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freakbaby
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Nov 2003 Posts: 39 Location: PA
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Posted: 02-10-04 15:33pm
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003 Posts: 4921 Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 02-10-04 15:49pm
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Your getting married at 14?? To a 21 year
old? Is that allowed? Why would you want
to get married so young?
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freakbaby
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Nov 2003 Posts: 39 Location: PA
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Posted: 02-10-04 16:25pm
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Yes, we are set to get married on my
b-day...March 1st! I am very happy! I
finally have a family! He will be 20,
but anyway...We're getting married!
Denise
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sparklypixie12
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 3099
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Posted: 02-10-04 16:27pm
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Its great that ur getting married-it shows
commitment to ur boyfriend & ur baby
bu tis that allowed considering ur ages?
I wouldnt have thought it was legal.R ur
parents ok with it?
Best wishes
liz x
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Jaydensmommy
Advanced Support Team
Joined: 28 Jan 2004 Posts: 1701 Location: Wisconsin
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Posted: 02-10-04 16:32pm
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Sorry to bring this horrible thought
up....But don't you think he will meet new
girls when hes out at the bars once and
awhile...I mean girls his age!???
~sara~
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freakbaby
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 24 Nov 2003 Posts: 39 Location: PA
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Posted: 02-10-04 16:39pm
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My mom has already signed for us to get
married~we already have the lisense. And
I know bobby would never leave me and the
little one...He loves us too much. And
as soon as I get married I can leave the
group home and move in with him.
Denise
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 2729 Location: Pittsburgh,PA
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Posted: 02-10-04 16:57pm
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Hmm, I hope you know what you are doing,
dont get me wrong I am standing behind you
and you have my wishes. But I just worry,
my mom wanted larry and I to get married
but I was only 14 and he was only 16..Now
I am 16 and he is almost 18 and we still
arent ready. We are still growing and
learning, learning new things about each
other. Believe that, larry and I have
been together 5 years, living together for
2 and still learning about each other.
Have you guys even lived together yet? I
dont think you know what you are getting
into if you have not at least lived with
the person..You ahve my wishes and you are
getting my bes tof luck and all that I am
just praying that you are making the right
decision...Good luck!!
Stacie
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JillMarie
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Joined: 24 Dec 2003 Posts: 3022 Location: Iowa
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Posted: 02-10-04 18:52pm
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Congrats! I hope you have a beautiful
baby and a great wedding!!
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KariM18
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Jan 2004 Posts: 1436 Location: Grand Blanc, Michigan
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Posted: 02-11-04 00:13am
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Well I am glad that u at least plan on
staying together...But wow.. Im reeeally
surprised ur parents are okay with this?!
14..And 21... I mean I just dont think
too highly of a 21 year old going after a
14 year old..Normally I dont think a 21 yr
old would even think of that.. Also.. U
said u 'finally' have a family?
Hun....Finally? U have sooo much time
ahead of u..... Im glad your stepping up
and going to take care of the baby tho,
thats great, but can I ask why your
getting married at 14? I mean its your
life your gonna do what u wanna do...But I
would just be really careful before
trusting a 21 year old completely when ur
only 14. .They can be shocking sometimes.
.. Im just worried about u.. I dont
think u know 100% what uve gotten
into....Or r getting into.. How long have
u been together? Was the pregnancy
planned? From both ends?
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honeycoco
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Nov 2003 Posts: 375 Location: georgia
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Posted: 02-11-04 00:19am
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Honey congrats on the baby but you are way
to young to get married! I know you think
its the right thing now but you havent
lived your life yet. You havent
experieced life yet and years down the
road you might regret it, but its your
life and im not here to tell you how to
run it good luck and god bless!
Chrystal
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5286
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Posted: 02-11-04 10:52am
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Mommy_2_b
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Oct 2003 Posts: 811 Location: Brookfield, N.S.
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Posted: 02-11-04 11:58am
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Denise omg I missed you so much
girlie!!!!! I've been worrying about you
constantly! March 1st is my birthday too!
Haha look at all the wonderful things
that happen on that day!!!!!! Good luck
in your marraige and with your baby please
keep in touch with me!
Much love melissa
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Mesmerizeu15
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003 Posts: 2729 Location: Pittsburgh,PA
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Posted: 02-11-04 12:11pm
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I hope I didnt make you upset by
expressing my opinion I was just sharing
how I felt and what I went through and am
going through!!
Stacie
-child development class-
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Mommy_2_b
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Oct 2003 Posts: 811 Location: Brookfield, N.S.
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Posted: 02-11-04 12:13pm
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Stacie - just noticed you put child
development class at the bottom of yours
and ya know what I remember takin that
class when I was in grade 10 lol actually
I still have my stuff from it. I loved
that class! Hope you have fun in it!
~melissa
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smith8500
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Sep 2003 Posts: 6623 Location: Louisiana
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Hey
Posted: 02-11-04 12:30pm
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Well denise,
i sure hope things work out for you! I
mean, if that is what you want! Good luck
ok!
Love,
chanda
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