Ok, Iam due in anywhere from 3-5 weeks and I am having major problems! My baby's daddy and I have been together for 3 years and up until about November or so we were engaged, then all of the sudden he quit looking for us a place to move to and quit coming around a lot and quit calling and all. The last day of december my family saw him out eating with a girl and a bunch of his friends and when my dad confronted him he said the baby wasn't his but then he came home that night and acted like nothing happened and all. Since then I have only heard from him a few times and I have not seen him at all. He called a few weeks ago wanting me to go out to eat with him b/c he had some "good" things to talk to me about and I agreed. I got all dressed up and waited on him all night, he finally text me and said he got off work too late could we go the next night and I agreed and he never has called back.
I talked to him briefly on valentines day and he didnt ask how the baby is or tell me happy v day or anything, he really didnt have much to say. I also found out he still hasn't told his parents im pregnant. Just a few minutes ago my sister and I were riding through town and I saw his truck at a restaurant, although he is suppose to be at work.
I am just so frustrated with him, I don't know what the deal is, I mean it's obvious that he is trying to worm his way out of everything but I feel bad for my son b/c he won't have a dad. It angers me off also b/c I have spent like all my money on baby stuff and I am having to stay with my mom for now. I have spent like $2,000 dollars so far and now I am broke and he makes a lot of money and blows it on himself and beer and won't help me at all. I am struggling to go to college and keep up and I just don't know how to handle the situation. I can't ever get him to talk to me or meet me somewhere b/c he always has an excuse so im lost.
Anyway, just wanted to get that off my chest so I can concentrate on my homework.