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strawberry_fields
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Jan 2007
Posts: 16
Location: australia
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Help
Posted: 02-21-07 21:30pm
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hey guys im 17 and 11 weeks pregnant im so
excited i cant waite 2 have the baby i
hope everything thing will be ok i had a
misscariage last year in june and that was
one of the worst things ive eva had 2 go
through.I really wanna know what im having
!! me and my boyfriend went 2 america in
in december that wen i conceived and we
got married in vegas the last 2 weeks we
have been fighting and now his moved out
we have split up and im going through alot
i dont even want 2 go to work cause im so
depressed im really scared about doing it
all on my own is it really ard being a
single mum? pluss i dont even know how the
money works with child support dose that
mean i have 2 but my baby with my husbands
last name on the birth certificate? ahhh
so much stuff 2 stress about
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Sandbox Party
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Re: Help
Posted: 02-21-07 22:33pm
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| strawberry_fields
wrote: | | hey guys im 17 and 11 weeks
pregnant im so excited i cant waite 2 have
the baby i hope everything thing will be
ok i had a misscariage last year in june
and that was one of the worst things ive
eva had 2 go through.I really wanna know
what im having !! me and my boyfriend went
2 america in in december that wen i
conceived and we got married in vegas the
last 2 weeks we have been fighting and now
his moved out we have split up and im
going through alot i dont even want 2 go
to work cause im so depressed im really
scared about doing it all on my own is it
really ard being a single mum? pluss i
dont even know how the money works with
child support dose that mean i have 2 but
my baby with my husbands last name on the
birth certificate? ahhh so much stuff 2
stress about |
wow.. sorry to hear you have so much to
worry about, hun.. But think about that
baby growing inside you!! Its such an
amazing thing to look forward to! Dont be
depressed... Everyone goes thru times like
that.
Im not 100% sure how things work with
child support in Austrailia, but here
,yes, the dads name has to be on the birth
certificate if you want to go after him
for child support. (unless he agrees to
take a paternity test.)
Dont give up so soon!! Things can work
between you and your man, trust me... Girl
you two are going thru really hard times
right now.. Having a baby AND getting
married are two very scary things.
Hang in there, babe.
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strawberry_fields
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Jan 2007
Posts: 16
Location: australia
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Posted: 02-22-07 05:36am
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thanks darl u have made me feel heaps
betta!!
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 02-22-07 10:16am
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| strawberry_fields
wrote: | | thanks darl u have made me
feel heaps betta!! |
im always in here in the mornings so if
you need to talk to somebody who's been
thru it all, you can PM me.
We also have a regular *Pregnancy* forum
on eHealth as well if you'd like to check
it out.. But stick aorund here too..
you'll find a lot of girls you can relate
to whom are around your age.
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Melissa_20
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Joined: 18 Jan 2006
Posts: 6806
Location: Florida
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Re: Help
Posted: 02-22-07 10:52am
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| rainfire1424
wrote: | | strawberry_fields
wrote: | | hey guys im 17 and 11 weeks
pregnant im so excited i cant waite 2 have
the baby i hope everything thing will be
ok i had a misscariage last year in june
and that was one of the worst things ive
eva had 2 go through.I really wanna know
what im having !! me and my boyfriend went
2 america in in december that wen i
conceived and we got married in vegas the
last 2 weeks we have been fighting and now
his moved out we have split up and im
going through alot i dont even want 2 go
to work cause im so depressed im really
scared about doing it all on my own is it
really ard being a single mum? pluss i
dont even know how the money works with
child support dose that mean i have 2 but
my baby with my husbands last name on the
birth certificate? ahhh so much stuff 2
stress about |
Im not
100% sure how things work with child
support in Austrailia, but here
,yes, the dads name has to be on the birth
certificate if you want to go after him
for child support. (unless he agrees to
take a paternity
test.) |
didn't notice she was
form australia. . .erm,I thought she came
from somewhere else since her english
sucks so bad.how old are you?
things will get better.you and your man
should just try and work through
things.times are hard but your there to
suport each other.
