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Terrible,terrible Night Posted: 03-06-07 10:42am
So tonight was a pretty bad night,sorry
guys going to have a bit of a vent here
.
It started with a bit of cramping this
arfternoon,then turned into some
bleeding.I called the hospital to see if
.I should go in straight away,and they
said I should.
Jason was at work so I called him straight
away and asked him to call someone else
him to cover.It was 10.00 at night but .I
.k.n.o.w without a doubt someone would
come in to cover him.He refused to,saying
it was to late and unfair to call in
someone else.(Bear in mind my car is
getting its hail damage repaired and the
hospital is 40 minutes away)
I burst into tears because .I was so
scared about the bleeding and apart from
not having any way of getting to the
hospital really wanted his support.
Anyway I called my mum and dad next to ask
if they could drive me.My mum was
crying.Its a bit of a long story.But my 15
yr old sister has gone off the rails the
last three months and has a 20 yr old
.G.I.R.L.F.R.I.E.N.D who is a drug
dealer.This girl has gotten her brother to
try and hit me with a pool cue and just
last week said she wasn't scared to beat
the sh*t out of me because I wasn't in my
third trimester yet!!!! along
with lots of other really awful things.
So my sister decides to run away with her
today,and mum and dad are waiting for the
welfare to bring her home.They dont know
where my sister is and is stressing
because the welfare havent called to tell
them whats happening.
Mum and dad take me to the hospital
anyway,the whole time mum is freaking out
about my sister and whats going on as well
as worrying about me.
I end up at the hospital for 4 hours.The
doc. thought the bleeding was because .I
had had sex in the last 24 hours.But I
heard the heartbeat,had a swab taken of my
cervix (which has an abnormal growth on
it,but should be fine).and bloo and urine
tests.
So everything is fine...which is awesome!!
.
Its 1.40 am in Australia right(i cant
sleep!) now and Im staying at my parents
because I am just so cranky with .Jason
because he wouldnt even bother trying to
call someone to come into work!I feel so
insignificant right now
And my sister still isnt home and there
has been no word from welfare about
anything.
Sorry its so long everyone!!I really
needed a vent
edited for spelling
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Eyes Wide Shut
Especially EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jan 2006 Posts: 7892 Location: *UPTOWN*NEW ORLEANS*, La
Posted: 03-06-07 10:51am
Oh my! I'm so sorry you have to go through
all of this while preggy! It seems like
it's harder to cope with things when your
preggy.
I'm not gonna bash your man, but he should
have dropped everything to make sure his
child was ok.
Your sis prob needs a couple days in
juvenille detention to straighten her ass
up. They act all hard and when they get
in, they start cryin like little babas.
WHen I went I saw some "big bag bit(hes"
ballin *hard* when their mom would
call!!!!!!
Just try to relax, take a bubble bath. And
just soak. FOrget about everthing. Then go
shopping!! lmao!
Sarah
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 03-06-07 15:04pm
you never have to be sorry for venting!!
im sorry all of his is happening and im sorry your
man didn't drop everything to take you to
the hospital, i understand why you're
mad!
i hope your sister comes home soon too!
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Sunflower_pie81
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Joined: 17 Jan 2006 Posts: 5041 Location: to hell with this crap
Posted: 03-06-07 15:26pm
babymajic0506
wrote:
Oh my! I'm so sorry you have
to go through all of this while preggy! It
seems like it's harder to cope with things
when your preggy.
I'm not gonna bash your man, but he should
have dropped everything to make sure his
child was ok.
Your sis prob needs a couple days in
juvenille detention to straighten her ass
up. They act all hard and when they get
in, they start cryin like little babas.
WHen I went I saw some "big bag bit(hes"
ballin *hard* when their mom would
call!!!!!!
Just try to relax, take a bubble bath. And
just soak. FOrget about everthing. Then go
shopping!! lmao!
Sarah
you went to juvie????
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Joined: 04 Jan 2006 Posts: 7892 Location: *UPTOWN*NEW ORLEANS*, La
Posted: 03-06-07 15:36pm
lmao, yea....5 days. It was like a borin
ass summer camp. it was boy & girl in
the same pods(rooms that held like 10
kids). We each had our own room. With
tables, playin cards, books and paper!
lmao!!
It was like a mini jail. I was like
15...bein stupid...you know...
Sarah
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Sunflower_pie81
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Joined: 17 Jan 2006 Posts: 5041 Location: to hell with this crap
Posted: 03-06-07 15:42pm
ive been too....my mom and dad made me
stay there for like 6 days.....being
stupid too.
it was better than school.
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Joined: 04 Jan 2006 Posts: 7892 Location: *UPTOWN*NEW ORLEANS*, La
Posted: 03-06-07 16:30pm
lol..yea you right.
But it made me act right. I was sooo bored
there!!! I mean talk about yawn-ville!!
Sarah
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butterfly4565
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Posted: 03-06-07 17:38pm
Thanks girls
babymajic0506
wrote:
Oh my! I'm so sorry you have
to go through all of this while preggy! It
seems like it's harder to cope with things
when your preggy.
I'm not gonna bash your man, but he should
have dropped everything to make sure his
child was ok.
Your sis prob needs a couple days in
juvenille detention to straighten her ass
up. They act all hard and when they get
in, they start cryin like little babas.
WHen I went I saw some "big bag bit(hes"
ballin *hard* when their mom would
call!!!!!!
Just try to relax, take a bubble bath. And
just soak. FOrget about everthing. Then go
shopping!! lmao!
Sarah
He totally should have been right by
myside,thats what made me more upset!
My dad
was really p*ssed off.He refuses to call
him by his real name now.He's like 'Im
going to all him Justin.'Its a bit funny!
My sister needs a .H.U.G.E wakeup call.A
few weeks ago she didnt come home,so we
went over to her girlfriends house to get
her.Her family are pretty heavy people.Her
bro. was involved in a stabbing death of a
teenger.Which is soooooo rare around my
little seaside Australian town! They
wouldnt let my sis leave.And we got into a
bit of a fight,thats when the bro. tried
to hit me with the pool cue.
We ended up calling the cops,and they even
said to us the family was really bad and
that my sis didnt need to be around
them.They even told her they were bad news
and that she shouldnt have anything to do
with them.
She wont listen to anyone.Im pretty sure
she's going to go into a foster
home,because she .W.A.N.T.S to!She's
annoyed with my mum and dad because they
wont let her go out and drink and take
drugs and have sex with her stupid
girlfriend.The welfare even told us before
that we should just let her do what she
wants and always have the door open for
her if she needs us.
Dads like 'F*ck that,if she lives under my
house she'l live under my rules,my two
other kid couldnt do what ever they
liked.'
Shes 15 for havens sake!!!
Anyway I'm feeling better this morning,I
still have a few cramps but nothing
major.I have 4 days off work because the
doc. said I should rest.
Im just a worrier,and this whole situation
sucks to be in....especially when .I
should be enjoying my pregnancy
And I think I should go shopping!I need to
buy more baby things and will make me feel
so much better!!!