to Everyone: Stop This Already! Posted: 02-11-04 19:53pm
My goodness girls, how old are we?! All
of you girls on this forum are so
incredibly sweet and have so much to
offer, and yet you're wasting your time
doing nothing but making yourselves out to
look just as bad as the people you're
criticizing! Can't you all just keep your
negative comments to yourself and devote
your energy and words to those who truly
need it? I support each and every one of
you to the fullest, regardless of what
situation you're in, but quite honestly,
all of this bickering is making me sick!
What ever happened to all of those posts
about each movement that's been felt and
each heartbeat that's been heard...Or how
about those ultrasound pictures, or those
birth stories. Or those silly questions
that only pregnant women would dare to
ask? Where did all of that go? I miss
it! This seems to have turned into more
of a 4th grade classroom than a mature and
nonjudgemental support(caps) system....
Ya know i've been to the forum quite a few
times over the past 2 days, and have yet
to respond to anything, because there's
nothing to respond to! It's all bickering
and whining and arguing like a bunch of 5
year olds....Girls, get it together! Put
aside your differences, let go of these
stupid grudges, and get along for crying
out loud. This is supposed to be a place
to feel "safe" and "secure" and heck, even
happy! Goodness, I hope we can all get
past this rut that this forum is in,
because i'd hate to see it lose the
substantial amount of people that make it
what it is! I love all of you girls, and
I don't want any of you to think this is
directed at anyone specifically, because
it's not....If anything it's directed at
everyone....I mean come on, there's a lot
worst out there to be dealing with. Sorry
to put you in this position kel, but look
at what she's going through with her
mother. And meg, all that has happened to
her since march inparticular, we're
supposed to be here and support these
girls...Give them our all....There's a
handful of girls on here that truly need
our help and comfort, but it's not being
given, because all of the attention is
focused on this complaining! How many
posts have been made about this subject,
what like 10 already? Come on girls, take
a deep breath, let it out, and start
fresh. Make ammends and move on!
Flustered...
vanessa & peanut
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Jaydensmommy
Advanced Support Team
Joined: 28 Jan 2004 Posts: 1701 Location: Wisconsin
Posted: 02-11-04 19:59pm
Things were going great until chanda had
to say "ohh I know whos mad at you blah
blah" I am sorry that was immature. And
call me immature...Fine go ahead, but she
is the one who started this all up again.
I am pretty much done in here this is a
waste of my fu***** time!!!!!
Hey chic,
i want to personally apologize for all of
this. I know I should have just kept my
mouth shut and let those girls that had
problems handle them. In fact, I was
trying to do it "off the board" so it
dind't upset anyone. I really am sorry.
I've apologized to sara also. I mean, I
dind't lie in what I said to her but it
wasn't my place to say it. So I just
wanted to apologize to you all also. I
know everyone has bigger problems to deal
with. Kel~your mom and a new baby. Meg~
just getting well and her mom's sick.
Jess~ having a new baby, being preg, being
told she lost the baby, then not having
lost it. There are more important topics
and I just wanted to apologize for all of
this even starting!
Love ya,
chanda
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CrombieChic16
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Oct 2003 Posts: 745
Posted: 02-11-04 20:04pm
Sara, chanda, I love both of you girls to
death and I think you're both such amazing
girls, let's just put this behind us and
forget it ever happened, please!...I hate
to see you guys fight, it tears me up! I
hope you're both okay, and I hope you both
can get past this...If either of you needs
me, i'm here for you guys!
This is the post that needs to be kept at
the top. Nessa made some really awesome
points!
Love,
chanda
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rissalee21
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2004 Posts: 526 Location: michigan
Posted: 02-11-04 20:34pm
Chanda nooo disrespect hun in any way but
what it kinda makes me think is that you
are a big thing on here and u have many
friends and you dont want that rep. To go
away therefore u were gossping outside the
forum now when everyone borught it up u
want it to all be okay like your innocent
and that your sorry and stuff and you
might be sorry but belive me I kno how
this kinda stuff works u 2 are great
girls..Dont waste it arguin and just be
real about things..This isnt a gossip
forum this is to help ppl and give them
advice..So take some of the negative
energy and make it positive..Youll move
mountains belive me!
I am in now way a "big thing" on this
site. I am merely another girl like
everyone else! I'm not worried about a
rep. Becuase as I told sara, i'll tell
you. Those girls on here who know me very
well. Like, off of the board. Those who
I talk to on a daily basis on the phone
and on the net and stuff, they know me and
they know what type of person I am. So if
everyone on this board say's "oh chanda is
such a messy health forum.". Well so be
it, I know that those who truly know me
know better.
That's all i'm saying.
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Jaydensmommy
Advanced Support Team
Joined: 28 Jan 2004 Posts: 1701 Location: Wisconsin
Posted: 02-11-04 20:45pm
Where did you get "messy bi***" from? No
one ever called you that chanda. Your
freakin out! And these "girls" you claim
told you that...Why haven't them come to
me??!! Are they "made up girls?"
I was just stating, that if the impression
ppl. Get is that I am messy or a health
forum or something, it's ok with me I know
that no one said that.( I was making a
point sweetie.) but as I was saying. My
friends who do know me, know how I am and
know what type of person I am.
And sara if these girls never came to you
before, why are they gonna come now,
espically now that they see how you react
to being told that you are being rude.
They know that you'll run immediatly to
the forum and tattle......
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Jaydensmommy
Advanced Support Team
Joined: 28 Jan 2004 Posts: 1701 Location: Wisconsin
Posted: 02-11-04 20:56pm
Haha guess I am a tattle
tell...........Hahaha ur soo funny.
~sara~
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honeycoco
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 11 Nov 2003 Posts: 375 Location: georgia
Posted: 02-11-04 21:10pm
Drama queens
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Jaydensmommy
Advanced Support Team
Joined: 28 Jan 2004 Posts: 1701 Location: Wisconsin
Posted: 02-11-04 21:13pm
Atleast its not baby mama drama..Haha
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003 Posts: 5286
Posted: 02-12-04 09:56am
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