Want to Get Her Pregnant

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I have no control of stopping her leave me, I understand that and don't want her to see me as a stalker or controller of her life. I love her to death, I want her to be happy, to do whatever she wants in life, I want her to be happy.

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haveing a baby isnt' going to let her be happy and do whatever in life she wants because she will have the burden on your baby.

I hope that she is very afraid of you because i would be.

haha i cant believe yall even indulged this. its obviuosly a faker

Sunflower, she should fear me because I love her so much I always want to be a part of her life? That's what this is about. I love her so much I don't want to ever lose her.

Everyone is taking me the wrong way.

I always had sex with girls and no real feelings other than friendly, but with my g-f I love her in a way I never loved anyone before.

I'm scared to lose her.

If you love someone this much you will understand how I feel, if you are single you won't.

I don't know what to do, I don't want to freak her out about a baby.

I'm not sure what state your in but you're 18 and she's 16? That is statitory rape in most states. She does not have to file charges, the d.a. can do that without her consent. If you get her preggo there will be some red flags and you could go to the pokey. I know you 'love' her, but get out while the gettins good. As far as a baby-you have no idea how big of a mistake that would be. It will ruin your relationship at a young age. Move on...Don't punish her because you love her. If it's meant to be, it will be.

your 18 shes 16, if you live in the us, thats illeagel, you do know that right?

~alicia~

I'm in england, it's ok after age 16 here.

I know a baby won't make her stay my g-f but it will make her always be in my life, even if she moves far away we will still be in contact because we have a child.

Marriage doesn't mean she will always be in my life because so many get divorced.

I can't think of any other way to keep her a part of my life other than make her a family relative by having a baby with her.

Is there someone I can get help and advise from who want's to help? I don't want to annoy anyone here.

if you're for real then you are seriously creepy.

i don't believe you're in england either.

Pj...you are in the lions den. Do not lurk here or these girls will eat you alive.....run!

I understand why I might sound creepy because I said I love her so much, but that's the truth, didn't you ever meet someone you thought was terrific and amazing and everything you wanted to find in a person? I don't want to lose her. If she wants to break up I can handle it....or try to handle it best I can, as long as we are still connected in some way and have contact. Is that too much to ask for?



Who can I talk to for help plz? I need to say hear support, I don't know what to do and people are making me feel worse. I'm a good guy, can't help if I completely fell for this girl.

How do you know getting her pregnant will seriously keep her in your life? There are things such as restraining orders in this country, unmarried you have no parental responsibility to that child unless you get a court order or have an agreement (legally) with her so don't think it's as simple as just her having your child keeps her in your life forever.

Secondly, you need her agreement to try and get her pregnant, how many 16year olds realistically want to try for a baby because their partner is worried of losing them? She has school to finish and if she wants a career thats going to be 2years sixth form and 3 years at uni - not so easy when you've got a child.

How do you plan to finance this? Do you have a job?
If you truely love this girl then surely you want the best for her - i.e. having a child when you're emotionally and financially stable?

Grow up, speak to your gf (assuming this is real ) and tell her your worries about her leaving as opposed to thinking up crazy ideas that you believe will make her stay with you. Long and short of it is that if she's going to leave you at some point then she will - baby or not. You're both young, feelings change. Yes, she may be the love of your life but just chill out and enjoy being together instead of acting so crazy.

so you're thinking about "what if" she leaves you and you want to put a child in the middle of that?

do you know how much it hurts to grow up without both parents? why would you want to do that to your child?

if you do break up then you could still be friends that's contact, you don't need to put a child in the middle of something like that.

i just want to add, there is love at that age, but theres no reason to do this to yourself or an innocent child.