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sally1

New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Feb 2007
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Location: england
Cant Get Over Her
Posted: 02-22-07 13:35pm

Hi
Last year i had my first major relationship when i was 14 with a girl who i had liked for a while. We were always getting together and breaking up for 9 months and i was always the one to break up with her. Last october i broke up with her for good but i still cant get over her.
We had a lot of problems and i felt that i could never trust her as she had a reputation of cheating on guys and she was always talking about other guys.In retaliation to this i always would put her down and make fun of her.
She used to have a lot of problems aswell and shed tell me and sometimes i didnt no if i could even belive the stories she said were true.
She was also the girl i lost my virginity to.
Since we broke up we had a lot of fights at first and she has been out with other people but i havent been out with anyone, i couple of girls have liked me but i havent found them as attractive or liked them as much as her.
Its been nearly 5 months since i broke up with her but i still cant stop thinking about her, and now i dont talk to her at all but i can always hear her in class making jokes about me.
I feel like theres something wrong with me as i broke up with her and its been such a long time without even speaking to her and the fact that she makes fun of me makes me feel like i should hate her.
What can i do as i dont like any one else at all.
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RedDelight

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Joined: 06 Oct 2006
Posts: 131
Location: I'm a Yettie!
Re: Cant Get Over Her
Posted: 02-28-07 16:41pm

Hello there Smile

This is going to suck for awhile. I will be upfront! She is being a b*tch... what gives her the right to make fun of you like that? I don't have tolerance for people like that... they need a good (_)_)-kicking.

Alright...1st...it's going to be tough, because she was your first.. you see her in a different light, than the other girls around you- *at this moment*!
But.. time is the best medicine. You will have to involve yourself with other things... it sounds like she likes getting your attention- by taunting you in class. Don't worry- people like her will get what she diserves. Perhaps, she is doing this because she's either- Not sure how to deal with the sitaution, between you two- or she is just a plain mean b*tch.

I could see if you were egging her on- or if you were both picking at each other back and forth..you are doing the right choice- not being childish.

But- as I said- get involved with a sport, gym, or go out with your friends.. you are constantly thinking about her, because you allow yourself to! Don't. Get into a new hobby, or some new friends- put her out of your mind.

Sounds like you are the more grown up one, here. Bravo Smile That's a good thing... just keep your chin up, and get involved with something else that is worthy of your attention. Pretty soon, she will be the last thing from your mind.

Good luck!
-=MissRed=-
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saz89

New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Mar 2007
Posts: 12
Location: northeast england

Posted: 03-15-07 06:53am

its weird
this was the same with me,my ex heard stuff about me being a bit of a promiscuous person if you like and id herd alittle about him and we used to tease each other.
he split with me and i loved him very deeply i still do (after 7 months of breaking up were getting back together now) but when he did break up with me i straight away was off dating being cruel to him, because of pride.
she wont want to lookheart broken and shes trying to show you she never cared shes no fool. and shes moved on.
but she most likely hadn't if i was you id try make pals with her again somehow then take it from there if you really like her. remind her of what you had.
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