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Misty
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003
Posts: 52
Location: Nova Scotia
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I Lost My Baby!!!
Posted: 08-26-03 10:39am
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Well I had a message on here earlier
saying I was pregnant and I had a
wonderful family that wanted to adopt my
baby. I had been having pains for a long
time and went to the doctor he gave me
some "pain killers" and sent me home, I
started bleeding and went back - my doctor
told me i'd be fine. 2 days later I had
my friend rush me to the hospital I was
bleeding extremely bad, they set me up in
the hospital...And later that day I lost
my baby, miscarraiged.... What do I
do?!?! I'm lost now, I was so excited to
be having this baby, and now i'm alone
again. I know grieving is normal but i've
never been so damn depressed in my life.
Help please someone ~misty
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003
Posts: 4921
Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 08-26-03 13:49pm
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I know it must be very hard for you to
lose you little one but dont you think you
would have been more devastated if you
would have had your baby, then lost it a
few days later? Im so sorry you had to go
through this though. Its ok to feel sad
and have mixed emotions. But what kind of
"pain killers" did your doctor give you?
As far as im concerned that shouldnt have
been done. You need to look into this.
There might be a slight chance that your
doctor is part of the reason behind this.
Which could end up to a big lawsuit.
Please look into it. Something sounds
wrong here. Your in my prayers sweetie.
I hope everything will be ok with you.
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ttribble
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 27 Aug 2003
Posts: 5
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Posted: 08-27-03 03:06am
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Like the person before said about checking
to see about the pain medicine b/c in my
1st month of pregnancy I was having really
bad migranes and they said they couldn't
give me any kind of medicine in my 1st
trimester.
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oana23
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 17 Aug 2003
Posts: 41
Location: TX
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Oh...no....
Posted: 08-28-03 15:41pm
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The doc. Gave you pain killers , if
that's true you should take hem to cort my
doc. Will never give me not even aspirin
, they said it's not good for you at
all.
But I do hope you'll be ok.
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jessicalynn
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003
Posts: 68
Location: oregon
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Ekk
Posted: 08-28-03 17:29pm
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baby_blu_02
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Sep 2003
Posts: 5
Location: Cayman Islands
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Posted: 09-08-03 11:50am
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Hi I was pregnant with my 2nd child
earlier this year and I was about 16 weeks
and I lost him. I woke up bleeding one
night and I had him on my bathroom floor.
I know how you feel.
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sazz
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Aug 2003
Posts: 23
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Posted: 09-09-03 21:23pm
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Hey its devistating to hear that you lost
your baby. I was 8 weeks when I lost mine
to a miscariage. I slipped over on a wet,
oily floor at work and started having
pains and then the next day I started to
bleed my boyfriend took me to the doctors
and they said that I had a miscarriage.
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snowball
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Dec 2004
Posts: 159
Location: North Bay,Ontario,Canada
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Posted: 12-11-04 01:51am
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I am so sorry. I had a miscarriage last
year, I was six months pregnant with a
little girl her name was shawna dianne.
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mili
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Dec 2004
Posts: 19
Location: salt lake city utah
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Posted: 12-11-04 07:08am
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I am so sorry. I have not had a baby yet
but I am trying to but from what I know
the doctor shouldnt have given you any
pain killers or any kind of drug. When my
best friend was pregnant the doctor
wouldnt give her anything. You should
really look in to that.
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l2at24
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Nov 2004
Posts: 1509
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Re: I Lost My Baby!!!
Posted: 12-11-04 07:31am
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| misty
wrote: | | well I had a message on here
earlier saying I was pregnant and I had a
wonderful family that wanted to adopt my
baby. I had been having pains for a long
time and went to the doctor he gave me
some "pain killers" and sent me home, I
started bleeding and went back - my doctor
told me i'd be fine. 2 days later I had
my friend rush me to the hospital I was
bleeding extremely bad, they set me up in
the hospital...And later that day I lost
my baby, miscarraiged.... What do I
do?!?! I'm lost now, I was so excited to
be having this baby, and now i'm alone
again. I know grieving is normal but
i've never been so damn depressed in my
life. Help please someone
~misty |
hey misty. I have never experienced what
you've been. I'm so sorry about your
precious little baby. We are here to
help you, I know a lot of women on the
forum have been through this. I was
given morphine while I was still in my
first trimester and then pain killers to
take home, so I don't think that had
anything to do with it. Doctors do make
mistakes, but not usually with meds and
preg women. They are especially careful
with that. You and your baby will be in
my thoughts and prayers.
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Nikki n Rudy
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Nov 2004
Posts: 642
Location: Fort Worth, Texas
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Posted: 12-11-04 08:49am
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Even though it was last year...Im sorry!!
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Newmommy23
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Sep 2004
Posts: 727
Location: Dyess AFB, TX
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Tazzy D
Advanced Support Team
Joined: 30 Oct 2004
Posts: 3718
Location: , va
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Posted: 12-11-04 14:18pm
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You have to take it day by day. It will
always be hard and sometimes those
feelings will never go away, but talking
to other people that have been through it
before can help. I have been through 3
mis. And 1 resulting in a dnc. So I
know how you feel, and still to this day I
always wonder what if could if... So you
have to just take it day by day. Good
luck im here if you need to talk... Also
sorry I forgot to say I send my
condolences to you. Im very sorry for
your loss
Last edited by Tazzy D on 12-11-04 18:07pm; edited 1 time in total
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PosrscheLvr
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Oct 2004
Posts: 304
Location: Plano, Texas
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Posted: 12-11-04 14:20pm
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I am entirely sorry to hear this. I know
it has to be very hard. I wish there was
something more I could do, or any of us
can do. All of us are here to provide
support via reading and ("listening")  . I know through
the web words can look menial. I just
hope you are able to be at peace with this
some day. All my best wishes are sent
your way.
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