Confused And In Need of Help And Advice???????????? Posted: 02-11-07 14:15pm
I had a complet m/c on the 20th dec I was
6wks gone at this time.I passed the
gestational sac (which was painful) I got
caught in the first month after I had
stopped taking the pill my m/c was put
down to this as I had been on the pill
since I was 14 due to painful
periods!Since I had the m/c we had used
condoms and then on the 23rd of jan I had
a bled which I think was my period but I
cant be sure as it was very light and
lasted for 3 days and I was told that
after my m/c my first period would be very
heavy and very painful I had none of this
so since this time we have used nothing
and then on the 7th feb I had a bled which
I can only explian as a red fluid it wasnt
thick enough for blood (i am a ex
veterinary nurse) which wasnt very heavy
it filled my panty liner but then it
staopped and I have had nothing since!I
did a test yesterday to see what was going
on and if I was pregnant or not and the
result came back as neg.I have slight
bresast tenderness!I really want to try
again and concieve this time!I was told I
could try as soon as I was ready and I
dint have to wait for a period if I didnt
want to!Please advice or help x
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 02-11-07 14:20pm
I think the best thing for you to do at
this point would be to go to see your
ob-gyn. They will do a blood test to see
if in fact you had a m/c. If you don't
want to get pregnant again maybe you
should talk to them about a form of
birthcontrol that might help with the
bleeding. After a m/c it may take your
cycle to go back to normal.
Good luck and keep us updated.
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thereisonlyonebrightstar
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Posted: 02-11-07 15:21pm
Thankyou for you reply with help and
support take care xxx
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 02-11-07 15:30pm
thereisonlyonebrightstar
wrote:
thankyou for you reply with
help and support take care
xxx
not a problem
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ladylee70
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Posted: 02-11-07 15:41pm
Deleted due to my own reading
comprehension problems....Oops.
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Mabel
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Posted: 02-11-07 16:14pm
It sounds like the .Jan 23 one was
probably your period. If you had a d
& c, and even if you didn't, it
doesn't mean you'll have a 'heavy' period
the first one after a miscarriage. It can
take some women awhile before they resume
their regular cycle due to the hormones
involved in pregnancy.
The bleed you had in .Feb sounds like it
was midcycle spotting and not meant to be
a period at all. This can be normal
coming off the pill and also having your
body adjust to a miscarriage.
The previous posters advice that you might
still be pregnant is completely misleading
and please don't listen to it! I am
confident that if you miscarried your
doctor took all the precautions to make
sure that is exactly what happened. If
pregnancy tests are negative you are not
pregnant.
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thereisonlyonebrightstar
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Posted: 02-11-07 16:21pm
I think you could be right thanks for the
advice i'll keep you all posted take care
xx
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ladylee70
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Posted: 02-11-07 19:34pm
Sorry! I incorrectly read the first
post. The post stated that the
pregnancy test came back negative instead
of positive. I can see why ingi stated
that my posting was misleading. For
some reason I thought the poster wrote
that the test came back as not being
negative ....Reading comprehension
problems. Completely disregard my post.
I apologize for writing what I did.
And if it caused any confusion.
Of course, it would be a completely
different story if the test came back
positive.