greekjohn
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Location: Toronto, Ontario,
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I Got a Girl Interested But Abit Iffy On What to Do....
Posted: 02-24-07 22:25pm
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So heres my problem. I got this girl
interested. Shes been into me for like 4
years now and just told me. Now shes
beautiful, good personality everything
that I look for in a girl and I'm
apparently the same for here. We're very
good friends whenever we dont talk always
I miss you or I miss talking to you the
works. Now the thing is im a bit iffy on
what to do. The other thing is shes a bit
fatter then me like way fatter then me (no
being rude in any way) but cmon im a bit
thin I dont know what to do should I hook
up with her as stupid as it sounds I like
girls that are around my body size. Any
Advice?
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greekjohn
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Location: Toronto, Ontario,
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Llewellyn
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Posted: 03-11-07 21:28pm
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I don't see what the problem is. If you
two get along and want to start a
relationship, go for it. I do not see why
it would matter if she is bigger than you
are, but if you're really not comfortable
with the situation, then no big deal.
You're not obligated to date her.
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littlesqueaks
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Posted: 03-11-07 21:46pm
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Are you saying your shallow and affraid to
be with someone that is larger then you.
If your interested in her because of what
she offers from the inside ( a genuine
heart) then that is what matters. Don't
stoop down to "society says" because only
you can really tell what your feelings are
saying and if you want to be with her then
be with her.
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saz89
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Location: northeast england
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Posted: 03-15-07 06:05am
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sneak diet pills in her drinks
hehehe
im joking
to be fair theres nothing you can do, your
going to have to deal with her weight or
be very cruel by putting pictures of thin
girls all round ur room which might make
her think darn he likes skinny girls best
diet
but she wont shell probally just be
uncomftable and upset
your pretty screwed sweetie
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greekjohn
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Location: Toronto, Ontario,
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Posted: 04-25-07 08:57am
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| HeatherCarl
wrote: | | Are you saying your shallow
and affraid to be with someone that is
larger then you. If your interested in her
because of what she offers from the inside
( a genuine heart) then that is what
matters. Don't stoop down to "society
says" because only you can really tell
what your feelings are saying and if you
want to be with her then be with
her. |
Its not that I'm afraid to be with her
cause she bigger then me (width wise) but
its like if she jumps on me or something
then I'm a gonner.
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princessnae
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Alright Are You Being Serious
Posted: 04-25-07 14:08pm
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With a comment like "if she jumps on you I
am a gonner" I believe you have already
made up your mind. If physical attraction
is all that you really care about let this
girl go so that she can find someone that
will treat her with the respect she
deserves. And by the way, my boyfriend is
quite skinny and has a smaller waist than
me. There really isn't anything wrong
with it.
Good luck
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beckums
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Joined: 24 Apr 2007
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Location: pontefract
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God Man Whats Up With You!
Posted: 04-25-07 14:52pm
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i'm a big girl and i know that people talk
about me like you have your friend and i'm
sorry but putting photo's of slim women
round the house will not work. if you feel
like you say you do when your apart then
you need to grow up, stop worrieing what
people will think and go for it, what have
you got to lose, if you don't tell her how
you feel and give it ago you will look
back and regret it.
BUT you need to get over the looks thing,
if she was unhappy with herself then she
would do something about it, she doesn't
need her friends talking about her image,
there will be enough people already doing
that.
P.S i jump on my boyfriend all the time
and hes still here and we've been together
3 years so i wouldn't worry about that.
good luck x
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princessnae
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Nicely Said
Posted: 04-25-07 14:55pm
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Nicely said beckums. I agree completely
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UserNamed
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Joined: 25 Apr 2007
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Location: Brooklyn!
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Dont Do It!
Posted: 04-25-07 15:02pm
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obviously your mind is made up. You think
she is too fat to be with. Yes, that
sounds cruel because it is. But you are
already thinking that.
If you guys are such great friends, then
don't ruin it by starting a relationship.
keep the friendship intack.
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UserNamed
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Ps:
Posted: 04-25-07 15:03pm
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unless you just want to get into her
pants.... then I say go for it.
more lovin' in the oven.... if you know
what I mean.
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greekjohn
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Location: Toronto, Ontario,
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Posted: 04-25-07 15:21pm
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Look guys thanks alot for your feedback
but I'm just going to stay friends with
her. You guys were abit late in he
responses. I've basically broke her
heart. And you can check it out in the
other thread http://ehealthforum.com/h
ealth/topic88868.html
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beckums
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Location: pontefract
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Dont Just Use Her
Posted: 04-25-07 15:25pm
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i do not agree with that.
i can see where your coming from with if
there really good friends don't spoil it
with by starting a relationship, that your
not sure you want to be in. but you will
just be walking all over her feelings by
just using her for sex, she deserves a lot
more respect than that. she has come out
and told you how she feels don't abuse
that by using her to get your end away,
then push her off, it's would most
properly break her heart if she really
does have deep feelings for you.
and then what friendship will you have
after that?
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paul995
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Posted: 05-06-07 17:50pm
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I don't see any problem at all. Just
because she's fat doesn't mean she does
not deserve to be loved or liked. Look
deeper than physical look. Look insider
her. I'm sure the reason why you liked her
in the first place is because she
beautiful inside.
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Llewellyn
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Location: NY
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Posted: 05-06-07 18:10pm
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| greekjohn
wrote: |
Its not that I'm afraid to be with her
cause she bigger then me (width wise) but
its like if she jumps on me or something
then I'm a
gonner. |
Hmm. I can't imagine why she would jump
on you....maybe you're kinky like that, I
don't know.  I
don't think I'd be too happy if anyone
jumped on me, no matter how big or small
they were.
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The Godly One
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Re: I Got a Girl Interested But Abit Iffy On What to Do....
Posted: 05-07-07 08:48am
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| greekjohn
wrote: | | So heres my problem. I got
this girl interested. Shes been into me
for like 4 years now and just told me. Now
shes beautiful, good personality
everything that I look for in a girl and
I'm apparently the same for here. We're
very good friends whenever we dont talk
always I miss you or I miss talking to you
the works. Now the thing is im a bit iffy
on what to do. The other thing is shes a
bit fatter then me like way fatter then me
(no being rude in any way) but cmon im a
bit thin I dont know what to do should I
hook up with her as stupid as it sounds I
like girls that are around my body size.
Any Advice? |
Yeah.
Pick someone you like.
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greekjohn
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 10 Dec 2006
Posts: 107
Location: Toronto, Ontario,
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Posted: 05-07-07 21:07pm
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| paul995
wrote: | | I don't see any problem at
all. Just because she's fat doesn't mean
she does not deserve to be loved or liked.
Look deeper than physical look. Look
insider her. I'm sure the reason why you
liked her in the first place is because
she beautiful
inside. |
I didnt say that she doesn't deserve to be
loved or liked. I'm just implying that
she should be loved by someone that has
the same build as her or at least as close
to.
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DPantelones
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Re: Alright Are You Being Serious
Posted: 05-08-07 15:10pm
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| princessnae
wrote: | With a comment like "if she
jumps on you I am a gonner" I believe you
have already made up your mind. If
physical attraction is all that you really
care about let this girl go so that she
can find someone that will treat her with
the respect she deserves. And by the way,
my boyfriend is quite skinny and has a
smaller waist than me. There really isn't
anything wrong with it.
Good luck |
AMEN!!
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