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Q: Need Help!

asked by: pinkbutterfly on February 20th, 2007

New User

First off..I know what I did was wrong just so you know, but I just found out I was pregnant yesterday and I'm scared to death. Last month I cheated on my boyfriend one time in the three years we've been together. Now I just found out that I'm 7 weeks pregnant and I don't know who it belongs to. My last period was on Jan. 2 and my due date is Oct. 09. I had sex with my boyfriend on the 17th and the other guy on the 18th. Now the other guy was real quick and he pulled out. My boyfriend didn't. I'm hoping that because my boyfriend was first and he didnt pull out that he is the father but I'm scared that I'm wrong. What do you think?

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Replies(7)

terpamber

replied on February 20th, 2007

Experienced User

Sorry we aren't going to be able to help with this one. Your going to have to get a paternity test after the baby is born. Thats all there is to say.

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HcoBrunette06

replied on February 20th, 2007

Especially eHealthy

lord whats up with women cheating on their boyfriends and having unprotected sex and getting pregnant?
but obviously we cant tell you who the father is, you need a paternity test.

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pinkbutterfly

replied on February 21st, 2007

New User

I know what I did was wrong but I don't think that I deserve to be treated like a prostitute. It was only one time EVER which I know doesn't make it right and it's not like I go out every night to find the next guy to sleep with. I don't want to be preached at like you have never done anything wrong. I just wanted some advice. I am really scared and I don't know what to do. I can't afford a paternity test nor do I want my boyfriend to find out what happened. That's why I asked about the conception date.

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mamaTT

replied on February 21st, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

With it being only 24 hours or less in between guys, there is no way to know for sure which one is the daddy of your child. A paternity test would be needed to verify.

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arcadia

replied on February 21st, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

nobody treated you like a prostitute. all we said is we cannot tell you for sure who the father is. only science can do that. what are you going to do if the baby is the other guys?

if you cycles are the average 28 days.. then the .l.i.k.e.l.y date of conception is around .january 16th.. but that's not 100%. it all depends on when you ovulated. since you had sex with both of them so close together, it really honestly could be either of theirs. the only way to know for sure is going to be getting a paternity test after the baby is born. it's the only way.

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Magical Logic

replied on February 21st, 2007

Extremely eHealthy

pinkbutterfly wrote:

I know what I did was wrong but I don't think that I deserve to be treated like a prostitute. It was only one time EVER which I know doesn't make it right and it's not like I go out every night to find the next guy to sleep with. I don't want to be preached at like you have never done anything wrong. I just wanted some advice. I am really scared and I don't know what to do. I can't afford a paternity test nor do I want my boyfriend to find out what happened. That's why I asked about the conception date.

nobody here treated you like a prostitute. you treated yourself like a prostitute

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HcoBrunette06

replied on February 21st, 2007

Especially eHealthy

im not treating you like a prostitute, i was just asking whats the deal with all these ladies coming here after cheating on their guys and ending up pregnant? at least if you're going to do it use protection or something! and yeah i know i've done things wrong, lots of things, but i've never cheated.

i'm debating on whether or not to press submit as i don't want to offend anyone here, it's not a personal attack, i'm just proving a point to her and you know i love you guys. so im sorry if it does urt feelings.

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