How to Give Her a Vaginal Orgasm? Posted: 02-15-07 15:55pm
Hello,
me and my girlfriend are having some
trouble with getting her a vaginal orgasm
she just doesn't feel antyhing she says
or sometimes she does feel a little "i
gotta pee" thing, but it never leads to
anything
she hardly ever masturbates, I told her
she had to try and look for that
feeling/g-spot thing, but I can't force
her to so so if she doesn't feel the need
but it's just that, when we have sex, I
want her to feel good you know
i know she enjoys it, even tho she's
doesn't get to an orgasm, but sometimes I
feel like i'm beeing a bit selfish and I
wanna give her the same great feeling I
get at the same time
clitoral orgasm works fine, so I always go
for that, but it's always before we have
sex or afterwards, would be great it was
during sex
sometimes i'm like "let's find that spot!"
and then we try some positions but it
never works and then it kinda ruins the
mood :p
sooooooo
any tips? Positions? Thanks!
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Llewellyn
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Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 02-15-07 16:37pm
You can easily stimulate the clitoris
during vaginal sex by just making a sort
of rubbing motion and stimulating it with
the area above your penis.
G-spots and vaginal orgasms aren't proven.
They are only theories at this point.
Many people believe, and many don't.
There are many studies where researchers
say, "it looks like they are real," and
many studies where other researchers say,
"it looks like they are not real." few
women claim to have vaginal orgasms.
Most women orgasm from clitoral
stimulation.
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renee06
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Joined: 15 Feb 2007 Posts: 20 Location: Memphis
Posted: 02-16-07 11:07am
There is such thing as a g spot. If she
sticks her finger inside her, and kinda
curls it a little and presses, she'll feel
like she has to pee. That's the g spot.
I recommend her to get on top..The
stimulation from the pelvic bone will help
her to orgasm during sex. That's the only
way I do.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 02-16-07 16:26pm
You can stimulater her clitorally to te
point of orgasm during sex, it just takes
a little bit of dexterity - or she can do
it herself.
As far as the vaginal orgasm... It is
very possible for many women, however some
cannot. Still, before signing off on the
"she can't do it" card, there are things
you can try.
You said she feels like she has to pee?
Good! That means you're hitting the right
spot. You just have to keep it up. Make
sure she knows that this sensation is
perfectly normal, and that she needs to
relaxy down there, instead of tighten up -
I know I get too tense to vaginally
orgasm!
Maybe put down a towel or two, so she
won't be as frightened, since from her
point of view it may feell like she's
going to pee everywhere!
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Breve
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Joined: 04 Jan 2006 Posts: 31
Posted: 02-17-07 08:07am
Alright, thanks all, i'll see what we can
do
but most of the times, we just do a little
foreplay first
but what should I do then? I sometimes
give her a clitorical orgasm already, but
then I dunno if that's the right thing to
do, cuz then when we have sex, she
probably doens't enjoy is at much cuz she
already "got it"
hehe, weird to explain
should I like, turn her on a little, maybe
some oral action and then try to stimulate
her g-spot (if I can find it) from the
inside with a finger
and then have sex?
I dunno what works best..
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honeys04
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Joined: 12 Feb 2007 Posts: 26 Location: Virginia
Posted: 02-17-07 12:40pm
Ok this is comin from my personal
experience...I persoanlly love foreplay
before sex wether it be by fingers or my
vibrator I usually always use my vibrator
before sex and sometimes during....I too
have finally experienced a g-spot orgasim
many times now and the easiest way we have
found that I produced one at first was
with a dildo, goin in and out almost at an
upward angle toward the g-spot area and
not too deep tho the g-spot is not that
far in...Now I am able to produce one with
my husband as well inside me both him on
top and myself on top as well....I
recomend experimenting if the two of you
are comfortable with each other I would
try it out....You can do a search on
g-spot and it will give you some info
almost a walkthrough on maybe gettin there
and how to go about it.....Or even buy a
penis ring with a vibrator on it so while
you are having sex she will have clitoral
stimulation as well........I persoanlly
dont think there is nothing wrong with
makin a girl cum before sex I think it
makes the joy of sex much better!!! But I
do think you need to tell her to
experiment with her self as well its hard
for you as a man to know what to do to her
if she herself really does not know what
she likes!!!! Good luck
