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Help Leaving Miguel

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tigresacanela24

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Help Leaving Miguel Posted: 02-12-07 08:23am


I need help leaving miguel. Any ideas how I can store up some money out of my quickly redistributed income or any known work at home opportunities so that I can save up enough money toleave him within a six month timeframe? I have to get my bank account healthy again so that I can get out of here. He's not a husband, he's a second child and I don't think that is ever going to change because he's already 32 years old and still shows no signs of ever thinking about anyone besides himself. I can do badly by myself. I don't need someone that only thinks about his own wants and needs when he has a wife and child. For that kind of life he should have stayed single and kept his wee-wee in his pants.

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Posted: 02-12-07 08:46am


Ummmm, i'm gonna e-mail you.

Sunflower_pie81

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Posted: 02-12-07 08:57am


Kay I really dont' know how to help you with this. But if you want to talk it out pm me. Love you girl.

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Posted: 02-12-07 09:29am


I emailed you a novel it seems. Lol

Magical Logic

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Posted: 02-12-07 09:36am


I wish I knew how to help you but if you lived closer after u left him I would watch your son for free so you would not have to worry about childcare.

Emma2

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Posted: 02-12-07 09:36am


Sorry to hear ...Im not sure how to go about it but I know sometimes we gotta take out the trash to make room for the good stuff.

seksiHily

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Posted: 02-12-07 09:49am


First off are you married?

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Posted: 02-12-07 10:01am

seksihily wrote:

first off are you married?

she clearly stated that in her post.

Sunflower_pie81

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Posted: 02-12-07 10:23am


Kay, your a very strong woman, and I think that if you set your mind to it you will be able to crack down and make this work if you think it's best for you and .Chu. Leaving someone isn't easy and haveing every dollor alloted for doesn't make it much easier. Start off my making small changes in your spending habits. I think that is the easiest way to start off.

Eyes Wide Shut

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Posted: 02-12-07 10:46am


hit me up girl. Sarah

Melissa_20

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Posted: 02-12-07 10:48am


Wow kay,well I don't know what to tell you.When are you going to tell him? Can't you get a seperate account under only your name and put money in it little by little?Do you have any credit cards to pay off? If you don't want him knowing yet that your saving money then tell him your paying off the credit card(s),or here and there you "bought some things for .Chu" or yourself.You could look online in jobs,like monster.Com or something,there is something to do with stuffing envelopes and they send you the materials at home and it pays ok.

tigresacanela24

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Posted: 02-12-07 13:33pm


Mel, do you know anyone who's ever done that? I thought it was a scam... Jess, i'm not ignoring you, I haven't checked my email. I'm going to check it now. Thanks everyone for being so supportive.

Melissa_20

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Posted: 02-12-07 13:49pm

tigresacanela24 wrote:

mel, do you know anyone who's ever done that? I thought it was a scam... Jess, i'm not ignoring you, I haven't checked my email. I'm going to check it now. Thanks everyone for being so supportive.

my friend was going to do it,she said it was for real but she ended up getting hired somewhere and decided not to do it.Its on monster.Com so i'm assuming its legit.

tigresacanela24

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Posted: 02-12-07 13:53pm


I'm not telling him until i'm ready to go. I think it's far better to present him with it fait accompli. That way he doesn't have a chance to screw me over first.

Melissa_20

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Posted: 02-12-07 13:55pm

tigresacanela24 wrote:

i'm not telling him until i'm ready to go. I think it's far better to present him with it fait accompli. That way he doesn't have a chance to screw me over first.

very true.Do you really think he would try to screw you over? Where are you gonna go/move to?

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Posted: 02-12-07 13:55pm

tigresacanela24 wrote:

i'm not telling him until i'm ready to go. I think it's far better to present him with it fait accompli. That way he doesn't have a chance to screw me over first.

lol I kept warning mikey i'd leave and I know he didn't believe me till I showed up with a lease (we get yearly leases on places in quebec) and started packing.

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Posted: 02-12-07 13:59pm


We do sound like we are going through some similar things. I am so sorry everything is happening to you. I have heard about stuffing envelopes but someone told me you have to pay some money out of your pocket. I don't know if any of that is true. I would be interested in something like that right now as well. Is this why you were asking about places to live before?

tigresacanela24

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Posted: 02-12-07 14:03pm


I'm soooo not slick if everyone picked up on it! Lol! Yeah, we're all going to go on vacay to pr as planned and when i'm down there I want to look at houses. I want to find one and move with chu down there. I looked on monster for a job, but now i'm going to look for something work from home and i'll probably check craigslist.Com too.

Melissa_20

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Posted: 02-12-07 14:03pm

ladylee70 wrote:

we do sound like we are going through some similar things. I am so sorry everything is happening to you.

I have heard about stuffing envelopes but someone told me you have to pay some money out of your pocket. I don't know if any of that is true. I would be interested in something like that right now as well.

Is this why you were asking about places to live before?

yeah,i think my friend would have had to pay $35 or soemthing along those lines. Not sure what for tho. . .My boss also told me about it and she said the for real ones are on monster.Com.She wouldn't try anything outside of that.

Eyes Wide Shut

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Posted: 02-12-07 14:16pm

tigresacanela24 wrote:

I looked on monster for a job, but now i'm going to look for something work from home and i'll probably check craigslist.Com too.

craigslist.Com is the sh;t for finding a job!!!

Girl, it makes me wish I had called you back last night! Crying
or Very sad

sarah