Why did you come off of the AD Healthy, if
you don't mind me asking? Also, are all
AD's over-the-counter?
If we get to the third or fourth time in
about as many days, I'd say it gets to be
around 3 or 4 minutes, which, with my
usual time, is a vast improvement.
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HealthySex
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Posted: 06-06-07 16:59pm
I came of the AD, because I don't like
drugs. To me they're unhealthy and do
nothing more than cover symptoms rather
than cure the problem. I actually just
replied in another thread that will you
give you whole picture...
3 or 4 minutes is actually average believe
it or not. So if you were to be with your
woman more often you wouldn't be
considered as having PE. Who knows, maybe
after a "10 day weekend" you'd do even
better. Have you ever tried masturbating
beforehand? Do you masturbate during the
week, or do you approach the sex weekend
with a full load?
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Ben_R
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Posted: 06-06-07 20:26pm
Last Friday I believe I did about 4 hours
beforehand, and I got the same usual
result. But I've tried masterbating during
the week and not, and it doesn't change
anything.
It's a strange feeling, getting to that
third day in a row, I'm more confident and
I know what I'm doing more so then on that
first day, but after a few days rest it's
back to square one each time lol.
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POM82
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Posted: 06-08-07 13:11pm
Lol
i ordered one of those fake butts and
vaginas to see if it comes close to the
real thing and maybe work on some control,
its kind of like training for the real
thing. I think my penis is just to
sensitive so tmaybe this will help out.
Ill let you guys know if it helps
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POM82
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Circumsized Guys Posted: 06-14-07 09:09am
any cut guys have pe also??
im realy curious about this because Ive
read that since the glans are rubbing on
the inside of your pants the skin gets
tougher and gets used to physical contact
and is no longe hat sensitive, im curious
because im about to start an experiment
for a while and try and keep my foreskin
down and apparanlty from what ive read in
a couple of places the skin gets tougher
and less sensitive.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 06-14-07 10:36am
Both circumsized and uncircumsized men
have pe.
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POM82
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Posted: 06-14-07 10:46am
how do you know?
yove talked to cut guys with pe before?
severe pe or mild pe?
and to answer your question from the other
thread: to dull the sensitivity a bit and
last a little longer
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Tylanas
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Posted: 06-14-07 10:58am
POM82
wrote:
how do you know?
yove talked to cut guys with pe before?
severe pe or mild pe?
and to answer your question from the other
thread: to dull the sensitivity a bit and
last a little
longer
Yes, and both.
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Ben_R
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Joined: 03 Jun 2007 Posts: 6 Location: New York
Posted: 06-16-07 21:26pm
For anyone looking for a temporary fix, I
reccomend the Stud 100 Spray. Worked
wonderfully for me last night
I've read many posts here making this
topic sticky.
Therefore, we've decided (me & admin),
because it contains quality content, to
make it sticky.
Congrats, and keep this topic active, it
deserves, cause it's one of the biggest
problems men ever had.
Last edited by Astraion on 06-26-07 02:12am; edited 1 time in total
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MikeH90
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Re: Sticky Topic! Posted: 06-18-07 07:35am
Astraion
wrote:
I've read many posts here
making this topic sticky.
Therefore, we've decided (me & admin),
because it contains quality content, to
make it sticky.
Congrats, and keep this topic active, it
deserves, cause it's one of the biggest
problems men ever had.
awesome! thanks for the sticky!
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POM82
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Pull Your Balls Down Posted: 06-18-07 10:46am
read this somwhere and it helps, yesterday
while experimenting , I was about to come,
I grabbed my balls and pulled them down
for a couple seconds, like stretching them
and it helped me carry on a bit longer and
the longer I did this the longer I lasted
each time. Gonna try it again to see if
it works again
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MandM
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Joined: 06 Dec 2006 Posts: 50
Posted: 06-18-07 21:02pm
Astraion
wrote:
I've read many posts here
making this topic sticky.
Therefore, we've decided (me & admin),
because it contains quality content, to
make it sticky.
Congrats, and keep this topic active, it
deserves, cause it's one of the biggest
problems men ever had.
Sorry it's been a few weeks since I've
posted anything.
Well thank you very much for making this
thread a sticky. I was wondering though,
can the thread title be renamed? I just
looked at the first page, and there seems
to be a ton of new PE threads. Maybe if
new posters saw the title sticky more
clearly, they wouldn't need to start a new
topic. Just a suggestion.
First off, I've been circumsized my entire
life, and I still have a bad case of PE.
For the most part, I don't think it
matters all that much. I remember reading
something at some point about keeping your
shaft moisturized to help get used to the
sensations. I tried applying moisturizing
cream to my penis every morning, with the
hope of getting used to a silky, wet
feeling. I don't think that really worked
either.
I am beginning to think that this
sensitivity cannot be tamed; maybe at
least in some cases. I mean, I've been
masterbating for many years with lube,
using the stop-and-start technique. My
endurance is no different now than 10
years ago. The issue of sensitivity has
been my main point of discussion with
regard to PE.
