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arcadia

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Posted: 02-13-07 19:03pm

Ok so. At my babyshower. Chris's stepmom got us a carseat. Nice, right? Well, I was looking at information online, & I read that the one she got us didn't rate so good in safety tests. Like, in crash testing, if flew off the base completely. So .I'm like oh helllll no. So .I'm searching for a receipt so we can go return it. She didn't give us one. But there's a sticker on the box that says something something .Walmart on it. So .I'm like, ok. Walmart. I go to their website to see what else they have, & I see the carseat she got us is on "rollback" or "clearance" or whatever for $39.... Okay, .I'm sorry, because I really don't want to seem like .I'm being ungrateful or selfish or overreacting or something. But his dad & stepmom are seriously like, loaded. & .The *only* thing they get for their grandchild at all is a clearanced carseat? I am just so frustrated at this point. & I can't even find the website I was looking at yesterday.

So if anyone has a website with like, safety ratings for carseats or anything like that, could you pass it along to me? Because if .I'm freaking out for no reason, then .I'd like to know so I can calm down, haha. I just want a good carseat that's safe for .Gabe.

Whyyy does his family have to hate me.

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Posted: 02-13-07 19:10pm

What car seat is it?
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Posted: 02-13-07 19:14pm

Its the .Evenflo .Discovery. My good friend had it, too. & .Her's just flat out broke on her. When she was carrying her son in it. Confused
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Posted: 02-13-07 19:18pm

Http://www.Nhts a.Dot.Gov/cps/cssrating/index.Cfm

here are reviews. The evenflo discovery doesn't look *that* bad, 4 .As and 2 .Bs. But i'd want one with all .As.
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ANGELOS MAMA

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Posted: 02-13-07 19:21pm

I did some research for you && this is what I came up with.I hope they help mommy.=)

www.Seatcheck.Org
http://www .Hsrc.Unc.Edu/safety_info/child_passenger_ safety/child_restraint_recalls_releases.Cf m

february 11 , 2006 compass baby infant car seat i420
november 21, 2006 dorel comfort infant seat
november 13, 2006 britax boulevard
november 2, 2005 evenflo tribute
july 8, 2005
may 2, 2005 combi usa
combi usa avatar (nhtsa recall release)
avatar (combi safety campaign release)
june 24, 2005 britax super elite
may 18, 2005 dorel cosco, eddie bauer, and safety 1st designer 22
january 31, 2005 cosco/dorel dreamride
january 19, 2005 mercedes-benz usa sicartex kiddy topsafe
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Posted: 02-13-07 19:21pm

Ok, looking at that site there are barely any that got all .As. So I guess it comes down to what it got the bad marks in. The evenflo discovery got a b in 'securing the child', i'd definitely want an .A in that category!
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Posted: 02-13-07 19:26pm

iheartmybostonterrier wrote:
ok, looking at that site there are barely any that got all .As. So I guess it comes down to what it got the bad marks in. The evenflo discovery got a b in 'securing the child', i'd definitely want an .A in that category!


.Meeee too. Buh. I'm so frustrated. We wanted to have 2 car seats, but we can't afford it. So we're just going to get store credit for the carseat we have & buy a travel system & get another base for .Chris's car. I just feel like it's so unfair. It's the only thing his stepmom & dad have gotten for .Gabe.. I mean I know money shouldn't matter or buying things shouldn't matter.. But it just seems really ridiculous, ya know?
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Posted: 02-13-07 19:30pm

arcadia wrote:
iheartmybostonterrier wrote:
ok, looking at that site there are barely any that got all .As. So I guess it comes down to what it got the bad marks in. The evenflo discovery got a b in 'securing the child', i'd definitely want an .A in that category!


.Meeee too. Buh. I'm so frustrated. We wanted to have 2 car seats, but we can't afford it. So we're just going to get store credit for the carseat we have & buy a travel system & get another base for .Chris's car. I just feel like it's so unfair. It's the only thing his stepmom & dad have gotten for .Gabe.. I mean I know money shouldn't matter or buying things shouldn't matter.. But it just seems really ridiculous, ya know?


you'd think they'd want the best for the baba.
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Posted: 02-13-07 19:31pm

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arcadia wrote:
iheartmybostonterrier wrote:
ok, looking at that site there are barely any that got all .As. So I guess it comes down to what it got the bad marks in. The evenflo discovery got a b in 'securing the child', i'd definitely want an .A in that category!


.Meeee too. Buh. I'm so frustrated. We wanted to have 2 car seats, but we can't afford it. So we're just going to get store credit for the carseat we have & buy a travel system & get another base for .Chris's car. I just feel like it's so unfair. It's the only thing his stepmom & dad have gotten for .Gabe.. I mean I know money shouldn't matter or buying things shouldn't matter.. But it just seems really ridiculous, ya know?


you'd think they'd want the best for the baba.


.That's what I was thinking, assuming they're the grandpa & stepgrandma. But apparently...

Whatever. His dad seriously hates me.
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Posted: 02-13-07 19:31pm

It does seem a little ridiculous. You'd think they'd want to get a nice safe seat for their grandchild.

