Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 52 Location: Nova Scotia
I Lost My Baby!!! Posted: 08-26-03 08:05am
Well I had a message on here earlier
saying I was pregnant and I had a
wonderful family that wanted to adopt my
baby. I had been having pains for a long
time and went to the doctor he gave me
some "pain killers" and sent me home, I
started bleeding and went back - my doctor
told me i'd be fine. 2 days later I had
my friend rush me to the hospital I was
bleeding extremely bad, they set me up in
the hospital...And later that day I lost
my baby, miscarraiged.... What do I
do?!?! I'm lost now, I was so excited to
be having this baby, and now i'm alone
again. I know grieving is normal but
i've never been so damn depressed in my
life. Here my baby was wanted by many
people and it would obviously be loved
whether it was adopted or I kept and it
was taken away from me and other people
who dont want there baby get to keep them
and the child grows up up with no love or
abuse, it just doesnt seem fair right
now...Help please someone ~misty
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Gunblade
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Aug 2003 Posts: 24 Location: Michigan
Im Sorry Posted: 08-26-03 10:21am
Im am so sorry, everything will be okay,
you will feel better in time.
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Misty
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 52 Location: Nova Scotia
Posted: 08-26-03 10:26am
Thanks but really how is it ok I lost my
baby!!!!
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lhileman
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Aug 2003 Posts: 79 Location: Griffin, Ga.
I Am So Sorry !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Posted: 08-26-03 10:52am
Misty gosh, I wish I could take the pain
from you, I am truly sorry. My heart is
breaking for you and the miracle that was
taken away from you. If you need me, you
know where to find me. I luv ya, girl.
love always,
lisa
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lee
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Aug 2003 Posts: 122 Location: canada
I'm Sorry Posted: 08-26-03 14:10pm
Sweetheart I am so sorry for your loss, I
only wish I could do something to help
with the hurt your feeling. You'll be in
my prayers and I wish you all the strength
to help get you through this, I hope
things get better for you.
Luv always,
lee
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4922 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 08-26-03 14:23pm
Misty god is with you and you might be
very hurt but he feels you. Hes there
hugging you and wiping your tears even
though you dont know it. You are in my
prayers and I hope you will be ok. Your
baby is in heaven right now. Heres a
story I once heard to help you
(hopefully).
Theres this place in heaven where
everything is white and beautiful. With a
garden and waterfalls, all campletely
amazing. All the kids are there and
everyday they go for a walk with god,
holding god's hand, each child holding a
lit candle. Well there was this young
child that always stayed behind and would
never join the other kids on their walk
with god. One day the kids asked the
child "why dont you ever join us on a walk
with god?" and the baby looked at them and
said "well I want to go on the walk but
every time I light my canlde to go, my
mommies tears blow out my candle and I
cant go" please let your tears dry and let
you baby live happy with god.
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HongKongChick
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 222 Location: Oklahoma
Posted: 08-26-03 23:22pm
Misty, I have messaged u.
What ur doc did was not enough, just
giving u pain killers? I remember that I
found some website and the magazine that
talked about pain in early pregnancy, and
it's a critical time for a baby to survive
in early pregnancy.
Miscarriage aside, I think the doc was not
helpful and detailed and could be sued
(ok, maybe a bit too harsh, but....)
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4922 Location: Right here at work!
Posted: 08-27-03 11:40am
I agree with hong kong chick, this doctor
can be sued, look into it. Pill and
medication can and will harm a baby
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kitty_55
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Aug 2003 Posts: 1473 Location: Canada
Sorry Posted: 08-27-03 13:43pm
That happened to me last year I was 5 and
a half months prgemanat and I was going
tho tons of stress and I started to bleed
I went to the hospital and I was in there
for 5 days and they told me I lost my baby
it is so hard like you just lost a pair of
shoe of something.... I went to
countriling and stuff and they put me in
the metal ward cuz I try to kill
myself...
*hugs* for you.Just keep thinking it was
meant to happen and u wioll have another
baby later on when u want to keep it
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trixie
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 26 Aug 2003 Posts: 11 Location: florida
Im Here For You Posted: 09-03-03 16:47pm
Sweetie, I went through the same thing a
couple of years ago...But one thing i've
always believed is that what doesn't kill
you only makes you stronger...As alone and
scared as I felt, things worked out for
me...It was god's way of telling me I
wasn't ready...Now im in a much better
relationship with a guy who truly cares
for me...I know it's hard and it feels
like the world is ending, but you'll get
through it...And im here for you if you
need to talk
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Misty
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 52 Location: Nova Scotia
Posted: 09-04-03 05:55am
Thank you everybody for your support its
been tough but I know I wasn't really
ready for a baby and now I can go on get
an education and stuff until im married
and then start over...Well better go I
start school today!! :d ttyl ~misty
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HongKongChick
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 222 Location: Oklahoma
Posted: 09-04-03 11:20am
Misty,
i am so so glad u r alright, and feeling
better.
Yes it;s wise to have ur child till u are
married, at least then u are done with ur
education or whatever u needed to do
before settling down.
I hope u the best!
Hkc
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blu_eyes00
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 29 Jul 2003 Posts: 96 Location: Canada
Posted: 09-05-03 14:39pm
Misty,
i am so sorry to hear about what happend.
but, everything
will work out in the end, things will get
better. Call your local women's clinic
or hospital, and ask about a support group
for moms with miscarriages...Maybe that
can help? Either way, we are all here
for you!
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phillygurl
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Sep 2003 Posts: 56 Location: philadelphia
Posted: 09-07-03 19:42pm
Sorry to hear that. God takes and he
gives. Trust me as soon as you know it
you will be pregnant again and give birth
to a healthy child.
but, everything
will work out in the end, things will get
better. Call your local women's clinic
or hospital, and ask about a support group
for moms with miscarriages...Maybe that
can help? Either way, we are all here
for you! 