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terpamber

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Joined: 21 Nov 2006
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Thank You And Goodbye Posted: 02-22-07 09:07am


I had a lot of fun chating with you girls but I started bleeding yesterday afternoon just barely but it's a little heaver this morning and .I'm have pretty consistent cramps. I think .I'm out, for good. This was our 6th and last month of TTC. I guess she (.A.F) hasen't officially started full speed yet but yeah .I'm pretty sure she is coming. Anyway I may check back every once in a while to see you you girls are doing but that all depends on my mood, you know the drill. Thanks for all your support! ~Amber

tinkinpink84

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Posted: 02-22-07 09:14am


aww sorry ::hugs:: , we are all here if you ever need to talk to anyone. take care

Kia

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Posted: 02-22-07 09:14am


woah wait sweetie, 6 months isn't long when you're ttc. don't give up and be disheartened. never give up hope. hugz Kia x

Sunflower_pie81

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Posted: 02-22-07 09:17am

Kia wrote:

woah wait sweetie,
6 months isn't long when you're ttc.

don't give up and be disheartened.
never give up hope.

hugz Kia x

doesn't it take, on average, up to a year ttc?

terpamber

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Why We Only Tried 6 Months. Posted: 02-22-07 09:19am


Oh .Kia .I forgot .I had not told my whole story on here. My husband has cancer and we were really unsure if we should be having a child or not. We wanted too, but we weren't sure if it was smart to intently put a child in that position (of losing there father at such a young age) so we decided to try for 6 months and if it happened yippie if not we would take that as a sign. I've thought multiple times while we were TTC that if .I had a baby "right now" there would be no way .I could take care of both .Mark and the baby so .I am sure its for the best. Anyway thats my depressing story, you girls were a lot of fun! ~.Amber

lil_blaze2004

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Posted: 02-22-07 09:46am


amber you don't have to leave sweetie, the girls here a great support system for any problems!!

terpamber

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Posted: 02-22-07 10:18am


Thanks as you can see its hard to leave its become a part of my day and my coping method. I hope I can stick around you girls are a lot of fun but last night even a commercial with a baby made me cry (maybe thats the pms talking) we will see.

Sandbox Party

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Posted: 02-22-07 10:24am

terpamber wrote:

Thanks as you can see its hard to leave its become a part of my day and my coping method. I hope I can stick around you girls are a lot of fun but last night even a commercial with a baby made me cry (maybe thats the pms talking) we will see.

Amber there are girls in here who've never even TRIED to conceive!!! MELISSA!!! NATIALIE!! lol

Girl stay!!! We're all friends here, and we all talk like old best buds.

STAY STAY STAY STAY STAY!!!!!!!!!!

PWEAAAAAAAAASE!!

Melissa_20

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Posted: 02-22-07 10:34am

rainfire1424 wrote:

terpamber wrote:

yeah,no chilren herrre yet! don't give up girl.you just can't put a time limit on things like that no matter what the situation.He has cancer but itd eosn't mean you both should stop living your lives adn stop ttc! you should just keep the mindset,if it happens it happens and leave it at that hun.Please don't leave ussss!

Becky

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Posted: 02-22-07 14:17pm


yes please don't go. it's always nice to have someone to chat to

Jules

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Posted: 02-22-07 14:29pm


Right, I don't know your whole story so I'm going out on a bit of a limb here and I really hope I don't offend anyone. I was just wondering, if you're worried that you will lose your husband (God forbid) and you want children but perhaps now is not the right time, could you arrange to have your hubby's sperm frozen for future use? If your hubby saw a solicitor to give legal consent for his sperm to be used in the event of his passing away then perhaps you could still have his baby through ivf. There was a famous case of that happening in this country, I think the lady's name was .Diane .Blood but I might have that wrong. Now I might totally have the wrong end of the stick because I don't know your hubby's prognosis but it's just an idea. I wish you and your hubby all the best, I hope you stick around here. If this post offends then I will of course delete it.

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Posted: 02-22-07 14:45pm


I think the reason they're hesitant is because they don't want their child to be (possibly) fatherless in a short time.

Jules

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Posted: 02-22-07 14:55pm

AyaMiyaki wrote:

I think the reason they're hesitant is because they don't want their child to be (possibly) fatherless in a short time. Neutral

Yeah, that's certainly a big issue... Sad

Sail Away

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Posted: 02-22-07 15:38pm

PurestGreen wrote:

Right, I don't know your whole story so I'm going out on a bit of a limb here and I really hope I don't offend anyone.

I was just wondering, if you're worried that you will lose your husband (God forbid) and you want children but perhaps now is not the right time, could you arrange to have your hubby's sperm frozen for future use? If your hubby saw a solicitor to give legal consent for his sperm to be used in the event of his passing away then perhaps you could still have his baby through ivf. There was a famous case of that happening in this country, I think the lady's name was .Diane .Blood but I might have that wrong.

Now I might totally have the wrong end of the stick because I don't know your hubby's prognosis but it's just an idea.

I wish you and your hubby all the best, I hope you stick around here.

If this post offends then I will of course delete it.

I think that's a really good idea.

and how I think of it as, if you have his baby when he passes away you still have a part of him with you. it's perfect. But about the fatherless thing, it's not like he'd leave your baby by choice or anything. So for real girl, think about it.

terpamber

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Posted: 02-22-07 18:43pm


Purest Green~ We have though about that and no your not out of your bounds its always good to get others perspectives thats why we are here right? Anyway Aya was right about the whole fatherless thing. We just can't get over the whole "choosing" to bring a child in this world when we know that Mark may not be around very long. I know that single moms do great!! I have quite a few friends that are but most of the time they don't choose that it's just what happens. There is a small chance we will try again, there is a trial at Duke univeristy that is currently closed if it opens again Mark is going to try it and if it works then we will try again. Who knows???? ~Amber Thanks for the support~

candita_sky

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Posted: 02-22-07 22:50pm


hun you should at least stay the girls here are really good at listening and helping you make it thru the day . i have had some really bad days and i come here for comfort i do not know what i would do with out this support system. please at least think about it.we are here for you if you need us.