Sorry if I posted the wrong place. I was going to post before Xmas but with the holidays everyone is busy so I thought best not to bring it upto my g-f until the new year was over, now is a better time.

Any advice?

my advice to you is "are you absolutely insane?!!" finish school , get a real career

Why do you want your 16 year old girlfriend to have a baby?

We met last March so it's been a whole year now. 1 month after meeting her we got together and I knew she was the girl I want to have forever.

We have not talked about children or moving in together or the future yet. Yet in a year we have become extremely close.

Having a baby is in most people's future. So it will happen eventually, why not do it sooner? I know I want this girl in my life forever.

I'm not insane, I finish school in June then start college this September. She's in school another 2 years or she can drop out anytime since she's over 16.

ok this post proves how unrealistically immature you are...a baby will not keep her in your life forever...and at 18 most people dont even know what love is....youre too young and im sorry to be harsh but your delusional. why the hell on gods green earth would you want her to drop out or even think about it????? i thought you loved her?? if you really loved her you would want her to succeed ...you dont love her ..

I would suggest waiting , until shes out of highschool, you dont want her dropping out, sure your going to have college and stuff going on but she might want her future to include graduating and college as well. id suggest talking to her about her future before bringing babies into it, 16 is way too young. I couldnt imagine having a kid at that age. If you think you 2 will be together forever then you got time to wait. Enjoy being kid free and having fun and letting her finish highschool.

It's young but It's possible, lots of teens have a baby. If she gets pregnant this year, she will be 17 when the baby comes. If she wants to stay in school to finish, go to college she can. I wouldn't stop her going after her dreams for a career. It's a good thing to have good education and well payed job.

I will do all the parenting she wants me to, if she wants me to drop out of college to be with the baby at home and work part time at night, then I will. I'm willing to sacrifice everything to have a baby with her.

How should I bring up this discussion to her tonight?

are you stupid? do you realize how much it costs to have a baby and to raise it? im sure i make way more than you and my wallet is running dry..get a grip your making me ill.

I am immature I'm only 18 I don't pretend I'm not. I have a lot to learnm and experience yet.

I don't know how much it will cost to raise a baby or what is involved, I hear they are a handful physically and mentally. I will try my best.

If we have a baby together, she will always be with me. That is the reason I'm in a rush to do this asap. I always will want her.

why don't you just chain her to the wall of your basement? then she'll always be with you and you won't have the financial burden of a child.

no,just because you have a child together does *nto* mean she will be with ou forever.you wil only have that connection through the child.get a grip on yourself retard.your too young and just because you think it may happen in the future doesn't mean now is better than later! sh*t happens.like emma said,if you llove her,you woldn't be anticipating her dropping out of school because your impatient about having a child with her.also,if she drops out she wont be able to get a decent job which means you would be supporting 3 people,not just you and the baby.I'm sure your wallet doesn't run that deep.you make me sick!

Illegal
She wouldn't like me for it
In a perfect world maybe!

Serious how should I begin?

I have something to talk to you about..

bye you mental case...

girls this guy is playing us..i wouldnt answer him anymore.

i bet this person is just trying to get people upset

this has to be a joke. . .

ok, this isn't real.

Using a life? We will have a child eventually anyway, it;s just doing it early, like many others do.

I agree she might not stay my g-f forever but if we have a baby she is always connected to me like someone said. We will be family.

It is not a joke. Did I type it wrong?

Doesn't anyone know how I feel? Are you all single?

I love this girl so much you have no idea. I'm scared of losing her. A baby seems the only way to make sure that never happens. If there's another way plz enlighten me.

you have your answers, buh bye bow!