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Sandbox Party
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Re: Help
Posted: 02-22-07 12:10pm
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| Melissa_20
wrote: | | rainfire1424
wrote: | | strawberry_fields
wrote: | | hey guys im 17 and 11 weeks
pregnant im so excited i cant waite 2 have
the baby i hope everything thing will be
ok i had a misscariage last year in june
and that was one of the worst things ive
eva had 2 go through.I really wanna know
what im having !! me and my boyfriend went
2 america in in december that wen i
conceived and we got married in vegas the
last 2 weeks we have been fighting and now
his moved out we have split up and im
going through alot i dont even want 2 go
to work cause im so depressed im really
scared about doing it all on my own is it
really ard being a single mum? pluss i
dont even know how the money works with
child support dose that mean i have 2 but
my baby with my husbands last name on the
birth certificate? ahhh so much stuff 2
stress about |
Im not
100% sure how things work with child
support in Austrailia, but here
,yes, the dads name has to be on the birth
certificate if you want to go after him
for child support. (unless he agrees to
take a paternity
test.) |
didn't notice she was
form australia. . .erm,I thought she came
from somewhere else since her english
sucks so bad.how old are you?
things will get better.you and your man
should just try and work through
things.times are hard but your there to
suport each other. |
lol look at her location, smarty-pants
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Melissa_20
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Joined: 18 Jan 2006
Posts: 6806
Location: Florida
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Re: Help
Posted: 02-22-07 12:52pm
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| rainfire1424
wrote: | | Melissa_20
wrote: | | rainfire1424
wrote: | | strawberry_fields
wrote: | | hey guys im 17 and 11 weeks
pregnant im so excited i cant waite 2 have
the baby i hope everything thing will be
ok i had a misscariage last year in june
and that was one of the worst things ive
eva had 2 go through.I really wanna know
what im having !! me and my boyfriend went
2 america in in december that wen i
conceived and we got married in vegas the
last 2 weeks we have been fighting and now
his moved out we have split up and im
going through alot i dont even want 2 go
to work cause im so depressed im really
scared about doing it all on my own is it
really ard being a single mum? pluss i
dont even know how the money works with
child support dose that mean i have 2 but
my baby with my husbands last name on the
birth certificate? ahhh so much stuff 2
stress about |
Im not
100% sure how things work with child
support in Austrailia, but here
,yes, the dads name has to be on the birth
certificate if you want to go after him
for child support. (unless he agrees to
take a paternity
test.) |
didn't notice she was
form australia. . .erm,I thought she came
from somewhere else since her english
sucks so bad.how old are you?
things will get better.you and your man
should just try and work through
things.times are hard but your there to
suport each other. |
lol look at her location, smarty-pants
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I did after you said
something but before I looked I thought
she was from a country where they spoke
little english since her's sucked so bad.
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Sandbox Party
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Posts: 7276
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Posted: 02-22-07 12:55pm
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her english seems fine to me, just a
littlr grammar errors.
every1 here knows i kant spell very gud
eether. 
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strawberry_fields
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Jan 2007
Posts: 16
Location: australia
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Posted: 02-22-07 20:36pm
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why the hell are you so rude i was rushing
when i wrote it pluss i never read over
what i have written i didnt ask for your
opinion on my writing skills
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 02-22-07 20:51pm
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| strawberry_fields
wrote: | | why the hell are you so rude
i was rushing when i wrote it pluss i
never read over what i have written i
didnt ask for your opinion on my writing
skills |
Eh... Melissa is a little over-critical
with everyone.. she doesnt do it on
purpose... trust me shes really nice and
doesnt do things to be mean.
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Bridget
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Posted: 02-22-07 21:30pm
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| strawberry_fields
wrote: | | why the hell are you so rude
i was rushing when i wrote it pluss i
never read over what i have written i
didnt ask for your opinion on my writing
skills |
i know you weren't talking to me but i
have a hard time reading your posts too.
i'm not being rude, i'm just saying you
could use some punctuation and maybe spell
out things like "to" instead of 2 and
"ever" instead of eva.
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strawberry_fields
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 31 Jan 2007
Posts: 16
Location: australia
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Posted: 02-22-07 22:49pm
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its just an easy way out im sorry i didnt
realise it was a problem everybody dose it
on msn and now im so used to it
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 02-22-07 23:01pm
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| strawberry_fields
wrote: | | its just an easy way out im
sorry i didnt realise it was a problem
everybody dose it on msn and now im so
used to it |
lol its no biggie.
All of us do it from time to time without
noticing.
