Hi guys, my name is pin_cushion, and I'm a
premature ejaculator. I want to try some
of the things you guys talk about here. I
don't have time to post my thoughts now; I
just wanted to let you guys know I'm
listening.
I'd just like to mention one thing. I
first became aware of PE several years ago
at age 19 around 2003, and I believe that
the prospects are looking much better for
us now than they were back then. Look at
how many books and articles have been
written in the meantime.
See you guys again soon.
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MikeH90
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Posted: 05-02-07 07:04am
pin_cushion
wrote:
Hi guys, my name is
pin_cushion, and I'm a premature
ejaculator. I want to try some of the
things you guys talk about here. I don't
have time to post my thoughts now; I just
wanted to let you guys know I'm
listening.
I'd just like to mention one thing. I
first became aware of PE several years ago
at age 19 around 2003, and I believe that
the prospects are looking much better for
us now than they were back then. Look at
how many books and articles have been
written in the meantime.
See you guys again soon.
Welcome to our "club". Hopefully one that
can be disbanded in the future.
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MikeH90
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Posted: 05-07-07 12:03pm
developing a problem with the Stud spray.
I am not experiencing any dull-ing effects
at all. I wonder if I've become immuned to
the active ingredient or is the can filled
with water?? Back to square one.
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MandM
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Dec 2006 Posts: 50
Posted: 05-07-07 17:56pm
MikeH90
wrote:
developing a problem with
the Stud spray. I am not experiencing any
dull-ing effects at all. I wonder if I've
become immuned to the active ingredient or
is the can filled with water?? Back to
square one.
Hey guys,
Sorry I haven't chimmed in in awhile.
Work's been a killer. I still have a ton
of theories and ideas.
Mike, it's funny you mention that.
I've had on and off success with the
spray. Like I've said in previous posts,
sometimes it works too good and you can't
cum and sometimes you cum right away. I
have a feeling that your exciteness plays
a role as well. Last week for example, we
didn't have sex for about two weeks, so by
the time we got to it, I was very horny
and excited. While she got ready, I
sprayed a ton of stud on. More than usual
because I knew I was more excited. I
thought I was numbed enough, nope, I came
after ten seconds. Day after, we get down
to business and I used a performax condom
(numbing condom) and lasted 10+ minutes,
way longer after she came. From my
experience, the performax doesn't work as
good as the stud spray. It's wierd.
Fast forward to this weekend, I used
the Stud spray before we went at it, and
wala, lasted 10+ mins and way after she
came.
This is why I believe that your
exciteness plays a role. I'm mean, I'm
always super horny and excited to have
sex, but if I go a couple of weeks or
more, I'm super-duper horny and ultra
excited. And for me, masterbation doesn't
play a role, but the frequency of sex
does.
PE sucks big-time. And honestly, I
don't know of anything that's really more
powerful than stud.
Let's keep the discussion going. Maybe
one day we can get some kind of
recognition out of this.
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MikeH90
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Posted: 05-08-07 07:04am
MandM
wrote:
MikeH90
wrote:
developing a problem with
the Stud spray. I am not experiencing any
dull-ing effects at all. I wonder if I've
become immuned to the active ingredient or
is the can filled with water?? Back to
square one.
Hey guys,
Sorry I haven't chimmed in in awhile.
Work's been a killer. I still have a ton
of theories and ideas.
Mike, it's funny you mention that.
I've had on and off success with the
spray. Like I've said in previous posts,
sometimes it works too good and you can't
cum and sometimes you cum right away. I
have a feeling that your exciteness plays
a role as well. Last week for example, we
didn't have sex for about two weeks, so by
the time we got to it, I was very horny
and excited. While she got ready, I
sprayed a ton of stud on. More than usual
because I knew I was more excited. I
thought I was numbed enough, nope, I came
after ten seconds. Day after, we get down
to business and I used a performax condom
(numbing condom) and lasted 10+ minutes,
way longer after she came. From my
experience, the performax doesn't work as
good as the stud spray. It's wierd.
Fast forward to this weekend, I used
the Stud spray before we went at it, and
wala, lasted 10+ mins and way after she
came.
This is why I believe that your
exciteness plays a role. I'm mean, I'm
always super horny and excited to have
sex, but if I go a couple of weeks or
more, I'm super-duper horny and ultra
excited. And for me, masterbation doesn't
play a role, but the frequency of sex
does.
PE sucks big-time. And honestly, I
don't know of anything that's really more
powerful than stud.
Let's keep the discussion going. Maybe
one day we can get some kind of
recognition out of
this.
My experience was this - we weren't going
to have sex (that time of the month) but I
knew she would take care of me (i.e.
handjob) so I sprayed it on a few minutes
before I got into bed and it didn't work.
