Ok my husband and I have been havin anal
sex for quite some years and its nice we
both enjoy it, but my question is all is
good as far as the comfort level goes
until I have an orgasim then I just want
it out seems like after that point it is
exstreamly uncomfortable. Anyone know
maybe why that is or maybe some advice how
to avoid it so we could go longer...Thanks
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 02-12-07 14:12pm
Probably because something is contracting
when you orgasm and it gets tight. Imo
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honeys04
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Posted: 02-12-07 14:21pm
Yea thats kinda what I talkt...I know they
say you have the opening of the anus and
then a little bit in there is a valve if I
may that opens and closes...They say if u
insert the penis in just a bit and let it
sit there a few min and relax that 2nd
thingy will relax and open as well makin
insertion less painful....I kinda figured
once I have an orgasim I tense up once
again and due to that I become
uncomfortabe
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 02-12-07 14:41pm
honeys04
wrote:
yea thats kinda what I
talkt...I know they say you have the
opening of the anus and then a little bit
in there is a valve if I may that opens
and closes...They say if u insert the
penis in just a bit and let it sit there a
few min and relax that 2nd thingy will
relax and open as well makin insertion
less painful....I kinda figured once I
have an orgasim I tense up once again and
due to that I become
uncomfortabe
i think you hit it on the head! No pun
intended.
as for holding off on orgasm, ?????? I
have no idea. Be happy you have one at
all.
