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Q: I Lost My Baby!!!

asked by: Misty on August 26th, 2003

Experienced User

Well I had a message on here earlier saying I was pregnant and I had a wonderful family that wanted to adopt my baby. I had been having pains for a long time and went to the doctor he gave me some "pain killers" and sent me home, I started bleeding and went back - my doctor told me i'd be fine. 2 days later I had my friend rush me to the hospital I was bleeding extremely bad, they set me up in the hospital...And later that day I lost my baby, miscarraiged.... What do I do?!?! I'm lost now, I was so excited to be having this baby, and now i'm alone again. I know grieving is normal but i've never been so damn depressed in my life. Help please someone ~misty

Replies(14)

nikki_caro

replied on August 26th, 2003

Extremely eHealthy

I know it must be very hard for you to lose you little one but dont you think you would have been more devastated if you would have had your baby, then lost it a few days later? Im so sorry you had to go through this though. Its ok to feel sad and have mixed emotions. But what kind of "pain killers" did your doctor give you? As far as im concerned that shouldnt have been done. You need to look into this. There might be a slight chance that your doctor is part of the reason behind this. Which could end up to a big lawsuit. Please look into it. Something sounds wrong here. Your in my prayers sweetie. I hope everything will be ok with you.

ttribble

replied on August 27th, 2003

New User

Like the person before said about checking to see about the pain medicine b/c in my 1st month of pregnancy I was having really bad migranes and they said they couldn't give me any kind of medicine in my 1st trimester.

oana23

replied on August 28th, 2003

New User

Oh...no....

The doc. Gave you pain killers , if that's true you should take hem to cort my doc. Will never give me not even aspirin , they said it's not good for you at all.
But I do hope you'll be ok.

jessicalynn

replied on August 28th, 2003

Experienced User

Ekk

How far along were you?

baby_blu_02

replied on September 8th, 2003

New User

Hi I was pregnant with my 2nd child earlier this year and I was about 16 weeks and I lost him. I woke up bleeding one night and I had him on my bathroom floor. I know how you feel. Sad

sazz

replied on September 9th, 2003

New User

Hey its devistating to hear that you lost your baby. I was 8 weeks when I lost mine to a miscariage. I slipped over on a wet, oily floor at work and started having pains and then the next day I started to bleed my boyfriend took me to the doctors and they said that I had a miscarriage.

snowball

replied on December 11th, 2004

Experienced User

I am so sorry. I had a miscarriage last year, I was six months pregnant with a little girl her name was shawna dianne.

mili

replied on December 11th, 2004

New User

I am so sorry. I have not had a baby yet but I am trying to but from what I know the doctor shouldnt have given you any pain killers or any kind of drug. When my best friend was pregnant the doctor wouldnt give her anything. You should really look in to that.

l2at24

replied on December 11th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

Re: I Lost My Baby!!!

misty wrote:

well I had a message on here earlier saying I was pregnant and I had a wonderful family that wanted to adopt my baby. I had been having pains for a long time and went to the doctor he gave me some "pain killers" and sent me home, I started bleeding and went back - my doctor told me i'd be fine. 2 days later I had my friend rush me to the hospital I was bleeding extremely bad, they set me up in the hospital...And later that day I lost my baby, miscarraiged.... What do I do?!?! I'm lost now, I was so excited to be having this baby, and now i'm alone again. I know grieving is normal but i've never been so damn depressed in my life. Help please someone ~misty

hey misty. I have never experienced what you've been. I'm so sorry about your precious little baby. We are here to help you, I know a lot of women on the forum have been through this. I was given morphine while I was still in my first trimester and then pain killers to take home, so I don't think that had anything to do with it. Doctors do make mistakes, but not usually with meds and preg women. They are especially careful with that. You and your baby will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Nikki n Rudy

replied on December 11th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

Even though it was last year...Im sorry!! Crying or Very sad

Newmommy23

replied on December 11th, 2004

Active User, very eHealthy

I am sorry too!!

Tazzy D

replied on December 11th, 2004

Advanced Support Team

You have to take it day by day. It will always be hard and sometimes those feelings will never go away, but talking to other people that have been through it before can help. I have been through 3 mis. And 1 resulting in a dnc. So I know how you feel, and still to this day I always wonder what if could if... So you have to just take it day by day. Good luck im here if you need to talk... Also sorry I forgot to say I send my condolences to you. Im very sorry for your loss

PosrscheLvr

replied on December 11th, 2004

Experienced User

I am entirely sorry to hear this. I know it has to be very hard. I wish there was something more I could do, or any of us can do. All of us are here to provide support via reading and ("listening") Smile

. I know through the web words can look menial. I just hope you are able to be at peace with this some day. All my best wishes are sent your way.

jessamyn

replied on December 11th, 2004

Extremely eHealthy

How far along were u?

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