AyaMiyaki
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I Think I Might Be...
Posted: 03-06-07 16:46pm
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getting my period soon. 
my tummy's been cramping off and on today.
I haven't had cramping in months. I've
also been extremely moody, borderline
depressed. A lot of that, I think, has to
do with my mother but .i'm starting to
wonder.
Aaaah. 
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Posted: 03-06-07 16:47pm
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Jesus...don't do that!!!!
lmao! Of course, I thought you'd be
saying...pregnant!!!
Get the tampons reaaaady! lol!
Sarah
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 03-06-07 16:55pm
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lmao I can't be pregnant, I haven't been
having sex.  my
sex drive is nonexistant and the last two
times we tried it, I tore. I would go
through labor again in a heartbeat if it
would give me my sex drive back.
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mc4ever02
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Posted: 03-06-07 18:21pm
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This may be a stupid question that you
have heard a trillion times. But I figure
one more won't hurt. When you have tried
having sex, have you been using enough
*quality* lube? (I don't care what anyone
says the cheap stuff is NOT as good)
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Sandbox Party
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Posted: 03-06-07 18:22pm
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| mc4ever02
wrote: | | This may be a stupid
question that you have heard a trillion
times. But I figure one more won't hurt.
When you have tried having sex, have you
been using enough *quality* lube? (I don't
care what anyone says the cheap stuff is
NOT as good) |
k-y warming is the bessssssssssssssst!!
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mc4ever02
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Posted: 03-06-07 18:32pm
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Oh NO NO NO on the k-y warming. When you
are just getting into the swing of things
and there is a possibility that there will
be some tearing. (which there will be the
first couple times) That stuff *seriously*
burns I cried for like 30
min after the first time we used it. It
makes me cringe to just look at the
bottle! Regular KY works well, personally
I use Astroglide. That will make an
elephant fit up a rats a@@ if you tried
hard enough.
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 03-06-07 18:34pm
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We use this watermelon-flavored lube we
picked up in a sex shop. It's a funny
story, actually. We didn't go in there for
lube - we went in for a product called
"anal ease", which is supposed to help
numb your backdoor for anal sex. We were
hoping to use it on my bunny (girly bits)
since I had stitches and was still sore.
We picked up the lube while we were
there.
I think it's decent stuff - we don't have
lube issues. We have size issues. My
bunny's too small and his giraffe (lmao)
is too big. The fact that we're barely
having sex is making the problem worse.
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Emma2
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Posted: 03-06-07 18:42pm
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| AyaMiyaki
wrote: | We use this
watermelon-flavored lube we picked up in a
sex shop. It's a funny story, actually. We
didn't go in there for lube - we went in
for a product called "anal ease", which is
supposed to help numb your backdoor for
anal sex. We were hoping to use it on my
bunny (girly bits) since I had stitches
and was still sore. We picked up the lube
while we were there.
I think it's decent stuff - we don't have
lube issues. We have size issues. My
bunny's too small and his giraffe (lmao)
is too big. The fact that we're barely
having sex is making the problem worse.
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oh my god i thought the same thing like
sarah!!! and this story is a re-run
girl..shows i pay attention huh? lol
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arcadia
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Posted: 03-06-07 18:43pm
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holy caca i hate ky warming! it seriously
does burn like none other. ew ew ew ew. i
hate even thinking about using it! we
don't really ever use lube. alllll lube
kinda burns my coochie. blech.
oooh watermelon flavored though, eh? does
it actually taste good?
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mc4ever02
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Posted: 03-06-07 18:54pm
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Well, when my husband and i first *tried*
having sex it didn't workout so well
That is how I know about lube and warming
*shivers* Even though I produce plenty of
natural lube (sorry tmi) I found that it
made the situation much,much,much easier.
Your husband will also need to be very
understanding. He can't just go in there
and try to ram-er-home! He will need to be
very gentle. What we did is use ALOT of
Astroglide, and took things very slowly.
The first few times that he was able to
get it in at all, was only a couple of
inches, for a couple of min. then we
gradually progressed from there. And to
this day (2 years later) If we go longer
than a week, It is like starting at square
one, quite a few nights of slow and
gentle. I may be wrong, as that was sex
for the first time, not sex after a baby.
Because you were stitched it may have alot
less give. But trust me it is worth a
shot. How else are you going to make
another beautiful baby?
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HcoBrunette06
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Posted: 03-06-07 19:12pm
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it sucks that it hurts
it's been a few months since i've had sex
and i know it's gonna hurt again when i
see im in april, just like the first time
 that's
the worst part, when we first start out
lol
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 03-06-07 19:22pm
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| arcadia
wrote: | | oooh watermelon flavored
though, eh? does it actually taste good?
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lmao I honestly have no idea. I was so
mortified about asking this little 18 year
old girl behind the counter for anal ease.
When my husband mentioned lube I just
grabbed the first thing I saw. I wanted to
get out of there so badly. And when we
were paying for it I saw it was watermelon
flavored and wanted to die. That girl has
seen everything under the sun, .i'm sure,
but in my mind she was like "omg anal ease
and watermelon lube, what a freak!"
.i haven't tasted it. I hate giving oral.
Haaate it. And when I do do it,
I don't use lube. So, yeah.
mc4ever02 (sorry, I don't know your name!)
: yeah, I had my baby almost 7 months ago.
We take it super super slow and try to
allow my bunny to stretch, but it's torn
regardless. *sigh* we don't even finish.
Eventually it becomes too painful and we
stop. I think .alyvia will be an only
child for another year or two.
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mc4ever02
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Posted: 03-06-07 19:47pm
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By the time your ready for another one (in
a year or two). You won't care how much it
hurts. You'll be happy with anything you
can get
Anyway, Be very careful with the flavored
lubes. If the have any sugar or sugar
substitute you should only use them for
oral purposes. The ingredients that give
it taste can easily give women infections,
and often causes irritation. Definitely
not something you want combined with
tearing Still, I say spend
the $5 on Astroglide and see if it helps.
I would put money on it. If not ...A year
or two isn't that far away.
Christy
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Posted: 03-07-07 09:42am
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I got the ky warming in the spray
bottle!
Ya gotta have like puuuurfect aim!
Lol...cuz it's not like amist, it's like
a *stream*! Lmao!!!
I like it. It was offly strange at
first...but it didn't burn me.
Sarah
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Posted: 03-07-07 10:08am
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| babymajic0506
wrote: | I got the ky warming in the
spray bottle!
Ya gotta have like puuuurfect aim!
Lol...cuz it's not like amist, it's like
a *stream*! Lmao!!!
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lmao... you know how many times i've been
sprayed in the eye with that stuff?
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Posted: 03-07-07 10:31am
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lmao!! I can see how!! It's dangerous!!!
Sarah
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AyaMiyaki
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Posted: 03-07-07 18:12pm
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No period. I guess it's just stress. Lot
of that going around, I suppose.
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Eyes Wide Shut
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Posted: 03-07-07 18:14pm
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either that...or you're pregnant! lol!
Sarah
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Posted: 03-07-07 20:50pm
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I TOT U GONNA SAP PREGGO TOO...
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