the way he
handles situations that just bugs me to
death.
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Magical Logic
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Mar 2006 Posts: 2248
Posted: 02-11-07 17:48pm
Sounds great you guys go out and talk
about things.........But what if he
returns to being the same problem a week
or so later just how long are you willing
to deal with it? I remember you saying
you have talked to him before about this
stuff what makes you think this time he
will get it and understand and change?
Not trying to start a drama fest just
asking her questions
Yeah but most of the other times we were
at home with the kids and it turns into an
argument, so maybe being ina public place
he will listen , I dont think he
understands that moms need breaks too.
But he had offered to watch the kids when
we were gonan do the girls night out
saturday but then I ende dup feeling
depressed and not going . We plan on
doing it sometime though.
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tigresacanela24
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Nov 2005 Posts: 5261 Location: Treat your children well, eventually they'll choose your nursing home.
Posted: 02-11-07 18:51pm
chase4
wrote:
there are ways for you to
leave if you really wanted
to.
what ways? I'm curious. I want to
leave my husband because he's a selfish
health questions but if I do i'll be
screwing myself financially. I don't
have money for childcare and I don't
qualify for any childcare assistance. If
I left him I wouldn't bve able to live and
he'd never pay spousal or child support
consistently. I wouldn't be able to
figure that into my income.
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Magical Logic
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Mar 2006 Posts: 2248
Posted: 02-11-07 19:05pm
tigresacanela24
wrote:
chase4
wrote:
there are ways for you to
leave if you really wanted
to.
what ways? I'm curious. I want to
leave my husband because he's a selfish
health questions but if I do i'll be
screwing myself financially. I don't
have money for childcare and I don't
qualify for any childcare assistance.
If I left him I wouldn't bve able to live
and he'd never pay spousal or child
support consistently. I wouldn't be
able to figure that into my
income.
sorry about your
sitution but I was talking about hers with
her husband being in the army.
