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beybof7
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Can I Get Pregnant???
Posted: 02-20-07 14:41pm
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so i'm totally confused. just a run down.
and every comment would help. i've been
having unprotected sex since age 12. it's
never been to a point that a male has ever
ejaculated inside of me until recently
(jan. 23 07). we decided that we wanted to
have a child. he penetrated deeply for a
long period of time and it "felt" as if
his sperm was swimming around in my
insides. the next day i started my period.
horrible cramping and all. i went
immediately to the doctor because i had
already had my period jan 1 - 3, 2007. the
doctor said it was probably stress and
blah..but took a blood test and it came
back negative if i was pregnant.
you could sort of say i had pregnancy
symptoms. breasts were tender, always
tired, cravings for things i never really
ate & plus he ejaculated inside of me
a few times so why wouldn't i think so. so
here i am feb. 20 (nearly a month) and my
period is here again. heavy cramping,
heavy bleeding. breast a tad bit
tender...my questions???
-is it possible the first bleeding jan. 23
was from a miscarriage?
-am i having a miscarriage now feb. 20?
-am i not able to conceive?
-is this type of thing normal?
i've taken only 2 tests. one ept
(negative) and the one the doctor gave me
back on jan. 24 (negative). could their be
something else wrong? has anyone
experienced this sort of thing. please let
me know.
~~21 year old confused trying to be
mother~~
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 02-20-07 14:46pm
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There is no way you felt sperm swimming
around. They can't be seen except by
microscope. No way did you feel them
moving around in there. It's not possible.
Sorry.
If you were having a miscarriage, you
would still trigger a positive on a
pregnancy test. You're experiencing a
period.
If you want to get pregnant, google
"ovulation". You have to have sex at the
right time in order to get pregnant.
Good luck.
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Becky
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Posted: 02-20-07 14:48pm
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ok i was going to post but you said
exactly what i wanted to say laura! 
also, if you have been having unprotected
sex since 12 i would get yourself tested
for infections
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 02-20-07 14:51pm
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Great minds think alike, my love! 
I also agree that you need to be tested
for .s.t.ds.
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Idony
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Posted: 02-20-07 14:53pm
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bleeding the day after sex does not signal
miscarrige nor can you even be pregnant
yet, to be actualy pregnant it takes a day
(i think) for the sperm to meet the egg
then about at least a weeks (i think) for
the egg to implant into the uterin wall,
then you are pregnant
this sounds like just a normal period,
with normal pms symptoms (breast
tenderness, cramps, etc) even if you didnt
use to have pms symptoms you can most
deffinantly change
in my very (un)professional opinion you
are not, and were not, pregnant
please dont take offence to this but, if
you are this clueless about how pregnancy
happens you should go do a little research
before you even try, i knew this kind of
stuff when i was in 5th grade
~alicia~
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Sunflower_pie81
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Posted: 02-20-07 14:54pm
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i agree with both of the above posters,
and wanted to add that a blood test the
day after having sex wouldn't have
produced a positive result.
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beybof7
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Posted: 02-20-07 15:20pm
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i guess maybe you didn't understand what i
meant by "swimming"...so let's just say i
don't spend my time on health posts that
are suppose to "HELP" others understand
certain issues of their body..rather you
knew things back in 5th grade compared to
what i know now..that doesn't make a
difference...i'm not dumbfounded when it
comes to pregnancies..more so on here to
see if another experienced the same as
myself..so if you didn't know what i was
talking about than why respond??? and put
your one cent in???
and STDS...i would have mentioned that if
i felt the need or if i ever had one but
God has blessed me not too...so quite
frankly..don't judge me by the age i lost
my virginity..if i was vulgar..i would
really tell you about yourself..thanks but
NO THANKS to all the advice (not sure what
advice you gave)
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Re: ...
Posted: 02-20-07 15:26pm
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| beybof7
wrote: | i guess maybe you didn't
understand what i meant by "swimming"...so
let's just say i don't spend my time on
health posts that are suppose to "HELP"
others understand certain issues of their
body..rather you knew things back in 5th
grade compared to what i know now..that
doesn't make a difference...i'm not
dumbfounded when it comes to
pregnancies..more so on here to see if
another experienced the same as myself..so
if you didn't know what i was talking
about than why respond??? and put your one
cent in???
and STDS...i would have mentioned that if
i felt the need or if i ever had one but
God has blessed me not too...so quite
frankly..don't judge me by the age i lost
my virginity..if i was vulgar..i would
really tell you about yourself..thanks but
NO THANKS to all the advice (not sure what
advice you
gave) |
*if* someone wanted to be mean,they would
tell you to keep your legs closed
dummba$s!Maybe your not ready for a baby
yet.you should try and grow up first 
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 02-20-07 15:35pm
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Excuse me?
You came on here asking if you could be
pregnant or if you could be experiencing a
miscarriage. We told you no, and explained
why. You also said you could feel your
man's sperm swimming around inside of you,
and we explained why that isn't possible.
You said you've been engaging in
unprotected sex for, what, 9 years now? We
suggested that you get an .s.t.d test to
make sure you're healthy. You mentioned
you wanted to become pregnant and didn't
understand why you haven't been yet, and
we suggested that you become familiar with
ovulation, since the fertile window is
only open for 72 hours or so.
Where do you come off getting offended by
all that? We can only go off what you tell
us, and we base our advice around that. If
you're going to get pissed off from that,
then fine. But our advice was solid.
Have a good day. Or not. Whatever.
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Posted: 02-20-07 15:38pm
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| AyaMiyaki
wrote: | | since the fertile window is
only open for 72 hours or
so. |
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 02-20-07 15:42pm
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Hell, I don't know. It's small.
oh, and may I just add:
| beybof7
wrote: | | and every comment would
help. |
except every comment you've received. I
guess you only want comments that tell you
what you want to hear? Whatever, .i'm over
it. Don't ask if you don't want to know.
Buh bye.
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 02-20-07 15:44pm
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if you felt sperm swimming in you,thats a
pretty good sign your pregnant.in fact it
sounds like your about 6 weeks along.don't
mind the blood,wear a pad.
there ya go!
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Posted: 02-20-07 15:47pm
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i agree with everything else everyone has
said, you said every comment would help
but then when we tell you the facts you
want to get rude about it because it's not
what you want to hear..
you want to hear that you're pregnant?
fine then, you're pregnant.
happy?
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Idony
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Posted: 02-20-07 18:51pm
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| AyaMiyaki
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| beybof7
wrote: | | and every comment would
help. |
except every comment you've received. I
guess you only want comments that tell you
what you want to hear? Whatever, .i'm over
it. Don't ask if you don't want to know.
Buh bye. |
exactly what i was thinking
~alicia~
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negar
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Wow...
Posted: 02-20-07 19:15pm
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She is something...you girls are sweet to
care and give advise and I wish people
would simply appreciate it and not be so
rude and crazy. I think you just got a
case of what is called "must grow up".
Good luck with that.
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Re: Wow...
Posted: 02-20-07 19:17pm
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| negar
wrote: | | She is something...you girls
are sweet to care and give advise and I
wish people would simply appreciate it and
not be so rude and crazy. I think you
just got a case of what is called "must
grow up". Good luck with
that. |
we are pretty used to it around here.
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