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Queenofhearts
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Feb 2007 Posts: 1
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I'm a Virgin And I Need Help!
Posted: 02-13-07 17:10pm
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 I'm
a virgin, now seriously dating my best
friend and we are starting to become
sexually active. However, i'm not very
knowledgeable about sex. I know alot but
there are some things i'm not of.
1. I'm not sure if I have ever had an
orgasm! There have been times during
masturebating that I have felt all that
people say you're supposed to but when I
finally do....It feels like i've spurted
urine everwhere? I feel good afterwards
but is this really an orgasm or did I
just....Pee everywhere? What am I doing
wrong...Or is this how its supposed to
feel?
Please help me...I dont want to be
embarrased in front of my new boyfriend!
Queenofhearts
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shnookadilly
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Joined: 13 Dec 2006 Posts: 11
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Re: I'm a Virgin And I Need Help!
Posted: 02-13-07 17:12pm
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Yup its normal for some girls to *ahem
"squirt"
the same thing happens to me and my
boyfriend loves it
plus it give ya more natural lube so sex
doesnt get dry and painful
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BeautifulLiesx3
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 30 Dec 2006 Posts: 77
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Posted: 02-13-07 17:12pm
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Haha it's nothing to be embarassed about.
That's what happens after your orgasm.
Don't worry I don't think you've peed on
yourself lol. The most important thing is
that you're extremely careful with sex.
You definately don't want to be stuck in a
situation where you don't know if you have
an std or not
but I don't think you have anything to be
embarassed about. I think you're feeling
what you're supposed to feel lol.
Good luck =)
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Sunflower_pie81
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Joined: 17 Jan 2006 Posts: 5041 Location: to hell with this crap
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Posted: 02-13-07 17:21pm
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No you haven't pee'd yourself. You
should feel bad about this a lot of wemon
would love to be able to orgasm like that.
You shouldn't feel ashamed about this.
Please make sure you take the proper pre
cautions before you have sex. We dont'
want to see you on to preggy boards before
you want to have a baby. Good luck to
you.
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honeys04
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Feb 2007 Posts: 26 Location: Virginia
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Posted: 02-15-07 11:19am
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Ok I have actually done alot of research
on this one before.....The fluid that
"squirting" out is infact not like normal
fluid that comes from a normal orgasim.
Its g-spot fluid. Some women can not
produce this fluid squirting out during
and orgasim just as some women can not
acheive orgasim. With the g-spot fluid
some can obtain it by insertion into the
vagina rather it be fingers, toys or penis
insertion and some can mearly do it by
clitoral stimulation.....The research I
have done says the fluid will be clear and
have almost a clover type scent to it, I
guess that helps distinguish it from what
alot of women think they are doing which
is peeing. Also alot of women that
experience these g-spot orgasims sometimes
there will be some urine come out as well
because g-spot orgasims seem to make you
bear down almost like your tryin to pee or
even have a bowl movement as weird as that
sounds but it kinda makes u feel the urge
to push which seems to make the fluid
skuirt like it does...Hope maybe that
helps....But its completely normal....Be
greatful u can acheive this because thats
the best kind of orgasim u can have!!
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Tylanas
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Posted: 02-15-07 11:51am
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Yes, "squirting" is rare but totaly
normal! You are "lucky" that you can do
this, many women can't. You can inform
your boyfriend of your special skill, that
way he's not surprised; just make sure he
knows what it is and what it means.
I think I may be capable of doing that
too, but i've never had a g-spot orgasm...
I can only get close suring sex, but then
of course i'm too scare of peeing all
over! I can orgasm clitorally anytime,
but not vaginally...
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honeys04
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Feb 2007 Posts: 26 Location: Virginia
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Posted: 02-15-07 12:03pm
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Eiri..........I never thalt I could do it
either........But we were actually watchin
an episode of talk sex with sue and a
caller called in about it thinking she had
pee'd so we started doin some research on
it and started practiceing it as well at
first it took me a while to be able to
acheive a g-spot orgasim with vaginal
isertion and when I was able to finally do
it it was a very small amount of squirting
that was involved we do it all the time
now and I can now acheive it with just
clitoral stimulation now...
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Tylanas
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Posted: 02-15-07 14:58pm
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| honeys04
wrote: | | eiri..........I never thalt
I could do it either........But we were
actually watchin an episode of talk sex
with sue and a caller called in about it
thinking she had pee'd so we started doin
some research on it and started
practiceing it as well at first it took me
a while to be able to acheive a g-spot
orgasim with vaginal isertion and when I
was able to finally do it it was a very
small amount of squirting that was
involved we do it all the time now and I
can now acheive it with just clitoral
stimulation
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yeah, I can get to the "feeling" of
needing to pee really fast during vaginal
sex, but then i'm too nervous to relax and
make a mess because it feels like it's
just going to go everywhere! I'm also
afraid that it actually would be urine,
because I have a small bladder and produce
urine very quickly; even within five to
ten minutes, I could urinate a few
milligrams. This is normal for me; I
don't drink more or less water than other
people; i'm just a small person.
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Becky
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Posted: 02-16-07 03:00am
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I regularly squirt when my g-spot is
stimulated 
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