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KissyBai912
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Location: Venice, Florida
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14, Pregnant, And Not So Scared.
Posted: 08-26-03 14:53pm
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Hey everyone! I just wanted to share my
story because mine is not so negative. I
found out about 8 weeks ago that I was
pregnant. The father, sadly ( I am very
ashamed of this) I had only known him a
week before we slept together. But when
I told him I was pregnant he told me that
he would support the baby and me too if I
needed it. He is a very sweet guy and is
handling this very well. His mom was a
little shocked and upset but now she is
being totally supportive too. My mom
didnt take it quite as well, but she has
moved past that now and we are planning on
redecorating my room more appropriately
for the baby. I moved back to florida
from kentucky, (where I got pregnant) so
the baby's father is quite a ways away.
But he calls often and supports me. His
mom and he already said they would
definately be here for the birth. And
he's probably moving to florida in may
when he graduates. And in about 2 years
we are probably getting married. I hardly
knew him at first but now I know that he
is a truly great guy. I know that
raising a baby is the hardest thing I will
ever have to do, but I am so glad I have
the love and support of the people I love.
That makes it that much easier. So
having a baby doesn't have to be an
all-bad experience. Think of the good
things: unconditional love from someone
who is so very much a part of you is my
number one reason. I'm not saying that
having a baby at this point in my life is
the right thing, but there's no looking
back so you might as well look forward to
what the future holds. Having a baby can
be the most wonderful, stressful,
confusing, and hardest thing in the world.
But it's every one of those qualities
that make it so great in my opinion.
Thanks for listening.
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nikki_caro
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Joined: 22 Aug 2003
Posts: 4921
Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 08-26-03 15:00pm
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Your pregnant now, so its too late. You
have a right to be happy but the thing is
you should have waited until you were
older. Having a baby is exciting and I
hope you have a plan. Like saving money
for the diapers, wipers, milk, bottles,
clothes, blankets and all other
necesities. I hope you have a great
doctor and physician for your baby. Not
to burst your bubble but plans to be with
a guy who is far away is most likely not
going to work, he will find other things
to entertain him, new girlfriends and he
wont want to send you all his money for
your baby. Your only 14. Enjoy your
sleep now because when the baby is born to
hungry to sick to teething to needing a
diaper change at 2 in the morning, there
will be a lot if crying from then on.
Good luck.
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KissyBai912
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2003
Posts: 1762
Location: Venice, Florida
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Posted: 08-26-03 15:05pm
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I know it's going to be really hard. But
there wasn't a lot I could do to avoid
it. Birth control obviously didn't work.
As for the father, I know I can't say he
isn't going to move on with his life, but
my cousin who lives there is good friends
with him and they hang out a lot and I am
in contact with his best friend so I kind
of have a pretty good idea of where he's
at, what he's doing and who he is with
most of the time. As of right now, I
don't really consider us *together*
because of the distance. And he sends 300
dollars a month to help pay for baby
expenses. I would never expect him to
give up evry penny of his money when 300 a
month is quite sufficeint for now. But we
are supposed to get together when he moves
down and that will be that. As for doctor
yes I have a very good doctor. And I am
enjoying my sleep while I can! Believe
me! But I just thought I would clear that
up some.
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nikki_caro
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 22 Aug 2003
Posts: 4921
Location: Right here at work!
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Posted: 08-26-03 15:11pm
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Ok well good luck to you then! Your still
14 though! I was still at the playgorund
at that time! I can almost feel your
mothers shock to know her baby was going
to have a baby. Anyways, again- good luck
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KissyBai912
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2003
Posts: 1762
Location: Venice, Florida
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Posted: 08-26-03 15:14pm
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Thanks. I'm sure i'll need it. As much
as I hate to admit it, I still have a lot
of growing up to do and a lot to learn.
(ahhhhh that hurt my pride, lol) but I
truly think everything will work out ok.
Good luck to anyone and everyone else who
has a situation simalar, worse, or better
than mine!
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PregnaJordan
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Joined: 18 Oct 2003
Posts: 2908
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Posted: 03-03-04 17:27pm
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Just wanted to bring this old post
up..Since tere was nothing else to do and
show u that nikki and chrissy have been
friends forever! Lmao...
Im so bored..Im on page 50 of old posts!
Lol
jordan and jaydyn
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JillMarie
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Joined: 24 Dec 2003
Posts: 3022
Location: Iowa
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Posted: 03-03-04 17:31pm
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Wow that is a long time! I always think
you are kinda new for some reason chrissy!
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Fire_dancer
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 Mar 2004
Posts: 17
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Posted: 03-03-04 17:41pm
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Congradulations, and I am glad that you
are taking a positive approach to this,
but I hope you realize that you will have
a little person to love you, they also
depend on you and sometimes babies seem to
take more love than they give, especially
in the beginning, not too sure about the
long distance thing with the dad (how old
is he?) but best of luck
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PregnaJordan
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Joined: 18 Oct 2003
Posts: 2908
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Posted: 03-03-04 17:42pm
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Haha, it was an old post! Old old
post..Chrissy is due this month!!!! Lmao
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KissyBai912
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2003
Posts: 1762
Location: Venice, Florida
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Posted: 03-03-04 17:58pm
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Yeah waaaaaaaaaaaaay old. My little
person is almost here! Lol....But thanks
for the support anyways!
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sparklypixie12
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Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 3099
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Posted: 03-03-04 18:01pm
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Lol! Im so dumb! I was reading that
& thinking "chrissy found out 8weeks
ago but she's nearly there and shes been
talking about her pregnancy for longer
then that!" im such a silly billy!
