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yo
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Location: Chevy Chase
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Teen Can't Get a Girl
Posted: 02-25-07 14:32pm
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OK,
This has been a big issue for a long time.
This might seem shallow, but looks in
girls are important to me (as they usually
are for guys). All the girls that have
been interested ALL fit the same
stereotype, not very appealing, very shy,
not athletic, etc. All my friends have
Girlfriends that they are satisfied with.
Even with all the positive things that I
can tell girls about me, I still can't get
a girl. 
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Llewellyn
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Joined: 21 Jan 2007
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Location: NY
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Posted: 03-11-07 21:30pm
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Honestly, that is not shocking to me. Who
wants to be someone who is shallow? It's
a pretty awful quality. Contrary to what
you might think, not all guys are like
that.
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littlesqueaks
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 May 2006
Posts: 296
Location: Caldwell, Idaho
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Posted: 03-11-07 21:38pm
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Shallow is a terrible quality. The outside
of a women will change but mosy of the
time whats inside will not. Suggestion try
to become friends with girls and see them
as real people and you never know you may
just find a girl you fall head over heels
with just by seeing them from the inside
instead of the outside.
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The Godly One
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Jan 2006
Posts: 76
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Re: Teen Can't Get a Girl
Posted: 03-28-07 04:11am
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| yo
wrote: | OK,
This has been a big issue for a long time.
This might seem shallow, but looks in
girls are important to me (as they usually
are for guys). All the girls that have
been interested ALL fit the same
stereotype, not very appealing, very shy,
not athletic, etc. All my friends have
Girlfriends that they are satisfied with.
Even with all the positive things that I
can tell girls about me, I still can't get
a girl. |
Being shallow is not your problem. Many
Alpha Males are. Some would define
shallow as going for what you like.
The problem is that you are fibbing about
not wanting these girls.
Or you are homosexual (though you would
know this yourself, so I dismiss it).
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yo
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Feb 2007
Posts: 11
Location: Chevy Chase
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Posted: 03-28-07 21:06pm
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alpha-male?
fibbing?
and im not homosexual
i guess no one understands what im trying
to say so i apologize no more replies need
to be made
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The Godly One
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Jan 2006
Posts: 76
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Posted: 03-31-07 10:09am
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| yo
wrote: | alpha-male?
fibbing?
and im not homosexual
i guess no one understands what im trying
to say so i apologize no more replies need
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Well, I feel like replying anyway.
Alpha male = superior male - gets sex when
he wants.
Fibbing: Are you certain that you would
not go for a girl who is not absolutely
perfect? I think that you would. Females
will not change an alpha male, but males
can change females.
As for the homosexual thing, - of course
you are not. I was simply making a point.
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yo
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Feb 2007
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Location: Chevy Chase
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Posted: 03-31-07 15:59pm
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im actually not looking for a perfect girl
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The Godly One
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Jan 2006
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Posted: 04-01-07 15:38pm
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| yo
wrote: | | im actually not looking for
a perfect
girl |
There are plenty that would satisfy you
just fine I believe.
Take one with potential (good looks,
reasonanbly intelligent etc) and mould her
into your own.
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Magical Logic
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Mar 2006
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Posted: 04-01-07 17:17pm
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| The Godly One
wrote: | | yo
wrote: | | im actually not looking for
a perfect
girl |
There are plenty that would satisfy you
just fine I believe.
Take one with potential (good looks,
reasonanbly intelligent etc) and mould her
into your
own. |
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The Godly One
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Jan 2006
Posts: 76
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Posted: 04-02-07 09:56am
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| chase4
wrote: | | The Godly One
wrote: | | yo
wrote: | | im actually not looking for
a perfect
girl |
There are plenty that would satisfy you
just fine I believe.
Take one with potential (good looks,
reasonanbly intelligent etc) and mould her
into your
own. |
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Because Males can do that.
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Critizin
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 13 Apr 2007
Posts: 25
Location: Canada
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Posted: 04-13-07 07:04am
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Wow..... reading this post makes me
realise how some guys act... The Godly One
it isnt right that you feel that a guy can
mold a girl into what he wants he shouldnt
have to and he cant a girl will be what
she wants to be and you got to love her
for that alone... you cant expect to go
into a relationshiop with a girl and
change everything about her just so she
meets your qualifcations... if thats the
case you shouldnt be starting a
relationship anyway... you need to learn
the meaning of love and stop being such a
sterotypical guy... and get a life!
As for "yo" i think you need to actually
spend time with girls.. instead of just
looking for a good one from a crowd.. get
to know girls become friends with them and
maybe some of those girls that you seem to
think are un attractive now will be seen
in a new light give it a try it just might
work.....
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Dannzibelle
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Posted: 04-13-07 07:48am
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Female perspective: Under no circumstances
do what 'the godly one' says because you
will be destined to a life of being
single. Just be yourself and perhaps try
to make friends with a few girls then see
how it goes.
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The Godly One
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Jan 2006
Posts: 76
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Posted: 04-18-07 17:01pm
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| Critizin
wrote: | | Wow..... reading this post
makes me realise how some guys act... The
Godly One it isnt right...
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you cant expect
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Yes I can.
End note: Stereotypes are apparent for a
reason 
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ShiningShannon
Active User, Really EHEALTHy
Joined: 14 Apr 2007
Posts: 522
Location: ,
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Posted: 04-18-07 21:42pm
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Hi,
Just a thought...maybe you are attracting
girls with the "not so appealing"
qualities because they are reflecting how
you see yourself.
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paul995
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Apr 2007
Posts: 140
Location: ,
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Posted: 05-06-07 18:15pm
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Well stop looking for girls with looks and
look for those who have personality. Would
you settle for a pretty girl who abuses
the relationship. this might sound cliche
but still holds true. You seem to have a
very high standard when choosing for a
mate. And until now, you can't seem to
find one that fits your standard. It's
time to redo everything and look for
someone who has the same likes and
dislikes like you do. This might probably
help you in getting one.
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Llewellyn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2007
Posts: 1743
Location: NY
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Posted: 05-08-07 20:06pm
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I agree with Critizen. The Godly One,
your posts are highly offensive and
sexist. If you want to have sexist points
of view, you could at least do us all the
favor of saying something like, "In my
opinion..." rather than trying to make
your warped points of view seem like
facts.
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The Godly One
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Jan 2006
Posts: 76
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Posted: 05-11-07 02:35am
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| Llewellyn
wrote: | | I agree with Critizen. The
Godly One, your posts are highly offensive
and sexist. If you want to have sexist
points of view, you could at least do us
all the favor of saying something like,
"In my opinion..." rather than trying to
make your warped points of view seem like
facts. |
My views seem like facts to you?
This is because you see the patently
obvious truth in them.
But if it makes you feel better, I will
leave my views out of your forum.
The Godly One.
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Llewellyn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2007
Posts: 1743
Location: NY
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Posted: 05-16-07 15:33pm
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| The Godly One
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My views seem like facts to you?
This is because you see the patently
obvious truth in them.
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Obviously not. I said you are making them
seem like facts, even though they are
nothing more than your warped opinions.
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