So a couple of days later I experimented
with myself. I was alone and horny so I
got it hard and then sprayed it on and
waited for it to dry, longer than I
normally wait. Then I just started
touching my head and shaft where I sprayed
it. Nothing, I could feel everything, no
dullness whatsoever. So I sprayed again,
this time drenching my entire shaft and
then started to massage myself. My dick
didn't become dull nor did my hand as it
dried. Don't really understand why it
stopped working. Will give it another try
this weekend before I throw it out and
start over.
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pin_cushion
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 02 May 2007 Posts: 13
Other Types of Pe??? Posted: 05-09-07 21:00pm
Hi again everyone. First, I'd like to
thank everyone here for sharing notes
about this highly embarrassing and
frustrating issue.
I'd like to ask a question of everyone
here. I think that my case of PE might be
somehow different from some of the other
cases I've read about here and other
places. I read previously in the thread
about a book that talks about different
forms of PE. I'm planning to track it
down and read it soon. I'm very busy at
the moment.
As far as I know, I have never ever in my
entire life, experienced the spine
tingling, toe-curling orgasms that some of
you have described. This is frustrating
to me in particular because I've been told
that when you have PE, you become excited
too fast during sex and lose control. It
doesn't feel like that at all to me. I
feel as if I become only slightly excited,
and as soon as it begins to feel good, it
just shoots out and it's over with almost
before it began.
Many people describe ejaculation as a
release. Physiologically, I feel a sense
of release as I ejaculate, but
psychologically, I tend to feel just as
wound up after ejaculation as I did before
- it can be extremely agitating and is not
conducive to good relationships. During
my last relationship, after lovemaking, I
would sometimes feel so disgusted, I would
get a headache or begin to feel nauseous.
I hate to think that I felt that way
because even many PE'ers say that aside
from embarrassment about ejaculating fast,
they do feel good when they ejaculate!
In short, not only do I feel I can't
please my partner with penetration ( which
I believe is why I've parted ways with my
girlfriends ), I feel like I can never get
my own rocks off even though the plumbing
appears to be working just fine. To
repeat, I just don't feel satisfied after
having sex, even for a few seconds. It's
like I'm trying to do sometime, and after
a few seconds, my body says no me, "No
more; you're done!"
Anyhow, those of you reading this, have
any of you experienced PE like this?
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MandM
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Dec 2006 Posts: 50
Posted: 05-09-07 21:41pm
Pin- I see what you are saying. When I
experience PE while having intercourse,
it's almost like my body is squeezing out
the ejaculation quickly against my will.
In some kind of a sense, it almost hurts.
I usually do not get much pleasure from
round one of PE during intercourse.
However, round two is usually much, much
better. The orgasim feels much more
intense, and the ejaculation volume seems
like it's higher than the first time. This
time around the orgasim builds up. This
time I know about a minute before I am
going to ejaculate. So it doesn't just
squeeze it out like the first time around.
Also, I notice under ideal conditions
while using a desensitizer, that round 1
behaves more like round 2 as depicted
above.
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MikeH90
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Re: Other Types of Pe??? Posted: 05-10-07 07:11am
pin_cushion
wrote:
Hi again everyone. First,
I'd like to thank everyone here for
sharing notes about this highly
embarrassing and frustrating issue.
I'd like to ask a question of everyone
here. I think that my case of PE might be
somehow different from some of the other
cases I've read about here and other
places. I read previously in the thread
about a book that talks about different
forms of PE. I'm planning to track it
down and read it soon. I'm very busy at
the moment.
As far as I know, I have never ever in my
entire life, experienced the spine
tingling, toe-curling orgasms that some of
you have described. This is frustrating
to me in particular because I've been told
that when you have PE, you become excited
too fast during sex and lose control. It
doesn't feel like that at all to me. I
feel as if I become only slightly excited,
and as soon as it begins to feel good, it
just shoots out and it's over with almost
before it began.
Many people describe ejaculation as a
release. Physiologically, I feel a sense
of release as I ejaculate, but
psychologically, I tend to feel just as
wound up after ejaculation as I did before
- it can be extremely agitating and is not
conducive to good relationships. During
my last relationship, after lovemaking, I
would sometimes feel so disgusted, I would
get a headache or begin to feel nauseous.
I hate to think that I felt that way
because even many PE'ers say that aside
from embarrassment about ejaculating fast,
they do feel good when they ejaculate!
In short, not only do I feel I can't
please my partner with penetration ( which
I believe is why I've parted ways with my
girlfriends ), I feel like I can never get
my own rocks off even though the plumbing
appears to be working just fine. To
repeat, I just don't feel satisfied after
having sex, even for a few seconds. It's
like I'm trying to do sometime, and after
a few seconds, my body says no me, "No
more; you're done!"
Anyhow, those of you reading this, have
any of you experienced PE like
this?
it sounds like even though your
ejaculating your not experiencing an
orgasm. I've felt that way a few times,
almost like you feel like it wasn't
satisfying enough.