Not long now chrissy! :d
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KissyBai912
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Aug 2003
Posts: 1762
Location: Venice, Florida
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Posted: 03-03-04 18:15pm
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Lol liz were ya confused? Lol I would be
2 I got on and saw this at the top and im
like what the heck? Lol......But know I
found out when I was about 6 weeks.....And
now I will be 38 weeks on
friday.....Wow.....Not much longer!
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babyrae
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Joined: 19 Jan 2004
Posts: 2957
Location: Manitoba, Canada
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Posted: 03-03-04 18:20pm
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Hahaa jeez I was so confused when I read
this post!!! I thought she only found out
8 weeks ago too! Lol! Now its all
startin to make sense lol!
Shauna
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Scarf
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Joined: 12 Feb 2004
Posts: 1062
Location: Ontario, Canada
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Posted: 03-03-04 18:22pm
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Sparkly-same here! I was sooo lost
because I remembered chrissy talking about
her baby's due this month lol. Silly
me..Silly us!
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sparklypixie12
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Joined: 17 Sep 2003
Posts: 3099
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Posted: 03-03-04 18:30pm
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Yay! Im not the only fool! Lol!
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insurancegirl
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 25 Sep 2003
Posts: 5286
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Posted: 03-03-04 18:46pm
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Last edited by insurancegirl on 10-08-04 15:49pm; edited 1 time in total
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BabyP
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 20 Feb 2004
Posts: 360
Location: Maryland, Tennessee
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Re: 14, Pregnant, And Not So Scared.
Posted: 03-04-04 08:18am
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| kissybai912
wrote: | | hey everyone! I just
wanted to share my story because mine is
not so negative. I found out about 8
weeks ago that I was pregnant. The
father, sadly ( I am very ashamed of this)
I had only known him a week before we
slept together. But when I told him I
was pregnant he told me that he would
support the baby and me too if I needed
it. He is a very sweet guy and is
handling this very well. His mom was a
little shocked and upset but now she is
being totally supportive too. My mom
didnt take it quite as well, but she has
moved past that now and we are planning on
redecorating my room more appropriately
for the baby. I moved back to florida
from kentucky, (where I got pregnant) so
the baby's father is quite a ways away.
But he calls often and supports me. His
mom and he already said they would
definately be here for the birth. And
he's probably moving to florida in may
when he graduates. And in about 2 years
we are probably getting married. I
hardly knew him at first but now I know
that he is a truly great guy. I know
that raising a baby is the hardest thing I
will ever have to do, but I am so glad I
have the love and support of the people I
love. That makes it that much easier.
So having a baby doesn't have to be an
all-bad experience. Think of the good
things: unconditional love from someone
who is so very much a part of you is my
number one reason. I'm not saying that
having a baby at this point in my life is
the right thing, but there's no looking
back so you might as well look forward to
what the future holds. Having a baby can
be the most wonderful, stressful,
confusing, and hardest thing in the world.
But it's every one of those qualities
that make it so great in my opinion.
Thanks for
listening. |
hey this is pamala, im 14 and pg with my
baby girl jaylynn. The babys father and I
were together for about a year and the
first time we decide to have unprotected
sex....Bam!!! (lol) well now im 6 months
preggo (7 on the 11) (yay)(gosh, time is
flying bye) well in my
opinion, he is to immature to take care of
our daughter, so he comes and go's im not
going to keep him from his daughter, but
im not going to stress myself out trying
to make him do something hes not ready
for, but anyway, I just want to let you
know, that we are the same age, u r lucky,
you have a mom to support you, and as far
as I can tell the babys father and parents
support. So good luck to you, but as for
me, I have a job, im 6 months preggo, I go
to school, I live with my aunt who is a
partyer and never home. My father lives
in tennessee I live im maryland, my mother
overdosed on cocane (crack) when I was 12.
My brother is in jail, and im alwase
alone, my aunt kiked me out when I first
found outi was pregnant, so thats whyi got
a job, but she let me move in and pay rent
to her to ret her basement because I have
a job now, I have to take the bus
everywhere I go, I lost all of my friend
except 1 because im pregnant and I have to
grow up and I cant party with them all the
time. I never relised life could be this
hard because of everything ive been
through, the sad thing is....The jurny is
just beinning. But I feel that I can make
it if I really wanna, and I do really want
to. So I will. Well thats all for
me.......Good luck to you. Xoxoxoxoxoxoxo
pamala & jaylynn
p.S. Do u relise how hard it is for a 14
year old to get a job?
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Mesmerizeu15
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Joined: 11 Aug 2003
Posts: 2729
Location: Pittsburgh,PA
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Posted: 03-04-04 08:28am
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I got pregnant at 14.. Look at me now!!
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Amberlee123
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 08 Dec 2003
Posts: 185
Location: Tennessee
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Posted: 03-04-04 08:39am
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Pamala, I just wan't to say good luck to
you. Truly. What kind of job do you
have. I wish I had something more
saportive to say, but I dont. Are you
gonna try to stay in school after the baby
is born? There are many options out there
that make this possible.
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mumof2
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 03 Feb 2004
Posts: 307
Location: Australia
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Posted: 03-04-04 09:33am
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Just one small thing, the unconditional
love is from you to your baby, not the
baby to you.......... They dont even know
what love is yet, and as they grow they
learn to use it against you.........
Havent you ever ssaud to some one who
loves you "i hate you" because you know it
will hurt them, ie your parents? Hell my
two year old only started to say I love
you mummy 6 months ago, and she doesnt
really know what she is saying. You are
there for your baby, not your baby there
for you......
Good luck any ways xxx
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