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Queenofhearts

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I'm a Virgin And I Need Help!
Posted: 02-13-07 17:10pm

Confused I'm a virgin, now seriously dating my best friend and we are starting to become sexually active. However, i'm not very knowledgeable about sex. I know alot but there are some things i'm not of.

1. I'm not sure if I have ever had an orgasm! There have been times during masturebating that I have felt all that people say you're supposed to but when I finally do....It feels like i've spurted urine everwhere? I feel good afterwards but is this really an orgasm or did I just....Pee everywhere? What am I doing wrong...Or is this how its supposed to feel?

Please help me...I dont want to be embarrased in front of my new boyfriend!

Queenofhearts
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shnookadilly

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Re: I'm a Virgin And I Need Help!
Posted: 02-13-07 17:12pm

Yup its normal for some girls to *ahem "squirt"

the same thing happens to me and my boyfriend loves it

plus it give ya more natural lube so sex doesnt get dry and painful
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BeautifulLiesx3

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Posted: 02-13-07 17:12pm

Haha it's nothing to be embarassed about. That's what happens after your orgasm. Don't worry I don't think you've peed on yourself lol. The most important thing is that you're extremely careful with sex. You definately don't want to be stuck in a situation where you don't know if you have an std or not Shocked

but I don't think you have anything to be embarassed about. I think you're feeling what you're supposed to feel lol.

Good luck =)
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Sunflower_pie81

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Posted: 02-13-07 17:21pm

No you haven't pee'd yourself. You should feel bad about this a lot of wemon would love to be able to orgasm like that. You shouldn't feel ashamed about this.

Please make sure you take the proper pre cautions before you have sex. We dont' want to see you on to preggy boards before you want to have a baby. Good luck to you.
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honeys04

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Posted: 02-15-07 11:19am

Ok I have actually done alot of research on this one before.....The fluid that "squirting" out is infact not like normal fluid that comes from a normal orgasim. Its g-spot fluid. Some women can not produce this fluid squirting out during and orgasim just as some women can not acheive orgasim. With the g-spot fluid some can obtain it by insertion into the vagina rather it be fingers, toys or penis insertion and some can mearly do it by clitoral stimulation.....The research I have done says the fluid will be clear and have almost a clover type scent to it, I guess that helps distinguish it from what alot of women think they are doing which is peeing. Also alot of women that experience these g-spot orgasims sometimes there will be some urine come out as well because g-spot orgasims seem to make you bear down almost like your tryin to pee or even have a bowl movement as weird as that sounds but it kinda makes u feel the urge to push which seems to make the fluid skuirt like it does...Hope maybe that helps....But its completely normal....Be greatful u can acheive this because thats the best kind of orgasim u can have!!
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Tylanas

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Posted: 02-15-07 11:51am

Yes, "squirting" is rare but totaly normal! You are "lucky" that you can do this, many women can't. You can inform your boyfriend of your special skill, that way he's not surprised; just make sure he knows what it is and what it means.

I think I may be capable of doing that too, but i've never had a g-spot orgasm... I can only get close suring sex, but then of course i'm too scare of peeing all over! I can orgasm clitorally anytime, but not vaginally...
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honeys04

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Posted: 02-15-07 12:03pm

Eiri..........I never thalt I could do it either........But we were actually watchin an episode of talk sex with sue and a caller called in about it thinking she had pee'd so we started doin some research on it and started practiceing it as well at first it took me a while to be able to acheive a g-spot orgasim with vaginal isertion and when I was able to finally do it it was a very small amount of squirting that was involved we do it all the time now and I can now acheive it with just clitoral stimulation now...
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Posted: 02-15-07 14:58pm

honeys04 wrote:
eiri..........I never thalt I could do it either........But we were actually watchin an episode of talk sex with sue and a caller called in about it thinking she had pee'd so we started doin some research on it and started practiceing it as well at first it took me a while to be able to acheive a g-spot orgasim with vaginal isertion and when I was able to finally do it it was a very small amount of squirting that was involved we do it all the time now and I can now acheive it with just clitoral stimulation now...


yeah, I can get to the "feeling" of needing to pee really fast during vaginal sex, but then i'm too nervous to relax and make a mess because it feels like it's just going to go everywhere! I'm also afraid that it actually would be urine, because I have a small bladder and produce urine very quickly; even within five to ten minutes, I could urinate a few milligrams. This is normal for me; I don't drink more or less water than other people; i'm just a small person.
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Posted: 02-16-07 03:00am

I regularly squirt when my g-spot is stimulated Cool
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