I think a lot of this is from my "mommies
and mommies to be" post. I started the
post to help some people relize how hard
it is to have a baby at a young age. Not
saying all 16 y/o are not ready but
honestly we all know that most do not have
a secure job, education or someone that is
going to stick around forever. I felt
that some girls come on here and talk
about how they are trying to have a baby
when they are probably not ready. I dont
want to be the one to reply and look like
a health forum by saying that I dont think
someone is ready. I wanted it to be a
post someone may read and think "wow, i'm
really not ready" and know that we all are
doing a good job by helping some people
that are not ready relize that. No one
pointed fingers. I feel like kitty got
people going by saying that she smokes
weed everyday and that she might be
pregnant. Of course people are going to
have something to say about a comment like
that. There are certain things I do not
share with with you ladies because I dont
want anyone to think anything negetive
about me-like when I told you all about
the abusive relationships i've been in. I
didnt tell you all right away cause I
didnt want to hear the negetive comments
that could come out of it. I think we
should keep that in mind before we share
things that may offend someone or may end
up getting ourselves offened by others
opinions.
I just want everyone to get along here you
are all great people. kitty-i didn't
mean to put you on the spot but I just
wanted to clear things up. If it makes
you feel better I dont think smoking weed
is as harmful as other drugs and I used it
occasionally in the past, I just want to
tell you that.
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sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 3099
Posted: 02-10-04 09:48am
I see what u mean but if a young girl
really wants a baby then she will b so
determined that nothing with stop her.I
think there r many girls on here who r
responsible enough 2 b parents-just look
at stacie-shes young but shes a brilliant
mom to sean.
I dont think its right that so many girls
come here saying "i think im pregnant-i
had unprotected sex".Wake up peoplel! If
u dont take precautions,u will get
pregnant eventually! If ur not ready 4 it
then be careful! Its that simple.I know
some1 who had an abortion cos she was too
damn lazy to go to the doctors and get
herself on the pill.
So-we're all entitled to offer advice
because we're all allowed opinions on
here.I think we should be careful what we
say and im trying to be picky but be
careful what u say because although
cannabis might not be as harmful as other
drugs,people can die from it and a guy did
die from it here last week.Just so people
r aware thats all.
Look after yourselves and ur babies
every1
liz x
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 2729 Location: Pittsburgh,PA
Posted: 02-10-04 10:17am
Liz I have a friend who can relate to this
girl..Get this
this girl name colleen, really pretty
girl, upper class. Had unprotected sex
with this other kid in my class davie,
really upper class kid. Well she ended up
pregnant but was scared to tell her
parents, so she went to davies parents
instead. Davies parents said that they
would help to support the baby and what
not, but that was the last they heard
about it, she went and had an abortion
because she was so scared..
Well now davie, just 6 months later, has
yet another girl pregnant. Denise, a
pretty girl, a cheerleader, a girl with a
future, but they had unprotected sex, what
do you wanna bet that she goes and gets an
abortion. I am sorry but I dont think
that this is right, I mean wrap it up.
Just wanted to share
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sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 3099
Posted: 02-10-04 11:02am
Thanks for sharing stacie.These people are
so dumb.Dont they listen in class when
theyre being told about contraception? It
makes me so mad that they can be so
careless and then get an abortion because
they werent ready 4 a child. If people
arent ready then they shouldnt have
unproteced sex.
Sorry....This just makes me so angry
because I hate abortion
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 2729 Location: Pittsburgh,PA
Posted: 02-10-04 11:13am
Liz, your welcome. And I feel the same
way you do. But I do have to admit I
listened to the lectures in class, and I
still had a baby..But then again, I cant
really tell you that mine wasnt
planned...If I wanted to be honest I would
say yes it was planned.. I dont
know..Maybe one day the law will change
and everything will be better for
everyone...Abortion is wrong..
My favorite quote:
"if we are all old enough and mature
enough to law down and have sex, then we
should be old enough and mature enough to
accept the "consequences"(if that is what
you wanna call them)"
stacie
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sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 3099
Posted: 02-10-04 16:56pm
That quote is so true! I hope the laws
with change but chances are,they never
will.Im glad there r people out there like
you stacie :d ur a sweet girl
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 2729 Location: Pittsburgh,PA
kitty-i didn't
mean to put you on the spot but I just
wanted to clear things up. If it makes
you feel better I dont think smoking weed
is as harmful as other drugs and I used it
occasionally in the past, I just want to
tell you that. 
