hey guys as most of u know my sons father
refused to belive that dominick was his..
Well of course the dna test proved he was
and now he wants to be a part.. But he
doesnt exactly know how yet.... Weither
its relationship with dominick or
paying... Well he knows he has to pay
either way.. He also wants us to have a
good enough relationship to talk about
everything and not get mad at each
other... And he is gonna buy dominick a
crib:d he is gonna get his thoughts
together on how big of a part of doms life
he wants to be and he is gonna call me
again on monday or wednesday.. He is
startin to show some maturity.. When I
talked to him my old feelings came back:(
noooo just wanted to share.. Someone
smack me so my feelings for him go
away!!!
Well,
i only have one thing to say: he wants to
what? Decide how big of a part of his
sons life he wants to be a part of???????
Tell him, he is that boys daddy. You
don't "decide" you just
do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Lol
well girl,
good luck you know you are a good mother
and you'll be great no matter how this
goes!
Love,
chanda
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dominicksmommy
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 04 Jan 2004 Posts: 279
Posted: 02-13-04 19:35pm
Hey chanda
yeh I know that and I told him that....
But if he doesnt want to be emotionally
involved with dominick then its almost
better that he doesnt be...U know.. It
wouldnt be benefical for dominick to have
a father in the picture who doesnt really
want to be....He knows he has to have some
involvment with his son so thats a good
start compared to wat he was pulling
before
