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My Day (long Post, Sorry) Posted: 03-04-07 07:58am
My dad and his wife are in town for the
weekend. We decided to take .alyvia for
some portraits this weekend, and walmart
was having some kind of deal, so we
decided we'd go there. We did her
.christmas portraits there, so it seemed
like a great idea.
We went to eat at .olive .garden first,
and we were literally there about two
hours. It took forever to sit down, and
then forever to get served. Our waiter
acted like he was brand new, so he was
really nervous and unsure of what to do.
He took like 10 minutes bring our refills
to us. The salad was disgusting, the
breadsticks tasted like cardboard, and he
brought my parents' food out 15 minutes
before I got mine. My food was almost
unedible. I took maybe four bites and
pushed my plate away. The chicken was
soggy, the alfredo sauce had dried on
the noodles, and it made my stomach do
flipflops. Ugh.
In the meantime, .alyvia has gone from
happy and smiling to grouchy and tired. We
were supposed to go to .walmart directly
after eating for her portraits. I was
getting more and more upset because I
really wanted a picture with her smiling!
And she was getting tired and pissed! Our
waiter came back and asked me if my food
was okay, and I said no. He asked me if I
wanted the kitchen to remake it, and I
snapped at him that we had places to go
and we'd been here long enough. I
understand he was new, but .jesus! We were
supposed to be in and out of there. If
we'd known it would have taken so long, we
would have eaten after the pictures.
So we booked it over to .walmart, and
what. The portrait studio was closed. The
business hours said it should have been
open, but there you go. We asked an
employee where the lady was, and he told
us she was working at another location
across town. So we drive all the way over
there, and they don't even have a
portrait studio! I was beyond pissed! They
referred us to yet another .walmart about
30 minutes away, and we refused.
So by this point, .alyvia is crying. We
decide to go back home so she could take a
nap. We called .sears and .k-mart who were
both open and available. We decided to
look at .k-mart's package first, since
they were on the way to the mall. They had
a reasonable deal and there was no wait,
so we just decided to do it there.
Her pictures turned out beautiful!! She was still
doing her face
at the photographer, so I asked my stepmom
to sit beside her (they require you to be
next to your babies during the session)
and I stood beside the photographer behind
the camera and she smiled for her mommy.
Her pictures were just divine! I was so
happy. I can pick them up on the 23rd.
They don't put them on cd apparently, so
.i'll need to scan them at my inlaw's
house. But they turned out so beautiful.
We're not going back to .walmart anymore,
I don't think. We're going to .k-mart from
now on.
We're going back out today. I'm really
excited. I shouldn't be awake this early
(I woke up at incredibly' 5 am!) but I had
yet another nightmare about my mom and
decided enough was enough. So I wrote her
a four page (typed) letter and emailed it
to her. I seriously have issues with my
mom, you guys. It's insane. Serious
issues.
But anyway, that was my day. Started off
bad, got a lot worse, then became awesome.
I can't wait to get those pictures back.
You girls have never seen .alyvia look as
cute as she looks there. Her real
smile was finally captured on film, and I
couldn't be happier!
sounds like sucha fun day, id be so mad
about that too. I hate going places to eat
and waiting for hours and get crappy
service , when that happens i dont leave a
tip or just $1 hehe. im mean lke that but
they get what they deserve.
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Bridget
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Posted: 03-04-07 09:30am
sorry things started out so crappy. at
least you got great pics in the end and i
can't wait to see them!
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 03-04-07 09:37am
Thanks .diane it did suck,
royally. I started off feeling bad for the
waiter and being super nice to him, but by
the end I was sooo annoyed.
Bridget: they're so pretty! lmao my dad
was getting annoyed at me in the car
because I kept gushing about them. She
looks amazing!
Aww hun I'm sorry your day was so crappy
at first.. but I'm so glad you're happy
with the pics you got! I'm sure .Aly looks
beautiful, I can't wait to see them!! =)
<3
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Mommy35
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Posted: 03-04-07 10:17am
It sucks that your day started off
crappy, but it's good that your pics
turned out good in the end.
The last time I went to .Olive .Garden the
salad was wilted and there was a big ole
hair in it. eeeeewww
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 03-04-07 15:47pm
I hate olive garden. But I can't wait
to see Aly's pics!!! I bet she looks soo
pretty!!
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 03-04-07 16:37pm
i dont think i have ever heard
someone say that they HATE olive garden
:O:O:O id eat there everyday if i could
afford it lol theyre building a new one
here. i cant wait to see the pics laura!!!
i bet shes beautiful!
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hopefulmjz
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Posted: 03-04-07 16:38pm
I'm sorry you and .aly had such a rough
day, but at least something good came of
your day! I can't wait to see her pics!
*Kay, I like your new avatar!
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 03-04-07 17:24pm
Thankies love! I put the camera on my
coffee table and set it to auto. I cheat!
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Posted: 03-04-07 17:30pm
I've just realized that I will never have
a relationship with my mom.
I wrote her a four page letter through
email this morning, detailing how she's
hurt me and how I would very much like a
genuine apology so I can move
on, and not just justifications and
excuses.
She's now telling people that I need
therapy, and she's asking people not to
"validate my issues".
I feel like putting my fist through a
wall. My godmother told me that she thinks
I do need therapy, but only to
help talk out my anxiety over what my
mother has put me through. My mother is
either narcissistic, has borderline
personality disorder, or something else.
She's been on medication. She's been to
therapy. She's stopped both.
I wish I could forget about her. I wish I
had closure so I could either work things
out with her or move the f*ck on. I've
tried to go on without closure, and it's
giving me nightmares.
I wish I could hate her. THis would be so
easy if I could just bring myself to hate
her.
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tigresacanela24
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Posted: 03-04-07 17:38pm
I'm sorry, Laura. I wish I knew what to
say, except not to let her get to you but
that's way easier to say than it is to do,
I know. I feel like that about my sister.
But I just act like she's not even
related to me now. Although sometimes I
still want to make her apologize.
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 03-04-07 17:52pm
I just don't understand why this is
hurting me so much. I want so badly to
move on, and just for her to say she
acknowledges the hurt .i'm feeling. She
won't even do that. She is incapable of
taking any blame on herself she always
puts the blame on other people. And
instead of addressing me, she addresses
other people and says she's trying to get
me to "accept" professional help? Like
.i'm a drug addict and she's trying to get
me into rehab.
She has documented psychological issues.
Her issues, which had been unmedicated for
years, directly affected me since I was an
only child and the only one directly
relating to her. I'm still suffering from
that, and she's writing me off like .i'm a
14 year old with adhd or something.
I'm shaking so hard right now. I just
can't deal with this.
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Amber*Marie
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Posted: 03-05-07 19:11pm
I cant wait to see them!! I took Amelia to
Kmart to get hers taken last week and they
turned out awesome!!