I was playin about the apple juice part
sorry about that its just I forgot to put
just playin but for real tell ya momz..And
the other stuff works though and always
remember everything in the dark will come
to light..Cuz Stress will harm your child
or give you a miscarriage so think aboout
your chil not what other people
think..Your a mom now and your mom will
understand unless your 11 lol..
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alelli
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Aug 2005 Posts: 32 Location: philippines
I Prayed Posted: 02-25-07 02:56am
i always pray and ask for guidance in my
every decisions... teach what the right
thing i must do... im really also hurt
with this decision lying on her...
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alelli
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Aug 2005 Posts: 32 Location: philippines
I Really Know.. Posted: 02-25-07 03:00am
but i think its time to tell her.. you all
told me to tell her and it puts on my
conscience.. hows this.. my dads in the
states.. my mom trust me sooo much.. and
now im pregnant with our former employee
in our restaurant.. he is our waiter..my
mom doesnt like him.. coz she knows that i
wont have a good future with this man..
this time we both cant do anything but to
accept my destiny..
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dannyboygirl
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Feb 2006 Posts: 192 Location: ,
Im Sooo Sooorrry Posted: 02-25-07 03:02am
Love.
wrote:
alelli
wrote:
yeah i will surely tell
her.. i really cant hide things like
this.. i dont know..maybe im scared of the
things that twill happen next between my
mom and me..
Be honest w/ her, and tell her that you
really need her andim sure she will be
shocked and maybe mad, but shes your mom
and she will get over it. But I think
lying to her would be worst, dont you
think she will be angry w/ you because you
hide this from her?
Whatever you do, good luck
I forgot to put just playin about the
apple juice My girl said it doesn't work
with the new ones anymore..I called to
verify...Sorry good luck
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Auzzie_Wanting_To_Help
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Feb 2007 Posts: 214 Location: Australia
Posted: 02-25-07 03:05am
Have you told the father?? We are not
trying to make you feel bad about your
decision, we are just letting you know
what we think about the situation and how
we would feel if it was our daughter. As
previously said, your mum maybe upset and
even angry but im sure she will come
around and support you, just be honest
with her. If it was a mistake/on purpose,
tell her that. Do you want to be with the
father?? Are you still together??
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alelli
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Aug 2005 Posts: 32 Location: philippines
Thank You Soo Much!! Posted: 02-25-07 03:05am
yeah its ok.. ill be telling my mo
rather.. thanks to all and bye.. till next
tym!
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alelli
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Aug 2005 Posts: 32 Location: philippines
Oh My... Posted: 02-25-07 03:07am
yeah were still together and he is ready
to answer me... i want to be with him..
his family already knows about this... i
decided to bring jis parents with us when
we tell my mom..
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Auzzie_Wanting_To_Help
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Feb 2007 Posts: 214 Location: Australia
Posted: 02-25-07 03:12am
Ohh thats good that you have told him and
his family and its good that he wants to
be apart of the childs life! Let you know
that babies can change alot of men for the
good as they now have real
responsibilities! If you love him and want
to be with him then there should be
nothing stopping that unless he doesnt
treat you well which is a different
situation.....
lmao!! I actually thought the apple juice
was a good idea!
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dannyboygirl
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Feb 2006 Posts: 192 Location: ,
Sooo Happpppy Posted: 02-25-07 14:45pm
Auzzie_Wanting_To_Help
wrote:
Ohh thats good that you have
told him and his family and its good that
he wants to be apart of the childs life!
Let you know that babies can change alot
of men for the good as they now have real
responsibilities! If you love him and want
to be with him then there should be
nothing stopping that unless he doesnt
treat you well which is a different
situation.....
lmao!! I actually thought the apple juice
was a good
idea!
Thanks Auzzie...It looks like soda
pee..(apple juice) lol...Im so proud of
you for taking responsibility for you and
your child. Your a women now and Im proud
your acting that way. 5 brownie points
for you..
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honeys04
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 12 Feb 2007 Posts: 26 Location: Virginia
I Understand What Your Going Through Posted: 02-25-07 15:15pm
Ok Im gonna give a little bit of my own
personal experience on this one if I
may......I was 18 when I got Preg with my
oldest child Alexis......I was unmarried
and I was soooooo scared to tell my
parents.....I had a falling out with my
parents before I had become Preg and I
choose to move out of there home.....we
didnt speak for quite a while.....then a
while later my grandmother passed away
(which was my mothers mom) I went to the
funeral and again we did not speak...I Got
preg with my daughter within a 3 day span
before or after her death, ( God takes a
life and blesses with another)........It
took me about a month in a half to two
months to finally tell my parents as hard
as it was to do thats what truly brought
me and my mom back to the wonderful
relationship we have today she is my BEST
FRIEND......I think not telling your mom
will only make things worse in the
end......Like I said I was 18 when I got
preg and was too unmarried so it was a
scarry thing......My boyfriend who is now
my husband of 7 Years was only 17 when I
got preg........We got married 12 days
before I had her I was 19 then and he had
just turned 18.........And I dont regret
anything that has happened in the
past......Children are truly a blessing no
matter what........Be thankful that you
are blessed with the gift to have children
and in the begining things may be hard and
not the way you may want them to be but I
think In the long run all will work out
and will be the way you had hoped in the
end......Good Luck and Congrats!!!!!
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PYT210490
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Feb 2007 Posts: 32 Location: London
Hey Posted: 02-28-07 09:54am
I have been where you are and I didnt tell
anyone and went through an abortion when
about a week after my parents found out.
It was awful. Please...tell your
mom...you'd gain much respect by being
able to talk to her. She'd feel mad and
mental at first but in time it will change
your whole relationship trust me. Tell her
you feel you can get through it but need
her and rely on her. It will be
ok...things take time to heal but the
resault is promising...and very rewarding.
Take care
