i've just turned 20 years old this week
and havent been overly sexually active in
my life, i've only had one partner before
my current one who i've ever done anything
remotely sexual with, so i've not had a
chance to fully experience the
consiquences of the problem i'm having
untill now.
My current partner and I have done a lot
of sexual things together, roughly
everything involved in foreplay and i've
been noticing severe discomfort when
engaging in felatio. I've also found it
impossible to maintain an errection whilst
attempting to have sex (we've never
successfully had intercourse due to this
problem).
So, the problem I have is that ever since
I hit puberty i've had an undefined scar
on the back of my foreskin right at the
top where it pulls back. This scar runs
right to the tip of my penis and prevents
my foreskin from retracting a certain
distance before the scar tissue (i'm
assuming because it isnt as strechty)
pulls tight and stops it from moving any
further back. If this were the only
problem I would not be so concerned, as
i've learnt to live with this since
puberty its not so much a problem for me,
as it isnt uncomfortable, merely
inconvinient.
However the pain and discomfort I am
experiencing is when the skin under the
foreskin is touched, even by so much as a
stay hair can make me flinch
uncontrollably quite violently due to how
"weird" it feels, and during any sexual
relations it is just painful, agonising
almost.
Up untill very recently i've attributed
this sensitivity to the fact that the skin
under my foreskin has never been used and
is thus sensitive due to that, but i've
now realized it must be due to whatever
damaged my foreskin as a child actually
damaging the skin on the head of my penis
also and it must have healed itself
awkwardly and made the whole area
sensitive, uncomfortable and painful.
I'd like to know what action I can take to
cure this problem, it seems obvious that
some sort of medical opinion is going to
be needed and I fully intend to goto a
doctor to get it checked out at some point
but i'm curious which doctor to goto, I
live in the uk, so should I go to my local
doctor (i have recently moved and have
only seen my doctor once, and it is an
extremely small clinic) or should I goto
somebody more specialized?
I'm also curious if anybody knows what
sort of action could be taken if my own
diagnosis is correct, my worst nightmare
is them suggesting something like applying
cream to it - as this would be absolute
agony and would likely cause me to throw
up as its so uncomfortable.
Any help would be greatly appriciated.
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Llewellyn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 02-21-07 16:15pm
I am not sure what might have caused that
or what they would do to fix the problem.
You can probably go to your regular doctor
to get looked at. If you do end up
needing a specialist, your doctor would
let you know that and refer you. It's
certainly worth a shot to see what he or
she would say. Don't be afraid to go out
of fear of having to apply cream or
something. It's certainly worth at least
hearing what the doctor has to suggest if
nothing else.
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PaulJ
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 23 Feb 2007 Posts: 4
Posted: 02-23-07 13:09pm
I have this problem with a bit of "scar
tissue" there aswell. It happened when I
was going through early puberty. My
foreskin does not pull fully back either.
I hope someone has some help with this? I
also would like to know what to do.