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Melissa_20
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Joined: 18 Jan 2006
Posts: 6806
Location: Florida
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Posted: 02-23-07 08:43am
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| strawberry_fields
wrote: | | why the hell are you so rude
i was rushing when i wrote it pluss i
never read over what i have written i
didnt ask for your opinion on my writing
skills |
well I really wasn't
being rude thank you,just wondering why it
sucked so bad.did I correct you on
anything or care that you didn't want my
opinion? no! sorry if it offended you
thank you bridget!
| rainfire1424
wrote: | | strawberry_fields
wrote: | | why the hell are you so rude
i was rushing when i wrote it pluss i
never read over what i have written i
didnt ask for your opinion on my writing
skills |
Eh... Melissa is a little over-critical
with everyone.. she doesnt do it on
purpose... trust me shes really nice and
doesnt do things to be
mean. |
i'm not "over critical"
with everyone.what I said was the truth.
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 02-23-07 11:00am
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| Melissa_20
wrote: | | strawberry_fields
wrote: | | why the hell are you so rude
i was rushing when i wrote it pluss i
never read over what i have written i
didnt ask for your opinion on my writing
skills |
well I really wasn't
being rude thank you,just wondering why it
sucked so bad.did I correct you on
anything or care that you didn't want my
opinion? no! sorry if it offended you
thank you bridget!
| rainfire1424
wrote: | | strawberry_fields
wrote: | | why the hell are you so rude
i was rushing when i wrote it pluss i
never read over what i have written i
didnt ask for your opinion on my writing
skills |
Eh... Melissa is a little over-critical
with everyone.. she doesnt do it on
purpose... trust me shes really nice and
doesnt do things to be
mean. |
i'm not "over critical"
with everyone.what I said was the
truth. |
more like super analytical lol but u see
the smallest things no one else catches
onto!!
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Melissa_20
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Joined: 18 Jan 2006
Posts: 6806
Location: Florida
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Posted: 02-23-07 11:03am
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| rainfire1424
wrote: | | Melissa_20
wrote: | | strawberry_fields
wrote: | | why the hell are you so rude
i was rushing when i wrote it pluss i
never read over what i have written i
didnt ask for your opinion on my writing
skills |
well I really wasn't
being rude thank you,just wondering why it
sucked so bad.did I correct you on
anything or care that you didn't want my
opinion? no! sorry if it offended you
thank you bridget!
| rainfire1424
wrote: | | strawberry_fields
wrote: | | why the hell are you so rude
i was rushing when i wrote it pluss i
never read over what i have written i
didnt ask for your opinion on my writing
skills |
Eh... Melissa is a little over-critical
with everyone.. she doesnt do it on
purpose... trust me shes really nice and
doesnt do things to be
mean. |
i'm not "over critical"
with everyone.what I said was the
truth. |
more like super analytical lol but u see
the smallest things no one else catches
onto!! |
thats a gift! bridget caugth
onto it! i guess we're special then =]
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 02-23-07 11:10am
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| Melissa_20
wrote: | | rainfire1424
wrote: | | Melissa_20
wrote: | | strawberry_fields
wrote: | | why the hell are you so rude
i was rushing when i wrote it pluss i
never read over what i have written i
didnt ask for your opinion on my writing
skills |
well I really wasn't
being rude thank you,just wondering why it
sucked so bad.did I correct you on
anything or care that you didn't want my
opinion? no! sorry if it offended you
thank you bridget!
| rainfire1424
wrote: | | strawberry_fields
wrote: | | why the hell are you so rude
i was rushing when i wrote it pluss i
never read over what i have written i
didnt ask for your opinion on my writing
skills |
Eh... Melissa is a little over-critical
with everyone.. she doesnt do it on
purpose... trust me shes really nice and
doesnt do things to be
mean. |
i'm not "over critical"
with everyone.what I said was the
truth. |
more like super analytical lol but u see
the smallest things no one else catches
onto!! |
thats a gift! bridget caugth
onto it! i guess we're special then
=] |
ofcourse ur special, melly butt!!!
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mommyto3soontobe4boys
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Feb 2007
Posts: 185
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Posted: 02-23-07 21:39pm
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you might want to try marriage counciling
before you worry about child support.
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 02-24-07 12:46pm
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| mommyto3soontobe4boys
wrote: | | you might want to try
marriage counciling before you worry about
child support. |
thats very true.
You shouldnt give up.. theres always room
for improvement.
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