I Am Suspicious That My Hubby Is Cheating Posted: 02-13-07 11:05am
I have went through the history on the
computer, and found a local singles want
ad....I have caught him the porn.
He isn't the same peron I met 8 years ago.
When he is not working he is not here.
He always has excuses of things he has to
do, that don't involve me or nathan.
what? I am so unhappy with my
relationship right now. I catch myself,
looking at job ad in ontario, alberta...
Browsing through apartments ads.
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Sammy001
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jun 2005 Posts: 711 Location: ,
Posted: 02-13-07 11:13am
I really have considered pulling the pin
on him, and his "*doing it palace"
everything has to been so fregging perfect
and materialistic to him. I came from
nothing, so I am sure I can build myself
up again.
Like why would I think..That I would be
good enough for him anyways?... Before
nathan I use to dress to the 9's, I always
did my hair nice, and makeup on. Now, I
could care less...When I don't have to
work, I am on the floor, in sweat pants
playingwith a two year old...I don't feel
like like getting glammedup for that. I
hate thongs now, so do't wear them. My
"granny panties" repulse him. There
not granny panties...There bikini cut,
...But he would rather me wear dental
floss through my a$$. He should wear a
pair, --see how he likes it
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Melissa_20
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Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 6806 Location: Florida
Posted: 02-13-07 11:35am
I'm sorry your going through all this!
Its horrible especialy when you have a
little one to kep after.If I were you,(and
this might sound stalkerish but do what
you gotta do!) follow him after work since
he doesn't come home and see what he
does.See if you could bring a video
recorder or camera for proof and if you
want a divorce you can get it.Its so
horrible to feel the way you do right
now.We're here for you!
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hopefulmjz
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Joined: 31 Mar 2005 Posts: 4777 Location: , USA
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Posted: 02-13-07 11:44am
Girl, I would put him in his place.
Confront him, make him accountable for the
time he's not at home or at work. You are
his wife, and you have a right to know
where your husband is when he's not
working and not at home. You deserve
better than that. Does he not give a rats
ass you gave birth to his son?! I hope
everything works out for you, keep us
updated and feel free to pm me if you ever
need to talk.
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lil_blaze2004
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Joined: 29 Oct 2004 Posts: 6492 Location: ,
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Posted: 02-13-07 11:51am
Well, mtl has lots of jobs but you need to
be bilingual for most good ones.
So I guess oyu are not pregnant again?
You never seem to answer pms or people who
ask questions in posts.
If I had found all the stuff oyu did, I
would've been gone long time ago girl.
You don't need sh*t like
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Sunflower_pie81
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Joined: 17 Jan 2006 Posts: 5041 Location: to hell with this crap
Posted: 02-13-07 12:04pm
Good luck hun, it's hard with a child to
make up ur mind about stuff like that. I
wish you well. And I am sorry to hhear
about all of that.
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tigresacanela24
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Joined: 11 Nov 2005 Posts: 5261 Location: Treat your children well, eventually they'll choose your nursing home.
Posted: 02-13-07 12:13pm
I'm sorry, hon. I really don't think
there's any reason to confront him about
cheating because he'll never admit it if
he is. But I do think you should
confront him about staying out all the
time. I think he's saying that about
your bikinis as an attempt to make you
feel bad and so he can feel justified in
the way he's behaving. Don't let him
upset you with that.
