Well my gf and I just had unprotected sex,
I know it was stupid beyond all belief,
but we got caught up in the moment... And
now we think she may be pregnant... And I
know the only way to be sure is a test...
Is there one better than another or
anything? It's really hard where I live
too... A bible belt state so what we did
is supposed to send me to hell or
something... So I finally resorted to
coming here, but anyways my gf has the
most screwy menstrual cycle ever, it use
to be like at 40ish days and it's around
35ish now but I know that she has missed
like an entire period before, so like a
whole month of nothing... And she was
sick for about 3 days before she missed
her period and now she stresses and barely
even sleeps anymore... Which this may be
foolish but I think is what's causing here
to feel like she's pregnant and continue
to miss her period. She just barely
missed it about a week or so ago... So
any suggestions on what to do... Hahaha
crying woot, sorry if this is a retarded
post
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Mabel
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Posted: 02-13-07 17:54pm
The only thing you can do is test. Sex is
better when you don't have to fret or
worry over getting pregnant. Use birth
control. You can get condoms at any drug
store and they are cheaper than the fear
you two are feeling right now.
No test is better or worse than another.
Have her take it in the morning with her
first morning urine. If her periods are
usually 40 days apart, have her take a
test when she would be 'late' for her
period.
Good luck.
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Doobiesoft
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Joined: 13 Feb 2007 Posts: 2
Posted: 02-14-07 01:25am
I know it's stupid, and I don't want to
admit it but I was pretty reluctant...
But she said she wanted to so I did it
anyways... Cause I love her... Sorry I
just don't really have anyone to talk
about this too haha... I wish I could
talk to my mom or something, she says
she'll always love me but it's hard to
believe that she would if I really got her
pregnant... I mean I want to marry this
girl... But we're still seniors in
freaking high school... And I know i'm
going to be responsible about it and stick
with her through thick and thin... And
can you buy a test just at any old store
like target or walmart? You don't have to
be like 21 or something to buy them do
you? Haha I kinda wish I could've known
the risks about having sex... Have
learned everything i've learned in a weeks
time on the internet... But we don't get
taught crap about it in school or from
anywhere else either... Just that it's a
sin and you'll go to hell if you do it...
No stats or anything just that god will
hate you... Sorry, i'm going off on a
tangent... Just kinda nice to kinda talk
about it ya know
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Jules
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Joined: 19 Aug 2006 Posts: 3840 Location: Merrie Englande, UK
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Posted: 02-14-07 02:33am
You can buy pregnancy tests from
supermarkets or you can get cheap ones
which are just as accurate (but a little
more fiddly to use) from dollar stores.
You're not going to hell but you are
obviously not a child so you must surely
have known that having unprotected sex can
lead to pregnancy? Hopefully, your gf
is not pregnant and you can chalk this one
up to experience and ensure you use
condoms in future. You may love your
gf but bear in mind she might be desperate
to get pregnant and that is why she
pressured you so much to have sex.