A lot of people have gotten around to
using the "Stud" spray. It seems to have
worked for most, not in every case, but
most. Now, if PE was a result of a
psychological problem, wouldn't we
ejaculate quickly in every situation, no
matter if we used nothing or if we used a
numbing agent? There has to be this
"hard-wired" ejaculation reflex. Thus when
we use a numbing agent, we are delaying
this reflex.
Do we have an overabundance of nerves at
the tip of our shaft? Where are all the
medical scientists. They tried making that
"Dapoxitine" (Sp?) stuff, but the FDA
wouldn't approve it for PE. I think that
the SSRI's work because delayed
ejaculation is just a side-effect. The Med
companies could make a ton of $$ of a
real-deal product for us.
Mike, How's everything been going with
you? Have you still been using the Stud
spray?
POM, I heard about that technique too.
I've tried that a couple times while
masterbating, and it worked just a tad,
but not enough for me. Keep us informed
how it works for you. I've also read about
pushing in (decent pressure) the skin that
goes between your anus and your sac, that
little flap of skin. That's delayed me
slighty. It feels a little odd at first,
but not bad. Give that a try too
One tip I can give, if you have sex and
you are worried about your PE; try doing
it doggy-style. This way you can stick
your shaft all the way in. But don't pull
out too much, just maybe and inch or two
and go in and out only a little bit, this
way most of the sensation is rubbing
against the base of your penis, instead of
the head. This also gives you control.
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MikeH90
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Posted: 06-19-07 07:15am
MandM
wrote:
Astraion
wrote:
I've read many posts here
making this topic sticky.
Therefore, we've decided (me & admin),
because it contains quality content, to
make it sticky.
Congrats, and keep this topic active, it
deserves, cause it's one of the biggest
problems men ever had.
Sorry it's been a few weeks since I've
posted anything.
Well thank you very much for making this
thread a sticky. I was wondering though,
can the thread title be renamed? I just
looked at the first page, and there seems
to be a ton of new PE threads. Maybe if
new posters saw the title sticky more
clearly, they wouldn't need to start a new
topic. Just a suggestion.
MandM - good to see you back. The stud
spray is still the only thing that is
working for me. However, the degree it
works to is based on careful application.
I've found that I must apply it when
flaccid and making sure that I get it to
'mist' when I spray it, covering my head
and underside of shaft (my two most
sensitive parts). Then it must dry
completely, which gives it time to
activate. Now I will admit that my orgasm
is effected somewhat as I can't feel the
intensity as much and if you really spray
on a lot its hard to keep banging away
(stamina is not a strong point with us
that normally don't go that long, ha ha)
to get to the point of coming.
I guess I'm saying that you really need to
use it and find the best way to get it to
work ideally. Example - the can says spray
3 times, well I need usually 4 squirts.
Once it was 2. For me it also depends on
the amount of sex I'm getting. If we do it
every night for a week, by the end of the
week I probably would't need but 1 squirt.
If we haven't had sex for 3 weeks I doubt
4 squirts would help much.
I understand your questioning the
pyscological aspect of it, however, I
really believe that there are multiple
types of PE. So like in my case, it is a
sensitivity issue, where somone else's
might be all in their head. That is why it
is so difficult to find something that
will work for the general mass.
I too mastubated a lot in my younger days,
and still do when I don't get enough sex,
and I've tried the stop start tech. during
sex and mastubation and it has never cured
it.
It's a struggle, definitely and with this
post hopefully we can help each other out
with our experiments and more importantly
develop a strong support group.
mike
First off, I've been circumsized my entire
life, and I still have a bad case of PE.
For the most part, I don't think it
matters all that much. I remember reading
something at some point about keeping your
shaft moisturized to help get used to the
sensations. I tried applying moisturizing
cream to my penis every morning, with the
hope of getting used to a silky, wet
feeling. I don't think that really worked
either.
I am beginning to think that this
sensitivity cannot be tamed; maybe at
least in some cases. I mean, I've been
masterbating for many years with lube,
using the stop-and-start technique. My
endurance is no different now than 10
years ago. The issue of sensitivity has
been my main point of discussion with
regard to PE.
A lot of people have gotten around to
using the "Stud" spray. It seems to have
worked for most, not in every case, but
most. Now, if PE was a result of a
psychological problem, wouldn't we
ejaculate quickly in every situation, no
matter if we used nothing or if we used a
numbing agent? There has to be this
"hard-wired" ejaculation reflex. Thus when
we use a numbing agent, we are delaying
this reflex.
Do we have an overabundance of nerves at
the tip of our shaft? Where are all the
medical scientists. They tried making that
"Dapoxitine" (Sp?) stuff, but the FDA
wouldn't approve it for PE. I think that
the SSRI's work because delayed
ejaculation is just a side-effect. The Med
companies could make a ton of $$ of a
real-deal product for us.
Mike, How's everything been going with
you? Have you still been using the Stud
spray?
POM, I heard about that technique too.
