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Terrible,terrible Night
Posted: 03-06-07 10:42am

So tonight was a pretty bad night,sorry guys going to have a bit of a vent here Twisted Evil .

It started with a bit of cramping this arfternoon,then turned into some bleeding.I called the hospital to see if .I should go in straight away,and they said I should.
Jason was at work so I called him straight away and asked him to call someone else him to cover.It was 10.00 at night but .I .k.n.o.w without a doubt someone would come in to cover him.He refused to,saying it was to late and unfair to call in someone else.(Bear in mind my car is getting its hail damage repaired and the hospital is 40 minutes away)
I burst into tears because .I was so scared about the bleeding and apart from not having any way of getting to the hospital really wanted his support.
Anyway I called my mum and dad next to ask if they could drive me.My mum was crying.Its a bit of a long story.But my 15 yr old sister has gone off the rails the last three months and has a 20 yr old .G.I.R.L.F.R.I.E.N.D who is a drug dealer.This girl has gotten her brother to try and hit me with a pool cue and just last week said she wasn't scared to beat the sh*t out of me because I wasn't in my third trimester yet!!!! Evil or
Very Mad Evil or
Very Mad along with lots of other really awful things.
So my sister decides to run away with her today,and mum and dad are waiting for the welfare to bring her home.They dont know where my sister is and is stressing because the welfare havent called to tell them whats happening.
Mum and dad take me to the hospital anyway,the whole time mum is freaking out about my sister and whats going on as well as worrying about me.
I end up at the hospital for 4 hours.The doc. thought the bleeding was because .I had had sex in the last 24 hours.But I heard the heartbeat,had a swab taken of my cervix (which has an abnormal growth on it,but should be fine).and bloo and urine tests.
So everything is fine...which is awesome!! Smile.
Its 1.40 am in Australia right(i cant sleep!) now and Im staying at my parents because I am just so cranky with .Jason because he wouldnt even bother trying to call someone to come into work!I feel so insignificant right now Sad
And my sister still isnt home and there has been no word from welfare about anything.

Sorry its so long everyone!!I really needed a vent Embarassed


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Posted: 03-06-07 10:51am

Oh my! I'm so sorry you have to go through all of this while preggy! It seems like it's harder to cope with things when your preggy.

I'm not gonna bash your man, but he should have dropped everything to make sure his child was ok.

Your sis prob needs a couple days in juvenille detention to straighten her ass up. They act all hard and when they get in, they start cryin like little babas.

WHen I went I saw some "big bag bit(hes" ballin *hard* when their mom would call!!!!!!

Just try to relax, take a bubble bath. And just soak. FOrget about everthing. Then go shopping!! lmao!

Sarah
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Posted: 03-06-07 15:04pm

you never have to be sorry for venting!!

im sorry all of his is happening Sad and im sorry your man didn't drop everything to take you to the hospital, i understand why you're mad!


i hope your sister comes home soon too!
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Posted: 03-06-07 15:26pm

babymajic0506 wrote:
Oh my! I'm so sorry you have to go through all of this while preggy! It seems like it's harder to cope with things when your preggy.

I'm not gonna bash your man, but he should have dropped everything to make sure his child was ok.

Your sis prob needs a couple days in juvenille detention to straighten her ass up. They act all hard and when they get in, they start cryin like little babas.

WHen I went I saw some "big bag bit(hes" ballin *hard* when their mom would call!!!!!!

Just try to relax, take a bubble bath. And just soak. FOrget about everthing. Then go shopping!! lmao!

Sarah


you went to juvie????
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Posted: 03-06-07 15:36pm

lmao, yea....5 days. It was like a borin ass summer camp. it was boy & girl in the same pods(rooms that held like 10 kids). We each had our own room. With tables, playin cards, books and paper! lmao!!

It was like a mini jail. I was like 15...bein stupid...you know...

Sarah
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Posted: 03-06-07 15:42pm

ive been too....my mom and dad made me stay there for like 6 days.....being stupid too.

it was better than school.
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Posted: 03-06-07 16:30pm

lol..yea you right.

But it made me act right. I was sooo bored there!!! I mean talk about yawn-ville!!

Sarah
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Posted: 03-06-07 17:38pm

Thanks girls Smile


babymajic0506 wrote:
Oh my! I'm so sorry you have to go through all of this while preggy! It seems like it's harder to cope with things when your preggy.

I'm not gonna bash your man, but he should have dropped everything to make sure his child was ok.

Your sis prob needs a couple days in juvenille detention to straighten her ass up. They act all hard and when they get in, they start cryin like little babas.

WHen I went I saw some "big bag bit(hes" ballin *hard* when their mom would call!!!!!!

Just try to relax, take a bubble bath. And just soak. FOrget about everthing. Then go shopping!! lmao!

Sarah



He totally should have been right by myside,thats what made me more upset! Evil or
Very Mad My dad was really p*ssed off.He refuses to call him by his real name now.He's like 'Im going to all him Justin.'Its a bit funny! Laughing

My sister needs a .H.U.G.E wakeup call.A few weeks ago she didnt come home,so we went over to her girlfriends house to get her.Her family are pretty heavy people.Her bro. was involved in a stabbing death of a teenger.Which is soooooo rare around my little seaside Australian town! They wouldnt let my sis leave.And we got into a bit of a fight,thats when the bro. tried to hit me with the pool cue.
We ended up calling the cops,and they even said to us the family was really bad and that my sis didnt need to be around them.They even told her they were bad news and that she shouldnt have anything to do with them.

She wont listen to anyone.Im pretty sure she's going to go into a foster home,because she .W.A.N.T.S to!She's annoyed with my mum and dad because they wont let her go out and drink and take drugs and have sex with her stupid girlfriend.The welfare even told us before that we should just let her do what she wants and always have the door open for her if she needs us.

Dads like 'F*ck that,if she lives under my house she'l live under my rules,my two other kid couldnt do what ever they liked.'

Shes 15 for havens sake!!!

Anyway I'm feeling better this morning,I still have a few cramps but nothing major.I have 4 days off work because the doc. said I should rest.
Im just a worrier,and this whole situation sucks to be in....especially when .I should be enjoying my pregnancy Sad

And I think I should go shopping!I need to buy more baby things and will make me feel so much better!!!
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