Cant Ejaculate During Sex Posted: 02-22-07 13:19pm
hi
im 15 and last year when i had sex for the
first time all my friends before hand said
that i should masturbate a couple of hours
before i had sex so i wouldnt ejaculate as
quickly whilst having sex.I did and when i
had sex i couldnt ejaculate and after over
10 minutes i gave up and just said i did.
I thought this problem might have been
because id masturbated before hand so the
next time i had sex i didnt masturbate
before hand but again i could ejaculate
and i had sex 3 more times after that with
the same girl and still didnt ejaculate.
Ive heard that this usually happens when
your stressed but i didnt feel stressed
and i have no problem ejaculating when i
masturbate.
So does any no what the problem might have
been?
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critical care RN
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Feb 2007 Posts: 92
Posted: 02-22-07 13:23pm
It sounds like your problem is
psyhcological. First you don't need to
masturbate before sex. Are you trying to
impress her? So I'm willing to bet that
while your having sex all you could think
about is the fact that you didn't
masturbate that time. Just relax and enjoy
the moments that you are having with your
girl. I hope that you are also using
protection?
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sally1
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Feb 2007 Posts: 5 Location: england
Reply Posted: 02-22-07 14:14pm
I masturbated before the first time
because my friends said that there first
times were over too soon. And i did want
to impress her because i didnt want her to
think i was bad at sex. I think another
reason could be because when we had sex it
was at her house when her parents were out
and i might have been worried they would
come home whilst i was there.And yes i use
protection everytime.
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critical care RN
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Feb 2007 Posts: 92
Posted: 02-22-07 16:20pm
I'm glad to hear that your adult enough to
use protection. As for advice for your
problem; just relax and enjoy it. Stress
can always play a negative role in having
an orgasm. If your able to have an orgasm
during masturbation and not during
intercourse then it sounds like your
stressed about something. Try to eliminate
that stress and see what happens.
