the Ultimate Premature Ejaculation Discussion

been doing this the past couple of days and it still works
i tried it with lube also and the feeling is better but still the same technique
gonna try this with my gf tonight

what do you guys think about this? if there is no foreskin covering the glans its gotta lose some sensitivity? Im literally at my witts end with PE and am ready to try something drastic. Its always on my mind and has caused me enough caca in my life that I am willing to get cut to reduce the feeling...

Well i was finally prescribe Paxil ( anti-depresseant) for my premature ejaculation problem. I was prescibed 12.5 mg So i hope this works. And i can go from 30 sec. to atleast 10min. I would be very happy. Any body have taken Paxil? if so did it help?

hey NYC,
please let us know the results with PAxil because I might consider it instead of getting a circumsision. Thanks dude

I was reading through the whole discussion again and came across something interesting...VIVAXA, has anyone tried this? Its not supposed to be a numbing cream even though one guy who wrote a review said it numbed him and whis wife. Its supposed to decrease sensitivity to your shadt and head but you gotta apply everyday like a treatment. This is interesting I might try it.

The other was robitussin caplets with DXM in them, these are supposed to help too. I bought some and hopefully will try them out soon.

Where is everybody, out using the stud spray probably

wow.. apparently, more than 25,000 people looked for a cure on this forum!

yesterday I smoked a joint with my firends. When i got home I was really stoned and really horny so righ before going to bed I went on my favorite porn links site and started to beat the monkey, I was going really fast because I was really horny so It didnt last long, I didnt want it to last long anyways because I was horny and wanted to get to bed. The point is even without rubbing my penis head it didnt last long so it cant be only because of physical sensation that I and other have PE. Its also a reflex that the body has and is diffrent from person to person.

The things I cant explain is how come stud spray works for most people here if its not only Physical but reflex too??? (i Havent tried but soon will)

Sendond thing is I was stoned so I dont know if this makes a diffrence or not but I can tell you for sure that even not stoned If im as hory as I was last night I would of lasted the same time.

Im happy I made this discovery because I was considering getting circumsized to reduce sensation over time but now that I know this I proabaly wont go through with it. Im still gonna go to my doctors appointment and discuss it wih him and see his opinion.

has anyone tried practicing on a hooker?

cause since we know that, theoretically, a ho has no expectations whatsoever regarding your performance (the sooner you're done, pay and leave, the better), that should help with anxiety;

i hate the catch 22 aspect of PE and i'm thinking that might help.

dude, you what, thats actually crossed my mind a couple of times but never ended up doing it, id rather be honest with a girl im getting to know, that should releive most of the anxiety if she knows your worries. just havent found the right girl yet.

i just discovered this thread and read most of it... it seems that many couples who are married, have feelings for each other and all that are still embarrassed/ annoyed by PE and avoid discussing the topic big time; or they somehow end up blaming each other;

bottom line, it's not easy to just take a girl to starbucks and discuss anti PE techniques over a frapuccino.

plus, with all the available studs, why would anyone wait for you to fix your toy... when you go shopping for something that's sold everywhere, you don't chose the one store that sells broken stuff; and, if say you did find that one great and understanding girl who turned out to be the love of your life, you'd want to be ready by then.

btw, POM how's your fake vagina working? did you get the vagina+ butt thing or you got them separately ?

i got the vagina plus butt thing, it aint that great cause the vagina is ribbed inside which makes the feeling 10x better than a real vagina so its insanely hard to try and control in that thing. ive stopped using it fo that reason, its nice but not close to a warm, wet vagina.

i know what you mean about being ready for he right girl, thats how i see it too, I wanna fix my problem so i can sleep with as many girls as possible and do what ive been wanting to do for so long. but this damn pe keeps me from doing that, but the trick is not letting that stop you from going out there and meeting girls, can you say catch22!

see, when i meet a girl that i like (and i'm not even trying to find a girlfriend, but things happen) i just skip the sex chapter altogether; of course, that doesn't go unnoticed and eventually the relationship dies.

on the other hand, i meet all this girls on the internet, girls that are looking for sex and nothing else; so they're basically shopping around for the daddy of all studs
I don't want to think how frustrating it must be for them when instead they end up with me, the ultimate minute man;
but what can you do? such is life... if i tell them (tried that once) the party is canceled altogether.

i once saw this video where a few hundred chinese were screwing in a warehouse; i need something like that, where you can go about your business without anyone paying much attention to what you're doing; when you're one-on -one, if your dick goes limp, there's a good chance she'll notice.

lol.. i just noticed that if you say di#$ they'll replace it with penis

100 chinese gus screwing around in a warehouse?? youre pretty nasty dude but thats cool. dont want to sound like some goody two shoes but honesty is the way to go i think, but good luck to you in finding that warehouse lol

oh, absolutely, if you think she'll still do it, honesty is the way to go;
i say, along with the medicine, doctors should provide a chick to practice it on, wouldn't that be great?

yeah but like i posted earlier, i dont think cumming is only about the stimualation or feeling we get around the glans, i think its mental too because of what happened to me while jerking it yesterday.

yeah i definately think its a mental thing too. I find that I tend to blow the most when I know she is enjoying it. Like if she say's she is about to cum or starts moaning in that certain way then its all over for me.

There is no hope.

question for the guys who took ssri: this may sound trivial , but did you gain any weight while on antidepressants?
i just got my generic zoloft that i ordered on the internet and i'm about to give it a shot;

this PE thing got me depressed anyway, so i'll take the drug for PE, hoping that it will cure my depression too, as a side effect.