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pjsands
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Want to Get Her Pregnant
Posted: 03-02-07 08:04am
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Hi I'm 18 my g-f is 16. I have not
discussed this with her yet, the deal is I
want her to have my baby asap.
How is the best way to bring this up to
her? How do I start? I don't want her to
freak out. Plzz help!
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pjsands
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Posted: 03-02-07 08:05am
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Sorry if I posted the wrong place. I was
going to post before Xmas but with the
holidays everyone is busy so I thought
best not to bring it upto my g-f until the
new year was over, now is a better time.
Any advice?
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Emma2
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Posted: 03-02-07 08:16am
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| pjsands
wrote: | Sorry if I posted the wrong
place. I was going to post before Xmas but
with the holidays everyone is busy so I
thought best not to bring it upto my g-f
until the new year was over, now is a
better time.
Any advice? |
my advice to you is "are you absolutely
insane?!!" finish school , get a real
career
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 03-02-07 08:19am
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Why do you want your 16 year old
girlfriend to have a baby?
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pjsands
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Posted: 03-02-07 08:29am
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We met last March so it's been a whole
year now. 1 month after meeting her we got
together and I knew she was the girl I
want to have forever.
We have not talked about children or
moving in together or the future yet. Yet
in a year we have become extremely close.
Having a baby is in most people's future.
So it will happen eventually, why not do
it sooner? I know I want this girl in my
life forever.
I'm not insane, I finish school in June
then start college this September. She's
in school another 2 years or she can drop
out anytime since she's over 16.
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Emma2
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Posted: 03-02-07 08:33am
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| pjsands
wrote: | We met last March so it's
been a whole year now. 1 month after
meeting her we got together and I knew she
was the girl I want to have forever.
We have not talked about children or
moving in together or the future yet. Yet
in a year we have become extremely close.
Having a baby is in most people's future.
So it will happen eventually, why not do
it sooner? I know I want this girl in my
life forever.
I'm not insane, I finish school in June
then start college this September. She's
in school another 2 years or she can drop
out anytime since she's over
16. |
ok this post proves how unrealistically
immature you are...a baby will not keep
her in your life forever...and at 18 most
people dont even know what love
is....youre too young and im sorry to be
harsh but your delusional. why the hell on
gods green earth would you want her to
drop out or even think about it????? i
thought you loved her?? if you really
loved her you would want her to succeed
...you dont love her ..
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tinkinpink84
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Posted: 03-02-07 08:33am
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I would suggest waiting , until shes out
of highschool, you dont want her dropping
out, sure your going to have college and
stuff going on but she might want her
future to include graduating and college
as well. id suggest talking to her about
her future before bringing babies into it,
16 is way too young. I couldnt imagine
having a kid at that age. If you think you
2 will be together forever then you got
time to wait. Enjoy being kid free and
having fun and letting her finish
highschool.
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pjsands
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Posted: 03-02-07 08:39am
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| tinkinpink84
wrote: | | I would suggest waiting ,
until shes out of highschool, you dont
want her dropping out, sure your going to
have college and stuff going on but she
might want her future to include
graduating and college as well. id suggest
talking to her about her future before
bringing babies into it, 16 is way too
young. I couldnt imagine having a kid at
that age. If you think you 2 will be
together forever then you got time to
wait. Enjoy being kid free and having fun
and letting her finish
highschool. |
It's young but It's possible, lots of
teens have a baby. If she gets pregnant
this year, she will be 17 when the baby
comes. If she wants to stay in school to
finish, go to college she can. I wouldn't
stop her going after her dreams for a
career. It's a good thing to have good
education and well payed job.
I will do all the parenting she wants me
to, if she wants me to drop out of college
to be with the baby at home and work part
time at night, then I will. I'm willing to
sacrifice everything to have a baby with
her.
How should I bring up this discussion to
her tonight?
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Emma2
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Posted: 03-02-07 08:40am
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| pjsands
wrote: | | tinkinpink84
wrote: | | I would suggest waiting ,
until shes out of highschool, you dont
want her dropping out, sure your going to
have college and stuff going on but she
might want her future to include
graduating and college as well. id suggest
talking to her about her future before
bringing babies into it, 16 is way too
young. I couldnt imagine having a kid at
that age. If you think you 2 will be
together forever then you got time to
wait. Enjoy being kid free and having fun
and letting her finish
highschool. |
It's young but It's possible, lots of
teens have a baby. If she gets pregnant
this year, she will be 17 when the baby
comes. If she wants to stay in school to
finish, go to college she can. I wouldn't
stop her going after her dreams for a
career. It's a good thing to have good
education and well payed job.
I will do all the parenting she wants me
to, if she wants me to drop out of college
to be with the baby at home and work part
time at night, then I will. I'm willing to
sacrifice everything to have a baby with
her.
How should I bring up this discussion to
her tonight? |
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pjsands
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Posted: 03-02-07 08:46am
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I am immature I'm only 18 I don't pretend
I'm not. I have a lot to learnm and
experience yet.
I don't know how much it will cost to
raise a baby or what is involved, I hear
they are a handful physically and
mentally. I will try my best.
If we have a baby together, she will
always be with me. That is the reason I'm
in a rush to do this asap. I always will
want her.
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Bridget
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Posted: 03-02-07 08:48am
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why don't you just chain her to the wall
of your basement? then she'll always be
with you and you won't have the financial
burden of a child.
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 03-02-07 08:52am
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| pjsands
wrote: | I am immature I'm only 18 I
don't pretend I'm not. I have a lot to
learnm and experience yet.
I don't know how much it will cost to
raise a baby or what is involved, I hear
they are a handful physically and
mentally. I will try my best.
If we have a baby together, she will
always be with me. That is the reason I'm
in a rush to do this asap. I always will
want her. |
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pjsands
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Posted: 03-02-07 08:53am
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wrote: | | why don't you just chain her
to the wall of your basement? then she'll
always be with you and you won't have the
financial burden of a
child. |
Illegal
She wouldn't like me for it
In a perfect world maybe!
Serious how should I begin?
I have something to talk to you about..
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Emma2
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Posted: 03-02-07 08:54am
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wrote: | | IHeartMyBostonTerrier
wrote: | | why don't you just chain her
to the wall of your basement? then she'll
always be with you and you won't have the
financial burden of a
child. |
Illegal
She wouldn't like me for it
In a perfect world maybe!
Serious how should I begin?
I have something to talk to you
about.. |
bye you mental case...
girls this guy is playing us..i wouldnt
answer him anymore.
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Magical Logic
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Posted: 03-02-07 08:54am
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i bet this person is just trying to get
people upset
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 03-02-07 08:54am
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wrote: | | IHeartMyBostonTerrier
wrote: | | why don't you just chain her
to the wall of your basement? then she'll
always be with you and you won't have the
financial burden of a
child. |
Illegal
She wouldn't like me for it
In a perfect world maybe!
Serious how should I begin?
I have something to talk to you
about.. |
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pjsands
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Posted: 03-02-07 08:55am
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Using a life? We will have a child
eventually anyway, it;s just doing it
early, like many others do.
I agree she might not stay my g-f forever
but if we have a baby she is always
connected to me like someone said. We will
be family.
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pjsands
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Posted: 03-02-07 08:59am
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It is not a joke. Did I type it wrong?
Doesn't anyone know how I feel? Are you
all single?
I love this girl so much you have no idea.
I'm scared of losing her. A baby seems the
only way to make sure that never happens.
If there's another way plz enlighten me.
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Melissa_20
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Posted: 03-02-07 09:01am
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you have your answers, buh bye bow!
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