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MikeH90
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Update On Stud Spray Posted: 05-11-07 13:08pm
Just a quick update (and to keep this
thread at the top of the list, ha ha)
Last night, wife exchanged sex for washing
her car for her, so of course I jumped at
the chance. ha ha.
Getting ready for bed, totally flaccid -
sprayed 3-4 squirts, by the time we both
were in bed and her hand went to my groin
and started massaging my dick it had been
close to 10 minutes.
I was numb enough to enjoy the massage,
even after she took it out and began
stroking it was still semi-hard. This
lasted for 2-3 minutes before I was
totally hard. I was able to penetrate and
bang away for a good 5 minutes in several
positions before I let go.
Not sure why it worked this time and not
last time. The only thing I can come up
with is maybe the ingredients did not mix
properly as I noticed the spray comes out
differently - if you push down with some
force and push the button all the way down
to the top of the can it sprays in a mist
which is what I did this time. Last time I
cautiously and slowly pushed down on the
button and the liquid came out in a small
stream not a mist. So I'm thinking maybe
it needed to mix or something??
Anyway,, its worked almost all the time
I've used it. Have a good weekend all!
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tthyjk
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 May 2007 Posts: 3 Location: ny
to the Succesfule Stud Spray Users Posted: 05-15-07 14:34pm
When u use the stud spray can you test it
if it works by masturbating? Has anybody
masterbated and saw that it takes WAY
longer to cum?
I want to tryt he stud spray and want to
test it by masterbaiting before I try it
for real...
thanx in advance!
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MikeH90
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Re: to the Succesfule Stud Spray Users Posted: 05-15-07 15:08pm
tthyjk
wrote:
When u use the stud spray
can you test it if it works by
masturbating? Has anybody masterbated and
saw that it takes WAY longer to cum?
I want to tryt he stud spray and want to
test it by masterbaiting before I try it
for real...
thanx in
advance!
I tried it one time when I masturbated and
it didn't work, however, I think it had
more to do with the fact that when I
sprayed it I didn't push down on the
button and it came out in a stream, rather
than a mist. See my post earlier last week
regarding my thoughts on why it wasn't
always working.
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Relyt
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Jun 2005 Posts: 30
Plagued By Pe Posted: 05-15-07 15:18pm
So you're out on a date with the woman of
your dreams, you've convinced her to come
back to your place. Afraid of blowing your
chances with this hotty, you grab a bottle
in an attempt to get you both drunk hoping
maybe she'll get too drunk for sex or
you'll get drunk enough you might be able
to actually please her sexually. Things
are getting hot and heavy and your almost
ready to climax and you haven’t even got
her panties off. While she's just getting
warmed up, you are already so hot you're
about to blow it. Sound familiar?
There are a number of ways to cure PE. As
a past PE sufferer I know how embarrassing
and humiliating it can be. It destroys
ones self-confidence and libido. Good news
is, I cured it, so can you.
The best advice I can give is very simple.
First, like with any problem, you must be
willing to admit you have it and be
willing to talk about it also. From there
you have 2 real courses of action. If you
have money, get out there and buy some
info products online. It's discrete and
instant. You can download a full guide
anywhere from 15 - 45 dollars. It is a
sound investment because the guides will
give you the necessary arsenal to tackle
your problem. This might sound too easy,
but the truth is, it really is easy. You
need to find the motivation to do what it
takes to get your problem under control.
Some of you will take years, some only a
few weeks. You must be determined to try
methods and techniques. I'm not talking
about stupid products that only mask the
problem, im talking about the
self-training and natural products. The
ones you need to practice self-discipline
and control to master.
The second method is similar to the first
but more for the people who can't afford
the information to be handed to them. You
can do some research online and within a
few minutes have over 10 very
comprehensive and free articles explaining
everything from prevention, causes and
cures of premature ejaculation.
Affecting 25%-40% of men. An estimated 8%
of men actually admit they have the
problem and seek professional medical help
for it. I bet out of those 8%, who
actually seek help; over 90% of them get
their PE under control.
It’s really up to you.
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POM82
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Posted: 05-15-07 15:23pm
if the answer is out there and is simple,
why dont you tell us what you did to fix
yours.
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Relyt
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Jun 2005 Posts: 30
Plagued By Pe Continued Posted: 05-15-07 15:29pm
I believe that people that truly want to
fix the problem will make the effort
themselves to find the necessary
information. It is so easy to find it. I
would love to post a few links to reading
material i used, as well as the product i
bought that really gave me the info i
needed to start curing my premature
ejaculation. The links can easily be found
by searching google for things like
"premature ejaculation articles" and
"cures for premature ejaculation" There is
TONS of information products for
reasonable prices and free information for
those willing to dig around for it.
