I really want to ask my friend to
masturbate with me but i don't know how
to? And he told me he used to masturbate
and he doesn't any more...What should i
do? And is this gay?
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Llewellyn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 03-09-07 20:49pm
Whether or not it is "gay" is an opinion.
People have different ideas about
sexuality.
If you are not ready to talk about it with
him, you might want to hold off on doing
it. I am not going to ask him for you or
give you a script of what to say. You
know him better than we do, so you would
be a better judge of how to bring that up
with him. If you are really ready to do
it, and are ready to do that with him,
then you should be ready to talk about it.
Only you can decide exactly how to do
that. You can hint or just come out with
it. It's up to you, what you know about
him, how open he is about that stuff, and
if you think he would be offended or
uncomfortable. There are a lot of
variables to consider in deciding just how
to bring it up, and you know more about
all of them than we do.
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Jaydensmommy
Advanced Support Team
Joined: 28 Jan 2004 Posts: 1689 Location: Wisconsin
Posted: 03-11-07 20:22pm
There is nothing wrong with that and it is
no ones opinion to think its "gay" as the
previous posted stated. I know of a guy
who did this and he was not gay or
bisexual. And to this day is not
attracted to men, its just something he
experimented with. I'd just make sure
your comfortable asking/mentioning it to
him.
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Llewellyn
Extremely EHEALTHy
Joined: 21 Jan 2007 Posts: 1743 Location: NY
Posted: 03-12-07 00:07am
Jaydensmommy
wrote:
and it is no ones opinion
to think its "gay" as the previous posted
stated.
That's not entirely accurate if I
understand you correctly. I only point it
out because people actually do define
sexuality in many different ways. I am
not saying that I disagree with you in
general, or that I would call it "gay."
My point is that what is and is not "gay"
might differ depending on who you ask. So
it actually is a matter of opinion.
Now, if you meant to say "it is no one's
business" or something like that, then I
would certainly agree. If it's something
he wants to do, and if he really feel
ready to do it, then I think he should go
for it. I don't think anything is wrong
with it by any means. I don't think he
should care what other people think. I
just wanted to let him know that he might
get a variety of answers for whether or
not it is "gay."
