Lost And Scared

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Q: Lost And Scared

asked by: LILCOCOGURL04 on February 23rd, 2007

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I DONT KNOW IF THIS IS A GOOD THING FOR ME TO DO OR NOT BUT I NEED SOME ADVICE BIG TIME...I WENT TO MY LOCAL HEALTH DEPT. YESTERDAY BECAUSE I REALIZED THERE WAS SOMETHING WRONG WITH ME AND I WASNT SURE OF WHAT IT COULD BE..THIS TAKES ALOT OUT OF ME CONSIDERING IM ONLY 16 AND IM FINDING ALL THIS STUFF OUT SO FAST...I FOUND OUT THAT I HAVE HVP BUT ITS NOT THE WORST THING I COULD POSSIBLY GET... I HAVE BEEN TOLD THAT I MIGHT HAVE TO HAVE AN ABORTION... THIS IS MY FIRST CHILD SO I REALLY DONT WANT THAT... I REALLY DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO I GO TO THE DR. ON FEB 27TH BUT IM STILL SCARED BECAUSE I DONT KNOW IF MY BABY WILL SURVIVE OR NOT..I HEARD IT MIGHT HAVE COMPLICATIONS ... OH AND NOT TO MENTION THE DAY BEFORE I FOUND OUT I HAD HPV I ALSO FOUND OUT THAT I HAVE CHLAMYDIA...IF THATS HOW YOU SPELL IT..BUT IVE TAKEN THE TREATMENT FOR IT AND I WAS TOLD IT SHOULD BE CLEARED UP IN ABOUT A WEEK...IM NOT A NASTY PERSON BUT I DIDNT KNOW HOW THE PERSON WAS BEFORE I MET MY FIANCE...SO IM UNDER ALOTTA STRESS RIGHT NOW AND HONESTLY DONT KNOW HOW TO HANDLE THIS.. THE BEST I CAN DO RIGHT NOW IS BE STRONG... SO MUCH HAS HAPPENED SO FAST...IM NOT WHAT YOU WOULD CALL A HOE...IM A VERY CLEAN PERSON..BUT LADIES JUST TO LET YALL KNOW IT PAYS TO USE A CONDOM...IM NOT ASKING FOR JUDGEMENT, SYMPATHY, OR ANY THING ELSE FROM ANYBODY..IM JUST HERE FOR ADVICE....I HOPE SOMEONE WILL RESPOND TO THIS AND NOT SHOOT ME DOWN LIKE SO MANY OTHERS HAVE....JUST REMEMBER IMAGINE ...IF THIS WAS YOUR KID HOW WOULD YOU FEEL.... AND HOW WOULD YOU COPE WITH IT?

Replies(8)

Melissa_20

replied on February 23rd, 2007

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wow,thats a lot to take on for a 16 year old btu at elast now you have learned your lesson.how far along are you in your pregnancy?I don't really know what to say other than I hope things turn out good!

Sandbox Party

replied on February 23rd, 2007

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hi sweetie..

im sorry you think people here will judge you.

unfortunately you're right. some girls who come here dont have much of a conscience.

ASide from that, its a difficult situation to advise. Has your doctor given you any options yet? Have you spoken to anyone that has had hpv while pregnant?

OctoberBaby06

replied on February 23rd, 2007

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I don't really know what to say other than I hope everything turns out okay! When are you due? I don't really know too much about .Std's but if you had a c-section wouldn't your baby be okay? Not trying to sound like an fool, I honestly don't know much about this topic...

Good luck with everything!

.Michelle

Sandbox Party

replied on February 23rd, 2007

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here hun... i found this..

Pregnancy and HPV
Most pregnant women who have had genital warts previously but no longer do would be unlikely to have any complications or problems during pregnancy or birth. Because of hormone changes in the body during pregnancy, warts can grow in size and number, bleed, or, in extremely rare cases, make delivery harder. Very rarely, babies exposed to the wart-types of HPV during birth may develop growths in the throat; however, this risk is so minimal that a cesarean-section delivery is not necessary unless warts are blocking the birth canal.

For some pregnant women, cervical changes may increase. This may be due to hormone changes during pregnancy, but this is not proven. If a woman has an abnormal Pap smear during pregnancy, even if it's severely abnormal, many health care providers will not do treatment. They will just monitor the cervix closely with a colposcope during the pregnancy. A few weeks after delivery of the baby, the provider will look at the cervix again and do another Pap smear or another biopsy. Many times after pregnancy, the cell changes will have spontaneously resolved - and no treatment will be necessary. The types of HPV that can cause cell changes on the cervix and genital skin have not been found to cause problems for babies.

AyaMiyaki

replied on February 23rd, 2007

Especially eHealthy

Why would you need an abortion? Did I miss something? Confused

get your fiancee tested, too. If you had an std, you probably gave it to him. Unless he got tested already. And then ignore me.

Sandbox Party

replied on February 23rd, 2007

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AyaMiyaki wrote:

Why would you need an abortion? Did I miss something? Confused

get your fiancee tested, too. If you had an std, you probably gave it to him. Unless he got tested already. And then ignore me.

she wouldnt need an abortion.

WHoever informed her of that is extremely wrong and mistaken.

oh_mommy

replied on February 23rd, 2007

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awe i feel for u hunny.. i hope everything turns out a-ok

*star*

replied on February 23rd, 2007

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rainfire1424 wrote:

AyaMiyaki wrote:

Why would you need an abortion? Did I miss something? Confused

get your fiancee tested, too. If you had an std, you probably gave it to him. Unless he got tested already. And then ignore me.

she wouldnt need an abortion.

WHoever informed her of that is extremely wrong and mistaken.

Hi, I usually don't post on this forum, as I'm trying to get pregnant, but I just wanted to agree with rainfire. I don't see why you would need to have an abortion. I have a friend who is 6 months pregnant and she has HPV. Her doctors tell her that the baby is fine and healthy. Her doctors said that it wouldn't interfere with her pregnancy. I would get a second opinion before you make a decision. I wish you the best and good luck.


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