I read up on the one you got and it only has a 3-point harness? You definitely want a 5-point.
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Posted: 02-13-07 19:33pm

arcadia wrote:
rainfire1424 wrote:
arcadia wrote:
iheartmybostonterrier wrote:
ok, looking at that site there are barely any that got all .As. So I guess it comes down to what it got the bad marks in. The evenflo discovery got a b in 'securing the child', i'd definitely want an .A in that category!


.Meeee too. Buh. I'm so frustrated. We wanted to have 2 car seats, but we can't afford it. So we're just going to get store credit for the carseat we have & buy a travel system & get another base for .Chris's car. I just feel like it's so unfair. It's the only thing his stepmom & dad have gotten for .Gabe.. I mean I know money shouldn't matter or buying things shouldn't matter.. But it just seems really ridiculous, ya know?


you'd think they'd want the best for the baba.


.That's what I was thinking, assuming they're the grandpa & stepgrandma. But apparently...

Whatever. His dad seriously hates me.


eh.. He's just bitter that chris's woman looks hotter than any he'll ever get Wink
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Posted: 02-13-07 19:34pm

Hey, I haven't looked at all the safety ratings on the carseats but I got an evenflo discovery from the sheriffs department. Its one that they give out really often so I personally don't think it can be that bad...Maybe i'm wrong tho. And don't feel bad about being upset about his parents, my boyfriends parents are the same way! They haven't bought a thing for the baby besides a few outfits that got marked down after christmas..Funny thing is that they are winter outfits in the size he should be wearing during the summer! So much for that...
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Posted: 02-13-07 19:41pm

My husband's mom and dad haven't even tried to contact me to see their only grand daughter. They did try to take her away from me. But they never tried to see her. But if you can get store credit then that is 39 dollars that you didn't have before.
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Posted: 02-13-07 20:44pm

I doubt they even realise about the car seat ratings to be honest.

And it was in the news (can't remember which but it was to do with the recent .U.S testing of car seats) that the recent tests were conducted at higher speeds that stated and therefore gave falsely low performance.

Soe were tested at like 70miles an hour instead of the stated 30.
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Posted: 02-13-07 21:42pm

Well family can be funny that way.. The best thing to do it kinda over look it and return the item... Use the store credit for something better.. You do have other gift cards right.. Well maybe that will help!! Im sorry that the situation is sucky! But im sure things will be great and once they meet that grandbaby they will love and spoil the heck outta him!!
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Posted: 02-13-07 23:15pm

meggan wrote:
well family can be funny that way.. The best thing to do it kinda over look it and return the item... Use the store credit for something better.. You do have other gift cards right.. Well maybe that will help!! Im sorry that the situation is sucky! But im sure things will be great and once they meet that grandbaby they will love and spoil the heck outta him!!


.That's the thing. I don't even really want them to be around him. His stepmom isn't so bad, but his dad has said so many cruel things about me. Openly, even. To .Chris. Anytime someone mentions something about him being a grandpa, he rolls his eyes & walks away.

Oh well.

I'm not worried about it.

I was just ticked in the heat of the moment. We're going to exchange it for store credit & probably stock up on some diapers & wipes & stuff. We're going to buy the travel system from .Toys .R .Us & get an extra base for .Chris's car. & .We have .Target giftcards so we can get the monitor & a bath & a few other random things we need!

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Posted: 02-13-07 23:29pm

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Posted: 02-14-07 00:34am

Your a good one cuz I would have made it a point to say something. Like do have the reciept for that carseat cuz im not putting my baby in something with bad ratings and only cost you $39 id have rather got nothing than that just because is so rude ggrrr im just in a bad mood I guess. Ill go to your inlaws and kick him in the balls if youd like Smile
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Posted: 02-14-07 10:10am

arcadia wrote:
meggan wrote:
well family can be funny that way.. The best thing to do it kinda over look it and return the item... Use the store credit for something better.. You do have other gift cards right.. Well maybe that will help!! Im sorry that the situation is sucky! But im sure things will be great and once they meet that grandbaby they will love and spoil the heck outta him!!


.That's the thing. I don't even really want them to be around him. His stepmom isn't so bad, but his dad has said so many cruel things about me. Openly, even. To .Chris. Anytime someone mentions something about him being a grandpa, he rolls his eyes & walks away.

Oh well.



I'm not worried about it.



I was just ticked in the heat of the moment. We're going to exchange it for store credit & probably stock up on some diapers & wipes & stuff. We're going to buy the travel system from .Toys .R .Us & get an extra base for .Chris's car. & .We have .Target giftcards so we can get the monitor & a bath & a few other random things we need!


why does he dislike you so much?And what does chris say when he talks crap about you?I'm sory,but thats so childish.


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Posted: 02-14-07 10:59am

We use the .Discovery for .Alyvia. 6 months in and we haven't had any problems. We're switching to a larger front-facing seat in another 6 months and our .Discovery is still in excellent condition.

I wouldn't worry, love. It's a pretty good seat.
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