Dear doc,
i'd been confirmed with chlamydia
recently. Started showing symptoms like
clockwork... 6 weeks after initial contact
with a new partner. We'd been having
unprotected sex multiple times over those
6 wks.
My concern now is that I found out that my
partner's test came back neg. I was
certain she had to have been the one that
gave it to me. After all, I showed
symptoms 6 weeks after we started having
unprotected sex. My last sex partner
before her was over a year ago and then
with a long term girlfriend of 5
monogomous years. I did kissed only one
other girl 3 months ago, but my symptoms
were not on my mouth but on my penis via
burning urination. I know symptoms could
be latent for a while but it's odd that I
started getting symptoms 6 wks after
sleeping with this new girl.
It's baffling enough that she supposedly
was not the one that gave it to me... But
what's even more baffling is if I am
positive, why did she not contract it from
me during our frequent unprotected sex?
Her test came back negative.
Is that possible?? I'm wondering if she's
lying! If not, I'd like to keep dating
her. Perhaps her results were incorrect?
-very confused
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RedDelight
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Oct 2006 Posts: 131 Location: I'm a Yettie!
Re: Chlamydia Liar? Posted: 03-13-07 14:22pm
Ok....Did you have unprotected sex with
both girls, or what?
Did you physically see the lab result
form- with negative on it- and what the
test was for? Unforunately, people do lie
when it comes down to things like this.
Lucky for you, it's cureable. Imagne what
it could have been..
One of them is lying, unless there is a
3rd party you forgot to mention- which i
doubt- There is no other way to catch
Chlamydia- except sexually. But yes- one
of them is lying. Tell them you want to
see the test results for yourself. If she
has nothing to hide- then everything
should be .O.K. if she's
hesitatent...then you have something to
worry about. You have a right to know.
If I was her- I would not be mad if you
asked-- you have a reason to know- if I am
sexually active with you. plus-- if she
truely cares/values you- she will let you
see.
What is your gut instinct telling you? Is
she \/\/horish? Has she lied before?
Have you caught her cheating? Something
is making you question this..?