I was
going out with my first real boyfriend we
had been together 8 months and he'd always
get real snappy over nothing and we'd
always end up fighting about it. He would
make up lies to me and his mates so none
of us would get along. One night my
boyfriend broke up with me completely out
of the blue and i was hear broken (still
am) I couldnt understand what was going on
because at night time he would still
messgae me saying i was amazing he loved
me and missed me but there was no way we
could be together i found this very
frustrating. One night we met at a party
and he got me to go stay at his house once
i got there i knew i was doing the wrong
thing so tried to leave but he forced me
to stay and hold him then he just cried in
my arms. The next day he ran off with
another girl i was furious then that night
he got me to meet him and he told me he
has bipolar and i was the first person he
had ever told not even his parents know.
Now that he's told me i want to try and
help but he has fully kicked me out of his
life and wont talk to me at all. I dont
know what to do anymore i want to talk to
him and i need him to understand i love
him and will stick by him through this
mess and he isn't taking any medication
which he really needs. How do i ease my
way back into his life to help him before
hes too far gone???? PLEASE HELP!!!!
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ThriceP86
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Aug 2006 Posts: 5 Location: MN
Posted: 02-22-07 23:00pm
first of all, it sounds like he is bipolar
but how does he know for sure? I'm just
curious because he might be saying it just
to suck you into his "downward spiral" or
whatever you want to call it.
Secondly, there really isn't anything you
can do. It depends if he really wants
help. And sometimes people have to hit
rock bottom before they figure that out.
Thirdly, I know it sucks and it sounds
like he's hurt you badly. I personally
haven't gone through anything like it
myself but I'm living with bp, too, so I
hope my comments help in some way.
I was
going out with my first real boyfriend we
had been together 8 months and he'd always
get real snappy over nothing and we'd
always end up fighting about it. He would
make up lies to me and his mates so none
of us would get along. One night my
boyfriend broke up with me completely out
of the blue and i was hear broken (still
am) I couldnt understand what was going on
because at night time he would still
messgae me saying i was amazing he loved
me and missed me but there was no way we
could be together i found this very
frustrating. One night we met at a party
and he got me to go stay at his house once
i got there i knew i was doing the wrong
thing so tried to leave but he forced me
to stay and hold him then he just cried in
my arms. The next day he ran off with
another girl i was furious then that night
he got me to meet him and he told me he
has bipolar and i was the first person he
had ever told not even his parents know.
Now that he's told me i want to try and
help but he has fully kicked me out of his
life and wont talk to me at all. I dont
know what to do anymore i want to talk to
him and i need him to understand i love
him and will stick by him through this
mess and he isn't taking any medication
which he really needs. How do i ease my
way back into his life to help him before
hes too far gone???? PLEASE HELP!!!!