Had Sex For the First Time...

I was constantly turned on like the first five months of being sexually active.

Ha, I love this topic.

I remember I used to keep count of how many times I had sex those first few months. I still have that old journal with the tally- I quit counting after 204. We were rabbits! In hindsight though, I don't feel like I was really ready for sex, and maybe that's why I was so uncomfortable the first time. I had only just turned 16 a few months prior, and I *thought* I was ready of course, but I think I should have waited a little while longer.

I thought I needed to have sex with my boyfriend so that he would stay with me, which of course was ridiculous. He never pressured me or anything, I just decided that it was time. I had good guy who would have waited for me. I still have him 11 years later.

I've only had sex once and only once so I can't compare but I did get turned on whenever I thought about it. I still do.

Nightangel, it is a proven .f.a.c.t that the hymen usually breaks before having sex. Just because it happened to you doesn't mean that's what typically happens. Like everyone has said before, you can break it riding a bike, doing gymnastics, playing sports, inserting a tampon, etc. Typically, the hymen breaks .w.a.y before a girl has sex for the first time. Sorry, it's just the facts.

Oh, so she's one of those "I'm right, you're wrong" type of people. Gotcha!

I feel it can go both ways correct....I was a tomboy when I was younger and I didn't break my hymen til my 3rd partner...Before anyone makes a judgement let me explain...I didn't get my period til I was 17...yes 17...talk about late..later that year I wouldn't let the 1st two go all the way in because it hurt when they tried to go in past 1.5 inches soo I only let the stick the tip in that's all I know kinda corny..So the 3rd guy went all the way in and it felt like something ripped open and I bled for about 2 hrs that's it and I went to the doctor cuz I thought something was wrong..She said your hymen was sorta thick so it took a while to break...I never ever used tampons before until after that. You know different peoples bodies different things happen... We can't say just because one doctor says you still have your hymen and then another says you don't...So whose right they are both doctors correct...So the point of my true story is let's all help each other that's why we are all here not to judge,belittle or say whose right or wrong..You don't have to prove yourself to anyone If what you feel is right and a fact and that person doesn't listen then a hard head makes a soft @$$..you know..Thanks for listening and I hope I helped..Good luck all

it is true that some women don't break their hymen until later. However, the majority of women - in other words, more that half, - will break it before sex.

This means, you're more likely to meet a woman whose hymen broke before sex, than you are likely to meet one whose didn't.

The women whose hymen broke during sex aren't weird, just rare. So yes, it's "normal" to break it during sex, but it is not common.

I've heard that sometimes an infant girl's hymen could break during a vaginal delivery, from the pressure of being squeezed through the birth canal. Not positive, mind you, but I did hear that.

Mine broke from riding/jumping horses, for the record.

I just had sex for the first time, it wasn't at all painful, and i didn't bleed or nothing... I thought i was virgin, and i would bleed with the first intercourse, but it doesn't happen... I've read what you wrote about (first sex with no blood or pain) that's what happenned to me.
I just wanted to stay virgin (I wasn't planning to have complete intercourse with my partner - coz i was just keeping this for the man of my life if i'm going to meet him one day) As well as there is some stupid cultures for some countries which prevent the girl to loose her verginity before marriage - so that's another reason to keep my verginity...
Now the question is: Did i really loosed my verginity? Or it's just an elastic hymen which can thereafter be lost after marriage? Another question: For this first intercourse we didn't use candom, but he didn't cum inside, it was outside... and 5 min after i went showering... can it be any possibility to be pregnant? Knowing that i don't want this at all.
My partner told me that there is no possibilty to be pregnant at all just because he cum outside... I'm so worried now about both things, and waiting for your answers.

Yes you can still get pregnant even if he pulled out. There is a lot of sperm in the fluid that comes out of the penis during intercourse (pre-ejaculate), and you could very well become pregnant from that.

Thank you Kia, Flipper and Llewellyn for the rapid reply, i just get scared now, from being pregnant, Is there any method i can do to avoid being pregnant? Is there any kind of meds or something? It will be a catastroph for me and my family if i'll be pregnant.

And about verginity... i had a friend who's married and she had an elastic hymen which means she was making sex without loosing her virginity until she went to a doctor who made her non virgin by a small operation...
Msybe i'm like her... maybe i'm still virgin but have an elastiv hymen. i really dont know, i'm so worried and scared now.