I Cant Control My Anger!!

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Hey rach-what r u cockneys like 'ey?! Lol! Joke!
I think you might need 2 go back to anger management or get help from ur doc because its not good to feel like that.
I dont blame u though 4 hitting that girl-how could anyone go to hit a pregnant girl in the stomach? Thats so evil
liz x

Lol! Im a typical londoner thats for sure! I still do anger management sorry of that didnt come across clear but the people that talk to me get on my nerves and thn I just get told and treated like im 5! I know im probably gettin treated the way I am acting but I really cant conrtol my nager. I have gone 5 months without fightin but I can understand what shauna is sayin but when some girl is giving me mouth I cant just get my phone an call my mate my natural reaction is to just hit them. And especially my baby I would of done more den broken her nose but I got pulled away! They should of let me carry on jokin lol. Xxxx

Lol well of course whe it comes to defending ur baby.. Id knock that girl out too... But to be honest.. I cant really think of a better way to control ur anger when the persons right in front of u (i know how hard it is and how u have that chance to hit her right there lol!) but now, try and reason for the babys sake... Try and think of anything to stop u from hitting someone or exploding in rage.. If the person is about to hit u then by all means, in defense of ur baby, hit her back to stop her.. People shouldnt be attempting to fight a pregnant woman either.. Thats just sick... But hopefully.. U'll think of something good next time ur in that position... And try to walk away.. It may be hard but try really hard to walk away....

shauna

And im a brummie rach! Anyways,i think its important that u stick with anger management-i think I need it somtimes cos I get so angry sometimes 4 no reason at all and that frustrates me but as hard as it is,we need 2 learn to control it!
Hows ur baby? Is he still called shane?!
Liz x

Hey girl I dont blame you for defending your baby. I know all about the anger the military put me in anger management classes but they didnt help either. I get really pissed easily. I try not to let thing bother me thats the advice I have for you dont let it bother you so that it wont stress you out. And you wont get angry

My baby is fine as far as I know but I have to wait for results back I don't understand what they are but my baby could be in danger not due to my anger thank god! The girl didnt show at college today lol. I do love the name shame but where im italian and the dads greek the baby obviously is goin to have a bit of a tan so I don't know if shane would suit him. Would it or am I just being stupid? I change my mind all the time but I never really know my mum said I will know by looking at my baby staright away what his name will be. Hopefully it will with a bit of luck

rachel xxxx

Hey! So ur italian then? Why dont u call the baby gianni or beppe? (off eastenders! Lol! Im joking u!) I think ur moms right though-when he's born, you'll probably think "thats his name" and you will know straight away.
How r u? How's baby doing?
Liz x

Yea my mum is full italian my family are like the mafia no jokes lol! Im irish an welsh as well from me dad so im like a quarter of europe lol! My babay as far as I know is ok but I feel like crap and I know its not mornin sickness I think I ahve got a cold and really bad headache I know that for sure, but are u allowed to take paracetemol when your pregnant?

Rachel xx

Hey rach-i know what u mean im mainly irish,a bit english,had an american great grandma & scottish cousins so im a mixed bag too! Wow,ur moms full italian-i know an italian family & they all seem to be the same! Italian women r very pretty so ur lucky there!
Btw im not sure about paracetamols-i dont think so.Theres not much u can take.
Liz x

Im stacie!!

*feeling dumb!!*

Hey I get so pissed quickly and I am a real b*tch I use to fight alot! I got exspelled out of two schools for fighting. I dont fight now I just use my mouth. Like I will say anything to make them mad! My mom took me to anger manentiment(sp?) and it didnt work. I found when im mad at my mom I just go in my room and blast my stero and sing really loud to the words and it make me happy!!! I am so werid!

alison xoxo

Same here alison! Listening to my favourite musci loudly and dancing around my room cheers me up no end!
Liz x

Right on liz!

Hi ya. How was valentines day for you girls? I do that music thing don't worry but when you come face to face with people outside you cant just bhlast music in their face can i? I am sure I will think of something but I have had a really bad weekend my friend is in hospital and it should be me. A drunk driver jumped the kerb and she pushed me out the way and saed mine and my babies life really. She is still alive thank god but I hope she pulls through!! Sorry if I bought you all down

rachel xxx

Yeah rach I know how u feel. I used to have to take anger management. I thought the lady was an fool. All we did was watch movies on kids that robbed liquor stores and got in fights and ruined their lives. Lol. I hated it. But after a lot of counseling we figured out that my anger is mostly directed at the men in my life. Like my brother, step dad, real father, sometimes dewitt (even if he doesn;t do anything.....Lol) the counselor thinks it comes from being hurt so many times by so many different men. Like my father leaving my mom when she was preg....He dont even know im a girl......And my step dad has always been an problem to me and treated his son better.....Dewitt I just get mad at bcuz im moody lol......And another guy named daniel who sexually abused me.....God I hate his really g guts. Lol yeah but I really feel like those classes didnt help at all....I feel like finding the reason u r angry helps....Then at least u can try to avoid it.

Gosh rach-u have a good friend there but dont feel that 'it shoudl have been you.'i hope ur friend pulls through and that u arent too stressed about it cos its not good 4 the baby

My m8 has come round now so thats a good sign. She has broken basically every bone in her legs and also the bone coonexting your arm to your shoulder if you know what I am talking bout its your clavicle. But as far as I know shes ok at the moment but I am down hospital for her everyday

rachel xx