I've tried that a couple times while
masterbating, and it worked just a tad,
but not enough for me. Keep us informed
how it works for you. I've also read about
pushing in (decent pressure) the skin that
goes between your anus and your sac, that
little flap of skin. That's delayed me
slighty. It feels a little odd at first,
but not bad. Give that a try too
One tip I can give, if you have sex and
you are worried about your PE; try doing
it doggy-style. This way you can stick
your shaft all the way in. But don't pull
out too much, just maybe and inch or two
and go in and out only a little bit, this
way most of the sensation is rubbing
against the base of your penis, instead of
the head. This also gives you
control.
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NYC216
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Posted: 06-19-07 10:06am
finally going to a urologist next week. I
made my appointment already. I'm thinking
he's going to prescribe me some SSRI's
which from what i have read help very much
in a dramatic way. like from 2min to 15min
even more after a long period of use. so
i'll keep u updated on my visit and
process. anyone experience anything who
had pe whith SSRI's?
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Jim76
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Two Tips For You... Posted: 06-20-07 20:13pm
Until recently, I had pe worse than
you...we are talking 20 seconds. I did
some research and found out about multiple
male orgasms. The basics are this:
Most women don't mind if you ejaculate
early as long as your penis stays hard and
you can continue to have sex and satisfy
her. Unfortunately for most men an
ejaculation is usually followed by the
erection going limp. What most men don't
realize is....
The penis is a muscle. Like any muscle,
if you want it to perform you have to work
it out. I know this sounds weird but it
worked for me. Spend a few minutes a day
flexing your penis muscles. How do you
flex it you may ask? Next time you are
peeing concentrate on suddenly stopping
the flow. The muscle you used to stop the
flow is your penis muscle. Now that you
know how to flex it, replicate the feeling
while you are not peeing or erect..hold it
for 2 seconds and then release. Do this
40 or 50 times in a row everyday. After
some practice you find that you can flex
this muscle after an ejaculation and your
penis will remain hard after a minute of
more sex your penis will become stimulated
again and you will not have to flex it in
order for it to stay hard. I have been
able to do this for up to 4 orgasms. In
my experience the time between each orgasm
will increase up to 5 or 6 minutes. 20
minutes of sex is usually enough time for
my girlfriend to come.
Another thing that is unrelated that has
seemed to help me is goji berry juice. I
started taking it a couple of months ago
to help me sleep...which it has, but I
also noticed that it seems to slow down my
quick trigger. I have not found any
information that backs my findings but
goji is know to have a wide range of
benefits. [link removed]
Good luck.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 06-20-07 20:15pm
That muscle that stops the flow of urine
is the keegle muscle (spelling) and has
already been suggested by others on here,
but it's always good to revive the
knowledge. Several men have reported mixed
results using keegle excersizes. Keegal?
lol. I'm not sure.
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Jim76
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Keegle Eh... Posted: 06-20-07 20:42pm
I knew that muscle had a name, thanks.
Sorry for the repeat. I guess my only new
info to give then is try goji
worst case scenerio...you'll sleep like a
baby.
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MandM
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Joined: 06 Dec 2006 Posts: 50
Posted: 06-20-07 21:15pm
Jim,
I'm glad that the Kegal excercises has
worked well for you. I tried them a while
ago. I do believe that it gave me a
stronger orgasm, but I'm not so sure that
it helped my first-time stamina. I did
some research on this, and there is some
consensus that excercising the kegel
muscles will actually make you ejaculate
even quicker because you are invoking your
ejaculation reflex while flexing the kegel
muscles. Imagine how you excercise your
kegel muscles; you are pretty much pumping
your penis, as you would when you
ejaculate. There was also some consensus
that "reverse-kegels" were more effective
(a few pages back).
Thanks for the link to the goji juice, I
will take a gander.
NYC - Definately let us know how it goes,
I am very interested in what the doctor
tells you.
The spray has always been temperamental
for me as well. I am actually just about
out of it now, so I think I am going to
order it online. I think I originally
spent $35 at an Adult novelty store.
I always try to let the spray absorb as
long as I can before intercourse.
Sometimes that is not possible. It's very
difficult to be in the moment, and then
say wait a few minutes while it soaks in.
That's kind of a mood killer for the
woman. I try to spray it on and still
prolong foreplay.
I am still trying to find out what seems
to be a rhetorical question. Does someone
who doesn't have PE, still feel the same
sensations as someone who does have it.
Can someone who has tried a SSRI give me a
comparison of how sex felt on medication?
Did you still feel all the sensations, or
was is like more of a physical dull
sensation on the penis.
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gonzo69
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Joined: 21 Jun 2007 Posts: 7 Location: UK
Posted: 06-21-07 06:15am
i'm 18 and having had only one sexual
partner that didn't involve full
penetration, only everything up to that, i
really can't speak for myself but i've
heard this topic discussed a lot.
apparently what can really help is just
when you feel yourself beginning to
climax, just pull out. be open with the
girl that this is a problem and you can
work through it. stopping for a minute
then going back in for another round is
better than stopping for the entire night.
apparently it's kind of like working out,
the more you deny yourself ejaculation the
better you get at lasting longer.