Let me email an administrator and double
check if i can put some links in the
forums first.
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lotus_man
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 05 Apr 2007 Posts: 10 Location: ,
Re: Plagued By Pe Continued Posted: 05-18-07 01:52am
Relyt
wrote:
I believe that people that
truly want to fix the problem will make
the effort themselves to find the
necessary information. It is so easy to
find it. I would love to post a few links
to reading material i used, as well as the
product i bought that really gave me the
info i needed to start curing my premature
ejaculation. The links can easily be found
by searching google for things like
"premature ejaculation articles" and
"cures for premature ejaculation" There is
TONS of information products for
reasonable prices and free information for
those willing to dig around for it.
Let me email an administrator and double
check if i can put some links in the
forums first.
go ahead and post them. i'm sure many
people on here have done that on google
and have found no success. just post them
up. there's lots of spammers on here
anyways.
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MandM
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 06 Dec 2006 Posts: 50
Re: Plagued By Pe Continued Posted: 05-18-07 20:25pm
Relyt
wrote:
I believe that people that
truly want to fix the problem will make
the effort themselves to find the
necessary information. It is so easy to
find it. I would love to post a few links
to reading material i used, as well as the
product i bought that really gave me the
info i needed to start curing my premature
ejaculation. The links can easily be found
by searching google for things like
"premature ejaculation articles" and
"cures for premature ejaculation" There is
TONS of information products for
reasonable prices and free information for
those willing to dig around for it.
Let me email an administrator and double
check if i can put some links in the
forums first.
Yes, there is tons of information out
there, but nothing conclusive thus far. I
still believe that there are different
types of PE. If you believe you were cured
in your case, you may have had an easily
curable type. Some people just need to
relax and pace, for some the stop and
start technique works, others have mental
blocks. Take your pick.
If you look a lot of the material on the
internet, especially various message
boards, most people's advice is either,
think of something non-sexual, kegels, or
pacing (relaxation). I believe most people
posting in this thread had tried them all.
Not that I'm saying that's what cured
you.
I remember seeing a half-way decent
program once. It offered a whole guide to
cure PE. No meds, just a total program. I
was intrigued, so I e-mailed them. I asked
a few questions. Now to my point. In my
e-mail I asked, if you really did have an
one-all cure for PE, why hasn't it got
recognition, why aren't there a ton of
unbiased people exclaiming the results? If
a real cure was found, I'm sure a lot of
people would be talking and I'm sure
someone would be advertising heavily,
because there would be a lot of money to
be made. Needless to say, no one ever
responded to my e-mail, and I showed great
interest in purchasing the program.
Do you see why I am skeptical? If
something really worked, wouldn't there be
a wild fire of raving reviews?
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havetofixit
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 May 2007 Posts: 3
Severe Pe Posted: 05-20-07 13:02pm
I have severe PE, 10 sec or less. But it
got started recently. I am now 50 y.o.
Does anyone know if this age has anything
to do with it. I never had this problem
before. I tried the pills, Detainx, and
about 2 other kind, but they did not help.
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HealthySex
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jan 2007 Posts: 414
Re: Severe Pe Posted: 05-21-07 14:44pm
havetofixit
wrote:
I have severe PE, 10 sec or
less. But it got started recently. I am
now 50 y.o. Does anyone know if this age
has anything to do with it. I never had
this problem before. I tried the pills,
Detainx, and about 2 other kind, but they
did not help.
If you've just recently started
experiencing severe PE, you might want to
talk to a doctor. Prostate infections
could be one cause of sudden PE, as well
as certain medications you may have
recently started.
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havetofixit
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 18 May 2007 Posts: 3
Re: Severe Pe Posted: 05-21-07 15:39pm
HealthySex
wrote:
havetofixit
wrote:
I have severe PE, 10 sec or
less. But it got started recently. I am
now 50 y.o. Does anyone know if this age
has anything to do with it. I never had
this problem before. I tried the pills,
Detainx, and about 2 other kind, but they
did not help.
If you've just recently started
experiencing severe PE, you might want to
talk to a doctor. Prostate infections
could be one cause of sudden PE, as well
as certain medications you may have
recently
started.
Thanks for the advice, but I haven't
started any new med, at least I am not
taking any med for that matter. I was
trying to avoid the Doc for now, as it is
embarassing, costly, so I had wanted to
get some suggestions from others and try
them first.
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HealthySex
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 09 Jan 2007 Posts: 414
Posted: 05-21-07 16:03pm
At your age it's a good idea to get
regular prostate exams anyway, so you
wouldn't necessarily have to say why.
What other reasons could cause sudden
onset PE, I don't know, so I'd want to
check on prostate issues. Especially if
you've been sexually active consistently
and have been consistently been PE free.
Any other changes lately? Diet, exercise,
stress/anxiety, new partner, etc.?
