Joined: 27 Jan 2006 Posts: 10756 Location: the land of sheer exhaustion,
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Pregnant? (and a Vent) Posted: 02-10-07 17:24pm
Nope. I got my period just as we were
heading out today. So yay for that!
I just need to vent a bit so i'll do it
here.
This morning I was complaining about the
monster amount of laundry I needed to do
and nick said that he would do it and I
should just relax today and consider this
my day off.
Well... We went out and ran some errands,
we get home and he plops down in front of
the computer leaving me to put everything
away (food and clothes that we'd bought),
then finn's fussing and i'm trying to sort
the laundry. So I change finn and put him
on the couch and nick asks why I don't put
him down for a nap, I tell him he needs a
bottle first. So I go about putting the
laundry in the washer and getting the next
load ready and I come back and finn's
still sitting on the couch and nick's
still at the computer. So I make a bottle
and I guess he finally got it because he
did feed him while I unloaded and then
loaded the dishwasher. He finishes
feeding finn and hands him over because he
needed to
go take a nap.
So now finn's overtired and cranky because
we were out for a long time and it messed
up his nap schedule, I can't get him to
sleep and he got so worked up fussing in
his crib that he spit up. I cleaned it up
and laid him back down and he did it
again. So nick's napping away and i'm
sitting here with a cranky baby who
desperately needs a nap.
I should consider this my day off? I'd
take an average day over this.
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ladylee70
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Joined: 14 Nov 2006 Posts: 1912 Location: Boise, Idaho,
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Posted: 02-10-07 17:30pm
Men!
He sounds so much like my husband. When
some men hyperfocus such as sitting on a
computer, it basically takes a fire to get
their butts out of the seat and doing what
they promised. The handing finn over
because he needs to take a nap would have
me steaming!!! It would take all of my
strength not to throw water over his head.
Is this typical behavior for him???
Sorry you have to deal with this all.
Grrrrr...............................
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Bridget
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Joined: 27 Jan 2006 Posts: 10756 Location: the land of sheer exhaustion,
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Posted: 02-10-07 17:33pm
He's actually never like this. Maybe
that's why it's irking me so much. He
usually does do some chores on the
weekend, like laundry or vacuuming or
cleaning the bathroom. But to tell me to
take it easy and have "a day off" and then
I end up doing everything, it made me want
to scream.
Maybe I would have liked a nap!
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tigresacanela24
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Nov 2005 Posts: 5261 Location: Treat your children well, eventually they'll choose your nursing home.
Posted: 02-10-07 20:47pm
Right now my husband's busy acting like I
don't exist because his best friend is
visiting from florida. He got soooo
upset because he thought that I wasn't
going to cook. So I make a giant puerto
rican dinner and they went out to eat
italian. I couldn't go because we can't
find a sitter... Great! Don't you just
love men?
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yellow ribbon
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 07 Dec 2005 Posts: 5554 Location: FL
Posted: 02-10-07 23:20pm
Obviously yall dont have the magic I do.
Im sick and steven has done .Everything
today. Sometimes I have to ask him cuz he
doesnt know what to do on his own lol
sorry your having bad days ladies.
My husbands friend was here last week and
I was like no way im staying home alone
with both monsters im going too. They had
their boy time when I went to bed!
I find sometimes .Brian makes my day more
complicated then when he is at
work........... Men don't get it
sometimes
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Magical Logic
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Mar 2006 Posts: 2248
Posted: 02-11-07 09:37am
Yeah I would be mad to if my husband acted
like that. Maybe today he will do stuff
around the house and let you rest.
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Mommy35
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Sep 2006 Posts: 3166 Location: Vacationland, USA,
Posted: 02-11-07 09:45am
I feel for you!!! Mike will crab at me,
telling me to .Go .Sit .Down and get off
your feet. Then he puts on a football
game or goes online. Not a lot gets done
if I don't do it, or have a major head
fit, which isn't my style.
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