Need Help (feeling Numb During Sex) Posted: 02-26-07 00:30am
i am a woman of 28 and i would like to
know when i am with my husband and we are
having sex at times well most of the times
even though iam getting into it, the
feeling for it goes away and i feel numb
in the vagina is there a name for for what
i am experiencing. i mean i am losing my
desire to have sex and i know i have been
telling my husband no he is thinking i am
having an affair.if ther is any one out
there who can help me i would appreciate
it.
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Llewellyn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 02-26-07 02:22am
There are many reasons why a woman might
lose interest in sex. I would suggest
talking to your ob-gyn about it just in
case. Be sure to mention any medications
you are taking.
If your husband accuses you of having an
affair just because you are not really
interested in sex, that could be a sign of
some major trust issues in your
relationship. It's perfectly natural for
people to change and go through cycles.
Some people are in the mood a lot, some
people hardly ever are, and some go back
and forth between both extremes. It often
isn't a big deal, and can be caused by
something as simple as stress.
If your ob-gyn does not find any physical
cause, you could always try counseling.
Couples counseling or sex therapy might
help to educate your husband about all of
the various things that can make people
lose interest in sex as well work on the
trust issue that it sounds like he might
be having.
