I DONT KNOW IF THIS
IS A GOOD THING FOR ME TO DO OR NOT BUT I
NEED SOME ADVICE BIG TIME...I WENT TO MY
LOCAL HEALTH DEPT. YESTERDAY BECAUSE I
REALIZED THERE WAS SOMETHING WRONG WITH ME
AND I WASNT SURE OF WHAT IT COULD BE..THIS
TAKES ALOT OUT OF ME CONSIDERING IM ONLY
16 AND IM FINDING ALL THIS STUFF OUT SO
FAST...I FOUND OUT THAT I HAVE HVP BUT ITS
NOT THE WORST THING I COULD POSSIBLY
GET... I HAVE BEEN TOLD THAT I MIGHT HAVE
TO HAVE AN ABORTION... THIS IS MY FIRST
CHILD SO I REALLY DONT WANT THAT... I
REALLY DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO I GO TO THE
DR. ON FEB 27TH BUT IM STILL SCARED
BECAUSE I DONT KNOW IF MY BABY WILL
SURVIVE OR NOT..I HEARD IT MIGHT HAVE
COMPLICATIONS ... OH AND NOT TO MENTION
THE DAY BEFORE I FOUND OUT I HAD HPV I
ALSO FOUND OUT THAT I HAVE CHLAMYDIA...IF
THATS HOW YOU SPELL IT..BUT IVE TAKEN THE
TREATMENT FOR IT AND I WAS TOLD IT SHOULD
BE CLEARED UP IN ABOUT A WEEK...IM NOT A
NASTY PERSON BUT I DIDNT KNOW HOW THE
PERSON WAS BEFORE I MET MY FIANCE...SO IM
UNDER ALOTTA STRESS RIGHT NOW AND HONESTLY
DONT KNOW HOW TO HANDLE THIS.. THE BEST I
CAN DO RIGHT NOW IS BE STRONG... SO MUCH
HAS HAPPENED SO FAST...IM NOT WHAT YOU
WOULD CALL A HOE...IM A VERY CLEAN
PERSON..BUT LADIES JUST TO LET YALL KNOW
IT PAYS TO USE A CONDOM...IM NOT ASKING
FOR JUDGEMENT, SYMPATHY, OR ANY THING ELSE
FROM ANYBODY..IM JUST HERE FOR ADVICE....I
HOPE SOMEONE WILL RESPOND TO THIS AND NOT
SHOOT ME DOWN LIKE SO MANY OTHERS
HAVE....JUST REMEMBER IMAGINE ...IF THIS
WAS YOUR KID HOW WOULD YOU FEEL.... AND
HOW WOULD YOU COPE WITH IT?
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Melissa_20
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 Jan 2006 Posts: 6806 Location: Florida
Posted: 02-23-07 11:47am
wow,thats a lot to take on for a 16 year
old btu at elast now you have learned your
lesson.how far along are you in your
pregnancy?I don't really know what to say
other than I hope things turn out good!
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Sandbox Party
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Joined: 25 Jul 2006 Posts: 7276
Posted: 02-23-07 11:48am
hi sweetie..
im sorry you think people here will judge
you.
unfortunately you're right. some girls who
come here dont have much of a conscience.
ASide from that, its a difficult situation
to advise. Has your doctor given you any
options yet? Have you spoken to anyone
that has had hpv while pregnant?
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OctoberBaby06
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Joined: 02 Dec 2006 Posts: 4612 Location: , US
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Posted: 02-23-07 11:52am
I don't really know what to say other than
I hope everything turns out okay! When are
you due? I don't really know too much
about .Std's but if you had a c-section
wouldn't your baby be okay? Not trying to
sound like an fool, I honestly don't know
much about this topic...
Good luck with everything!
.Michelle
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Sandbox Party
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jul 2006 Posts: 7276
Posted: 02-23-07 11:56am
here hun... i found this..
Pregnancy and HPV
Most pregnant women who have had genital
warts previously but no longer do would be
unlikely to have any complications or
problems during pregnancy or birth.
Because of hormone changes in the body
during pregnancy, warts can grow in size
and number, bleed, or, in extremely rare
cases, make delivery harder. Very rarely,
babies exposed to the wart-types of HPV
during birth may develop growths in the
throat; however, this risk is so minimal
that a cesarean-section delivery is not
necessary unless warts are blocking the
birth canal.
For some pregnant women, cervical changes
may increase. This may be due to hormone
changes during pregnancy, but this is not
proven. If a woman has an abnormal Pap
smear during pregnancy, even if it's
severely abnormal, many health care
providers will not do treatment. They will
just monitor the cervix closely with a
colposcope during the pregnancy. A few
weeks after delivery of the baby, the
provider will look at the cervix again and
do another Pap smear or another biopsy.
Many times after pregnancy, the cell
changes will have spontaneously resolved -
and no treatment will be necessary. The
types of HPV that can cause cell changes
on the cervix and genital skin have not
been found to cause problems for babies.
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AyaMiyaki
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Joined: 01 Jun 2006 Posts: 8222 Location: Floating on a cloud, United States
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Posted: 02-23-07 11:56am
Why would you need an abortion? Did I miss
something?
get your fiancee tested, too. If you had
an std, you probably gave it to him.
Unless he got tested already. And then
ignore me.
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Sandbox Party
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Jul 2006 Posts: 7276
Posted: 02-23-07 11:59am
AyaMiyaki
wrote:
Why would you need an
abortion? Did I miss something?
get your fiancee tested, too. If you had
an std, you probably gave it to him.
Unless he got tested already. And then
ignore me.
she wouldnt need an abortion.
WHoever informed her of that is extremely
wrong and mistaken.
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oh_mommy
Supporter
Joined: 04 Sep 2005 Posts: 3694 Location: vancouver island, bc canada
Posted: 02-23-07 12:27pm
awe i feel for u hunny.. i hope everything
turns out a-ok
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Posted: 02-23-07 13:49pm
rainfire1424
wrote:
AyaMiyaki
wrote:
Why would you need an
abortion? Did I miss something?
get your fiancee tested, too. If you had
an std, you probably gave it to him.
Unless he got tested already. And then
ignore me.
she wouldnt need an abortion.
WHoever informed her of that is extremely
wrong and
mistaken.
Hi, I usually don't post on this forum, as
I'm trying to get pregnant, but I just
wanted to agree with rainfire. I don't
see why you would need to have an
abortion. I have a friend who is 6 months
pregnant and she has HPV. Her doctors
tell her that the baby is fine and
healthy. Her doctors said that it
wouldn't interfere with her pregnancy. I
would get a second opinion before you make
a decision. I wish you the best and good
luck.
