First off..I know what I did was wrong
just so you know, but I just found out I
was pregnant yesterday and I'm scared to
death. Last month I cheated on my
boyfriend one time in the three years
we've been together. Now I just found out
that I'm 7 weeks pregnant and I don't know
who it belongs to. My last period was on
Jan. 2 and my due date is Oct. 09. I had
sex with my boyfriend on the 17th and the
other guy on the 18th. Now the other guy
was real quick and he pulled out. My
boyfriend didn't. I'm hoping that because
my boyfriend was first and he didnt pull
out that he is the father but I'm scared
that I'm wrong. What do you think?
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terpamber
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Joined: 21 Nov 2006 Posts: 430
Posted: 02-20-07 17:05pm
Sorry we aren't going to be able to help
with this one. Your going to have to get a
paternity test after the baby is born.
Thats all there is to say.
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 02-20-07 17:18pm
lord whats up with women cheating on their
boyfriends and having unprotected sex and
getting pregnant?
but obviously we cant tell you who the
father is, you need a paternity test.
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pinkbutterfly
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Joined: 20 Feb 2007 Posts: 2
Posted: 02-21-07 13:22pm
I know what I did was wrong but I don't
think that I deserve to be treated like a
prostitute. It was only one time EVER
which I know doesn't make it right and
it's not like I go out every night to find
the next guy to sleep with. I don't want
to be preached at like you have never done
anything wrong. I just wanted some advice.
I am really scared and I don't know what
to do. I can't afford a paternity test nor
do I want my boyfriend to find out what
happened. That's why I asked about the
conception date.
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mamaTT
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Posted: 02-21-07 13:27pm
With it being only 24 hours or less in
between guys, there is no way to know for
sure which one is the daddy of your child.
A paternity test would be needed to
verify.
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arcadia
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Posted: 02-21-07 13:28pm
nobody treated you like a prostitute. all
we said is we cannot tell you for sure who
the father is. only science can do that.
what are you going to do if the baby is
the other guys?
if you cycles are the average 28 days..
then the .l.i.k.e.l.y date of conception
is around .january 16th.. but that's not
100%. it all depends on when you ovulated.
since you had sex with both of them so
close together, it really honestly could
be either of theirs. the only way to know
for sure is going to be getting a
paternity test after the baby is born.
it's the only way.
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Magical Logic
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Joined: 14 Mar 2006 Posts: 2248
Posted: 02-21-07 13:30pm
pinkbutterfly
wrote:
I know what I did was wrong
but I don't think that I deserve to be
treated like a prostitute. It was only one
time EVER which I know doesn't make it
right and it's not like I go out every
night to find the next guy to sleep with.
I don't want to be preached at like you
have never done anything wrong. I just
wanted some advice. I am really scared and
I don't know what to do. I can't afford a
paternity test nor do I want my boyfriend
to find out what happened. That's why I
asked about the conception
date.
nobody here treated you
like a prostitute. you treated yourself
like a prostitute
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 02-21-07 19:56pm
im not treating you like a prostitute, i
was just asking whats the deal with all
these ladies coming here after cheating on
their guys and ending up pregnant? at
least if you're going to do it use
protection or something! and yeah i know
i've done things wrong, lots of things,
but i've never cheated.
i'm debating on whether or not to press
submit as i don't want to offend anyone
here, it's not a personal attack, i'm just
proving a point to her and you know i love
you guys. so im sorry if it does urt
feelings.
