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Sandbox Party
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Joined: 25 Jul 2006
Posts: 7276
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*~*i Think I Want*~*
Posted: 02-18-07 10:57am
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A divorce.
im so tired of never getting a break.
Im tired of .Robs smart-ass mouth. He
always has to run it when im pissed and
say exactly the things he knows not to
say.
Im tired of him telling me if I want a
break from my responsibilities as a mom to
*get a job.*
like I dont have one.
Maybe I should sit on my ass in a truck
all day like he does. Or the occasional
times he gets out, stand there while the
truck does all the work.
Im sick of everything. He didnt get me
crap for .Valentines day. Hasnt
in 4 years. He begged me to let him
*take me out to dinner* to make up for it.
(even tho earlier in the week he said he
was going to ask my mom to watch the kids
so he could make reservations at a really
nice 4 star restaurant... Didnt happen.
We had dinner at .Logans .Steakhouse
where the patrons are given peanuts to eat
while waiting for their food and are
allowed to dispose of the shells onto the
floor. What a romantic setting.)
he never thinks of me. Even little
things.. He'll go into a store and get
himself something to drink... Never
thinks or asks if I want something.
Ever.
The few times we're in the car together,
and im listening to the radio, he just
*changes* the station if he doesnt like
the song.
Excuse me but he gets to listen to the
f*ckin radio alllll day. I dont.. Get
the hell over it.
But no.
And like just now.. I asked him to help
me clean the bedroom 4 times, and each
time he said he was going to and then
started doing something else. On
purpose. Then walks out of the room
going, *you do what you gotta do.* with no
intention on helping. Like he fuckin
expects me to do it all by myself.
Oh and another thing... When I told him
my kids are my fulltime job, he had the
damn nerve to say, *well you signed up for
the job. What do you want .M.E to do
about it?*
im done.
He can move the fuck back
to .Illinois by himself.
The kids and I are staying here.
Im sorry guys I just needed to vent.
Im nowhere at all any less angry.
But thanks. ^_^
**edited to add... I showed him the
divorce paper I got and he says *have fun
walking to file them.* he refuses to give
me the keys.
Then he says *look kids, mommy should get
off her ass and do something like she told
daddy to do.*
again im crying. I seriously hate him.
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Becky
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Joined: 01 Jan 2006
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Location: London, England
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Posted: 02-18-07 11:36am
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Oh hun i'm sorry to hear this. As you
know neil is a complete prick so I
sympathise with you completely.
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Joined: 04 Jan 2006
Posts: 7892
Location: *UPTOWN*NEW ORLEANS*, La
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Posted: 02-18-07 11:37am
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sandy, I thought all was good? I mean, I
never would have thought that you and .Rob
were having issues, let alone, you wanting
a divorce!
I can't believe he's holding the car over
your head as a means for you not to get
the papers filed!! What an problem!!
When's the last time yall made love? Has
it been a while? That can sometimes be
the cause of friction in a family.
I'm so sorry .Sandy .Pants! I wish there
were more I could say! 
sarah
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Kia
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Joined: 23 Jun 2004
Posts: 6594
Location: Planet Tampaxia,
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Posted: 02-18-07 12:49pm
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Exactly what sarah said
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tigresacanela24
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Joined: 11 Nov 2005
Posts: 5261
Location: Treat your children well, eventually they'll choose your nursing home.
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Posted: 02-18-07 12:59pm
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wow, i'm sorry to
hear that! You know we're all here for
you.
Is there something in the water turning
the men into suckers? This is insane.
It's like everyone is having marital
problems!
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arcadia
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Posted: 02-18-07 14:14pm
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Oh .Sandrapants. I don't know if there's
anything I can say to make you feel
better. But you know in your heart what
you need to do to be happy. So just do
it. I love you & I know you're
extremely strong & can get through
anything that's thrown at you! Come here
& marry me! <3
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yellow ribbon
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Joined: 07 Dec 2005
Posts: 5554
Location: FL
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Posted: 02-18-07 14:47pm
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What an ass grrr. If u r gunna divorce
slowly start hiding the money  then take a taxi!
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 02-18-07 15:36pm
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Aw sandy, I had no idea you were giving me
advice last night and didnt even mention
this! I would have been here for you
i'm so sorry things
are going this bad!
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AyaMiyaki
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Location: Floating on a cloud, United States
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Posted: 02-18-07 18:14pm
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wow. Weren't you
just posting the other day about getting
his name tattooed on you because you guys
don't believe in divorce? I always
thought you two had a great relationship.
if you ever need to
talk you know we're here.
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Sandbox Party
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Joined: 25 Jul 2006
Posts: 7276
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Posted: 02-18-07 19:20pm
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Its not that things are bad.
I just... *sigh* things build and build
up inside me, and all of a sudden one
thing happens (like this morning) and I
just .B.L.O.W. Up.
I lpve him with all my heart and soul..
And I *do* want to be with him forever.
I just totally needed to vent.
Im just *so* stressed right now, you
know?? Having to choose between my
parents and .Robs.. Its not fair to
either of them to have to not be able to
watch the kids grow up.. Either his
parents lose out, or mine.
So now im working on getting my parents to
move to .Illinois... ^_^
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candita_sky
Advanced Support Team
Joined: 02 May 2006
Posts: 522
Location: in the land of pooh bear
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Posted: 02-19-07 00:08am
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Girl you sound like me. That is exactly
what I am going thru now. But what ive
learned is do not do things in order to
make others happy do what makes you happy
and what sounds right to your heart make
all of them decide on a compramise that
works for y.O.U. Girl not the other way
around otherwise that is how they all will
expect you to do is work around them. Hun
I hope it gets better I am here for you if
you need to vent.
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littlesqueaks
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 May 2006
Posts: 296
Location: Caldwell, Idaho
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Posted: 02-19-07 01:07am
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Hi rainfire I know we don't eachother at
all but my name is heather. I have read a
few of your posts and I see that you are
going through a terrible time. I am sorry
to see that you have to go through so much
all at once. Sometimes when one has alot
of things going on around them that is
stressful, fills you with anger and
depression some people take it out on the
ones they love the most. Sometimes tend
to have even the smallest things upset
them.
I saw that in one of your posts that you
and your family (husband & kids) are
going to be moving out on your own soon.
Once maybe your out on your own things
will get better for the two of you.
I am sorry to step into your conversation
and I see you have a lot of people on here
that care about you but if you ever need
more friends you can always pm me as well.
Hang in there time will only make things
better just be patient.
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Melissa_20
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Joined: 18 Jan 2006
Posts: 6806
Location: Florida
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Posted: 02-19-07 08:21am
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| rainfire1424
wrote: |
im just *so* stressed right now, you
know?? Having to choose between my
parents and.Robs.. Its not fair to
either of them to have to not be able to
watch the kids grow up.. Either his
parents lose out, or mine.
So now im working on getting my parents to
move to.Illinois...
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Another thing,i think,and I know you told
me this already,you need to sit down with
rob as one last attempt and talk to him
when bot of you are not in bad moods or
upset and talk to him about how you
feel.Ask him how he feels and why he is
stressed out.Have you thought about going
to counceling?
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lil_blaze2004
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Posted: 02-19-07 09:47am
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ok well I saw your new post with the card
he made you, so are things better today??
Must be men are ignoramus' month!
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Sandbox Party
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jul 2006
Posts: 7276
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Posted: 02-19-07 10:33am
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| lil_blaze2004
wrote: | ok well I saw your new post
with the card he made you, so are things
better today??
Must be men are ignoramus'
month! |
lol yes, ma'am things are fantastic.
Hows the living situation going?
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